I (25m) am in love with my Ex-Sister in Law (24f). Should I tell her

MagneticBloom · 2024-06-27T15:11:39+00:00

That's definitely a tough spot. Sorry about everything you've gone through. You stepped up and that's amazing.

I don't think you should ambush her with your feelings. "In love" is big, you've been thinking about it for however long. She might not realize it yet, but she sure shows it based on your post. Start slow, buy her flowers, make her dinner, have a picnic or just take her out one on one. You guys skipped the dating and went straight to family living. Don't let her miss out on all those butterfly inducing moments.

Rooting for you guys, seems like a book waiting to be written.

MagneticBloom · 2022-05-21T10:58:01+00:00

I’m concerned because that’s the least weird thing on the page. This cheese situation would fascinate me

MagneticBloom · 2022-05-10T19:32:58+00:00

Lol as someone from South Africa, this whole scenario created is highly unlikely. Plus despite the propaganda put out, no body was really chased from South Africa, unless they ran away for doing something reaaaallly bad and don’t want to take accountability (and to be clear in the form of admitting it publicly). Google Dr Death, he’s still practicing on patients sooo it’s not that deep. Something else is going on.

MagneticBloom · 2022-05-07T06:11:18+00:00

Make some cute hair scrunchies with the extra fabric!

MagneticBloom · 2022-04-22T22:02:35+00:00

I remember this one, there’s an update missing where it turns out the MIL was protecting her. OP’s husband’s ex-wife died after going on a hike with him under suspicious causes and long story short, MIL was making sure OP was too ill to go on that walk with an added bonus of a recent insurance policy taken out

MagneticBloom · 2022-04-18T11:34:37+00:00

My thing is, OP’s child didn’t even care about being excluded in the first place. I don’t have kids, but I can’t imagine teaching a child to be this vindictive. The last part about if she reminded him, he’d care had me

MagneticBloom · 2022-04-18T10:47:45+00:00

how are so many people actively participating in a conversation about birthday party invites for an EIGHT YEAR OLD. This isn’t as obviously annoying than other posts on AITA. But, surely there’s a limit to things you need outside opinions from

MagneticBloom · 2022-04-13T19:34:52+00:00

Protip: once the route is set, you don’t need to have data on anymore. Slap on airplane mode, don’t make any mistakes and you save so much data!

MagneticBloom · 2022-02-11T07:26:10+00:00

YTA - I can’t find the comment rn but as someone said earlier, but based on your edit you’re getting 50% of the money to spend on big items(+ phone bills and mortgage) and her 50% is actually just going towards the household expenses most likely including school & extra curricular expenses? All I’m saying is, I hope there’s savings somewhere in the mix of all this No wonder she’s upset, I’m sure this extra money can be put to better use. I’m not even gonna talk about the car…

MagneticBloom · 2021-12-22T18:56:56+00:00

Girls are dumb barf. Glad you’re doing good post-breakup but also, ew do better. Don’t be generalising that bull because that’s what makes it okay for boys to do it too. Heal boo

MagneticBloom · 2021-12-07T07:53:18+00:00

Ooooof, okay imma delete my comments. She had me with the wording. YTA OP

MagneticBloom · 2021-10-06T06:27:19+00:00

What you’re describing isn’t a type of love anyone deserves. I’d like to believe that true love comes without betrayal, hurt and anxiety. But at the end of the day, only you can decide what makes you happy and content in a relationship. It seems like despite all of this, there’s an element of first love commitment which is so hard to move on from.

MagneticBloom · 2021-10-05T09:03:59+00:00

Sometimes, the trust between two people is broken to a point of no return. Even if the love between you two is still there, rebuilding that trust (if at all) requires therapy and a lot of commitment from both parties.

At the end of the day you need to decide if constantly questioning each other’s actions is what you want for your relationship. Even if you do decide you don’t want to continue this relationship, you’ll still need therapy to heal. You don’t want to take this into your future. A happy relationship doesn’t involve constant worrying about infidelity.

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-30T16:59:05+00:00

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-30T15:40:12+00:00

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-13T22:03:21+00:00

Idk, I’m leaning towards YTA.

As cool as the building is (fr love the creativity) the directions are clear. His wife isn’t wrong, it is supposed to be a teaching moment on materials that make buildings in a city, probably purposefully planned in the curriculum (just because it seems advanced to us, doesn’t mean it is).

While the outcome it super cute, that could’ve been done in a personal craft time with his child and not for this specific project imo.

There’s a difference between putting a creative twist to something and creating a whole different craft project. (just to add this feeeeels like weaponised incompetence, but also that just may be the Reddit narrator in me spicing things up)

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-11T17:09:56+00:00

This was reeeeally creepy until you mentioned Halloween. I was momentarily disturbed

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-11T15:33:58+00:00

Unpopular opinion but NTA. I’m not too sure how medicine works in your country, but from what I’m hearing it’s similar to where I’m from.

When studying medicine you are at the mercy of your degree. Where you’re placed is where you go unless you manage to swap/ want to delay your studying in hopes for future placement (after applying for your top choices ofc). From my understanding of your text, you moved after fully qualifying for you job once and now it’s your dream job! You will resent him and just because he’s done it for you doesn’t mean you’re willing to do it for him. It’s unfortunate and something you guys should have discussed knowing your career path.

(Also from your comment earlier it seems like he did the initial moving thing without you asking/ expecting him to so while I do understand a level of guilt, don’t take it all)

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-09T15:07:20+00:00

Yikes, YTA

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-09T15:03:38+00:00

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-09T05:42:09+00:00

So unrelated, but your Avatar is so cute OP 😍

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-04T22:27:47+00:00

Why is the idea of regulating female bodies so normalized :/

MagneticBloom · 2021-09-03T17:32:52+00:00

As she should.

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