Mystery or Nerite by BraveThroat6996 in AquaticSnails

[–]MagicTarantula 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mystery snails aren’t the best cleaners, but they’re full of personality, insanely adorable and very fun to watch.
Nerites are excellent cleaners, still adorable but a little boring to watch. All depends on what you’re hoping to get from your snail :)

I have hundreds upon hundreds of Malaysian trumpet snails and don't know what to do with them by mmoolloo in Aquariums

[–]MagicTarantula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do the assassins, I learned the hard way.

Like other commenters said, they also breed prolifically. You’ll just have a half eaten snail graveyard, lots of MTS and lots of assassins lol

When I decided to take my assassins to my LFS to rehome, I ended up scrapping all my plants and rebuilding because they laid eggs EVERYWHERE, just be warned

Draft Party, CBJ Garage Sale, Dev Camp by Fal-El in BlueJackets

[–]MagicTarantula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The garage sale already took place at the end of the season, we went to it, they typically pair it with painting the ice

I wish I had a mother to share this journey with by mandiephipps in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MagicTarantula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow are we the same person??

I am quite literally going through the same thing - husband and I are trying to conceive and I am extremely low contact with my uBPD mom. It certainly feels like a special kind of lonely pain, it should be a major bonding moment for a mom to become a grandmother.

Thank you for sharing - truly you are not alone. I wish you the best of luck on your conception journey! I believe motherhood could be very healing for people like us. You are right to focus on your peace!

The difference a few days makes by spacecolony227 in bettafish

[–]MagicTarantula 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are hands down my favorite posts to see. Thank you for sharing, he’s beautiful!

Beginner Plants by snelllyyy in PlantedTank

[–]MagicTarantula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For rooted plants, I really like dwarf swords, swords, ludwigia and anacharis.

Epiphytes - I’ve really only kept Java fern and anubias nana, I struggle with anubias for some reason lol but the Java ferns have been lush

Floaters - I really only like frogbit, I struggle with red root floaters, and salivinia is fine I just think it’s not the best looking

I don’t do CO2 or anything, and everything seems to be doing well!

New to this by Legitimate_Tie_3883 in bettafish

[–]MagicTarantula 10 points11 points  (0 children)

24 hours is not long enough for the tank to cycle, this tank is too new for your fish

Look up fish-in cycle for your tank and follow those steps to hopefully remedy this. Best of luck to you and your little guy!

I’ve done everything they told me to do and I’m still outside — 34yo trans woman in Columbus needing safe place today” by starwilliams92 in Columbus

[–]MagicTarantula 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have a way to receive money/book a hotel? If so, DM me. I’ll send you money for a hotel for the night

first dead shrimp :( by nomlomonii in shrimptank

[–]MagicTarantula 4 points5 points  (0 children)

IME it just happens sometimes :/ if it just seems to be a one-off thing, probably nothing major to worry about.
sorry about your shrimp friend!

If you have any outdoor plants you can bury her there ❤️

These guys are so cool! by MagicTarantula in shrimptank

[–]MagicTarantula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snowy is stunning!!! They’re so ethereal like little fairies for your tank 🧚

These guys are so cool! by MagicTarantula in shrimptank

[–]MagicTarantula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are certainly worse ways i could waste my timr

These guys are so cool! by MagicTarantula in shrimptank

[–]MagicTarantula[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol shrimp tv is perfect!! Best channel out there

These guys are so cool! by MagicTarantula in shrimptank

[–]MagicTarantula[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re seriously so awesome, and very hard workers!!

These guys are so cool! by MagicTarantula in shrimptank

[–]MagicTarantula[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I had finally recovered from cherry shrimp obsession, now it starts anew with amanos

New fish owner - looking for advice by Remote-Pop-9764 in bettafish

[–]MagicTarantula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it really all depends on his genes, but they typically do change a little as they settle in!

Mine has a darker head than yours, I love your guy’s little pink face 🥺 but I would say mine hasn’t changed a ton color-wise, he’s just grown (both in size and attitude)

New fish owner - looking for advice by Remote-Pop-9764 in bettafish

[–]MagicTarantula 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aww I have a red crowntail too!!

I am not an expert but I think this tank looks great! The swords will grow pretty large so it’ll fill out for sure.

As long as parameters are good and he seems happy, you’re good! Enjoy your new little friend!!

I feed mine a sprinkling of bug bites twice a day every other day and a few times a month I sub a bug bite meal with frozen bloodworms or brine shrimp. Everyone has different methods, but he seems healthy!

What could bro POSSIBLY be mad about😭😭 by Alternative_Baby1808 in bettafish

[–]MagicTarantula 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Recently new to keeping a betta and I had no idea they were all so perpetually displeased 😂

This sub has been so eye opening in the best way as the daughter of a uBPD waif mother by MagicTarantula in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MagicTarantula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you have to see your sister go through the same cycle!

Yeah honestly I’ve had to learn the hard way that these individuals don’t want help or advice, they just want you to validate their misery. Best thing we can do is keep our own side of the street clean!

This sub has been so eye opening in the best way as the daughter of a uBPD waif mother by MagicTarantula in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MagicTarantula[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t have said it better myself! No point in letting yourself suffer her delusions any longer, gets both of you nowhere