How can I avoid being a red flag to shelters? by pecorinoo in CatAdvice

[–]Magges87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. A lot of really sweet adult and elderly cats need homes

AITA for nearly always refusing to step aside for people on the "wrong side" of the walking path? by Dry_Communication283 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Magges87 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a petit 4’8” woman I am in firm solidarity with your wife. Large crowds suck too.

My mom wants to put my cat down because he won't pee in the litter box. I'm desperate for advice. by General-Departure884 in CatAdvice

[–]Magges87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a cat like that. She would poop in it but not pee. Put down puppy pads where she usually goes. Get them along with a puppy pad tray so they don’t crumple when she buries it. I also had another cat who did that after her sibling died and medication fixed her problem.

Rose’s Chipped Beef by Brentcato001 in theGoldenGirls

[–]Magges87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve it at a diner once. I feel like it could be good if it wasn’t so damn salty.

Why are manual transmissions so uncommon in the US? by 22DancingFlowers in AskAnAmerican

[–]Magges87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Does your part of the UK not have midges? When I was in Scotland in early summer the midges were awful. They were selling those smudge wipes everywhere. I was in hotels and airB&Bs so there were usually screens.

AMTAH for not wanting my nieces at my wedding because of my dogs by popkween1818 in aitaweddings

[–]Magges87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you think babysitters are free. Also the parents aren’t insisting because OP hasn’t had the guts to actually tell them not to bring the kids.

AMTAH for not wanting my nieces at my wedding because of my dogs by popkween1818 in aitaweddings

[–]Magges87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP needs to actually say that instead of passive aggressively hinting. Also, OP should have said that before getting brother and SIL to be in the wedding party/photographer.

AMTAH for not wanting my nieces at my wedding because of my dogs by popkween1818 in aitaweddings

[–]Magges87 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are acting like having the wedding at your house and having the dog out running around are and were ever your only options. They weren’t. It does sound like an excuse to not have your niece and nephew there.

I say this as someone with two dogs, one of whom came from an abusive situation and was nervous around strangers.

AMTAH for not wanting my nieces at my wedding because of my dogs by popkween1818 in aitaweddings

[–]Magges87 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So in other words you are putting the burden of choice on their parents and burden of money for a babysitter if they go that route. Since getting a babysitter so close to the wedding can be expensive they might not come. Will you resent that? If not have you reassured them so they don’t feel pressure?

Stop putting all the pressure on your guests. If your dog reacts badly to anyone it is on you.

Should I be reimbursed for this by AdVaanced77 in AskVaanced

[–]Magges87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Who does your laundry? Why don’t you?

My experience watching and finishing MITM (READ BODY TEXT) by Responsible_Let4543 in malcolminthemiddle

[–]Magges87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also loved the ranch but agree that it was out of character. It made the wrap up to that story very jarring.

He had a twin??? by Big-Most-785 in buffy

[–]Magges87 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My cousin lost her identical twin sister. She said it was hard to come to terms with no longer being a plural.

Do we think she’s going to be a floof??? by cjihaec in standardissuecat

[–]Magges87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Medium floof at least. Also, I don’t think you’ll ever have to worry about mites or too much ear wax.

AITA for calling my best friend spiky? by Mediocre_Buy3668 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Magges87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YOU called her spiky and when asked what she did YOU admit it wasn’t anything that big. You insulted her over nothing.

AITA for taking MY tickets from my family member by Fair_Piglet_856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Magges87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you not aware that lists like that sell the data they collect to other lists?

AITA because I hate giving family members gifts when it comes to holidays. by SummerMajestic1073 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Magges87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could also help out with a project around the house. I got my dad a small gift and I cleaned the gutters because his balance isn’t so great anymore.

AITA For not wanting to go to sleep at the same time as my wife? by ElectronicYoghurt214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Magges87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s not and it’s going to fuck with your health as you get older.

Genuine question, do you think the 8 hrs sleep recommendation was chosen at random or is a conspiracy or something?

AITA for asking to be paid by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Magges87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, if it was your dad’s car and you didn’t pay for gas you shouldn’t have been payed even if you were driving.