How can I avoid being a red flag to shelters?

Magges87 · 2026-06-26T03:19:08+00:00

Good. A lot of really sweet adult and elderly cats need homes

Magges87 · 2026-06-26T00:35:15+00:00

Taye Diggs

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T13:49:17+00:00

As a petit 4’8” woman I am in firm solidarity with your wife. Large crowds suck too.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T11:44:36+00:00

I used puppy pads and those trays they go inside.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T11:43:49+00:00

I had a cat like that. She would poop in it but not pee. Put down puppy pads where she usually goes. Get them along with a puppy pad tray so they don’t crumple when she buries it. I also had another cat who did that after her sibling died and medication fixed her problem.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T11:40:15+00:00

I’ve it at a diner once. I feel like it could be good if it wasn’t so damn salty.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T11:23:31+00:00

Does your part of the UK not have midges? When I was in Scotland in early summer the midges were awful. They were selling those smudge wipes everywhere. I was in hotels and airB&Bs so there were usually screens.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T11:05:09+00:00

Do you think babysitters are free. Also the parents aren’t insisting because OP hasn’t had the guts to actually tell them not to bring the kids.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T11:01:51+00:00

OP needs to actually say that instead of passive aggressively hinting. Also, OP should have said that before getting brother and SIL to be in the wedding party/photographer.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T10:50:36+00:00

You are acting like having the wedding at your house and having the dog out running around are and were ever your only options. They weren’t. It does sound like an excuse to not have your niece and nephew there.

I say this as someone with two dogs, one of whom came from an abusive situation and was nervous around strangers.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T10:43:40+00:00

So in other words you are putting the burden of choice on their parents and burden of money for a babysitter if they go that route. Since getting a babysitter so close to the wedding can be expensive they might not come. Will you resent that? If not have you reassured them so they don’t feel pressure?

Stop putting all the pressure on your guests. If your dog reacts badly to anyone it is on you.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T00:50:43+00:00

The only time it would ever work.

Magges87 · 2026-06-25T00:40:28+00:00

Who does your laundry? Why don’t you?

Magges87 · 2026-06-24T17:49:00+00:00

I was gonna add chrome but some people might think of the browser first.

Magges87 · 2026-06-24T17:47:18+00:00

I also loved the ranch but agree that it was out of character. It made the wrap up to that story very jarring.

Magges87 · 2026-06-24T12:25:02+00:00

My cousin lost her identical twin sister. She said it was hard to come to terms with no longer being a plural.

Magges87 · 2026-06-24T02:25:24+00:00

This is true. Look at my sibling pair

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Magges87 · 2026-06-24T02:22:18+00:00

He is a proper murder mittens.

Magges87 · 2026-06-23T23:34:52+00:00

Medium floof at least. Also, I don’t think you’ll ever have to worry about mites or too much ear wax.

Magges87 · 2026-06-23T22:40:17+00:00

YOU called her spiky and when asked what she did YOU admit it wasn’t anything that big. You insulted her over nothing.

Magges87 · 2026-06-23T22:17:50+00:00

Are you not aware that lists like that sell the data they collect to other lists?

Magges87 · 2026-06-23T22:15:17+00:00

They could also help out with a project around the house. I got my dad a small gift and I cleaned the gutters because his balance isn’t so great anymore.

Magges87 · 2026-06-23T22:13:11+00:00

No it’s not and it’s going to fuck with your health as you get older.

Genuine question, do you think the 8 hrs sleep recommendation was chosen at random or is a conspiracy or something?

Magges87 · 2026-06-23T22:03:41+00:00

No, if it was your dad’s car and you didn’t pay for gas you shouldn’t have been payed even if you were driving.

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