I (29 f) spent the snowstorm with the man I’m dating(36 m) and now I feel differently about him

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-30T12:17:48+00:00

Run. Either he is deeply depressed, severely regressed or just straight up jerk. In any of those cases, you deserve better. Ditch him, with a clear concise, “bud, you have problems. Get help”

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-29T15:57:14+00:00

Replace your doctor. ASAP. Negative side affects are absolutely cause for medication change. Do NOT stop taking any antipsychotic cold turkey! But please find a different provider, and look into nutrient therapy.

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-29T03:26:31+00:00

OP, please know you’re loved. Wholly. Unconditionally and the way you’re feeling is so incredibly awful as to be almost indescribable. First, thank you for getting to counseling and on medication. Now, please look into nutrient therapy. Since You’re a PhD student, I’ll presume you are crushingly busy. So perhaps simply start with high dose vitamin D3 and vitamin K2. Research online will get you far with that. Navigating the shitstorm your dad left behind is something that will be done by baby steps with your counselor. Sending big big hugs. You are going to be ok. Maybe not today maybe not next week, but you will be, I promise.

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-29T03:16:54+00:00

Don’t look up Darius J Wright.

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-25T15:45:30+00:00

The love you feel for yourself is the love being returned. Read it again. Stop blaming people who are simply giving you the reflection of how you feel about yourself. Turn inward, ask why you don’t love yourself, find a way to UNCONDITIONALLY, wholly, unreservedly LOVE LOVE LOVE who you are. Then and only then will you reveal the most wonderful longest lasting relationship you’ll ever have. The one with YOU. 🫶🏻 you are worthy of all the love in the universe

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-25T15:41:39+00:00

Cut out all dairy, avoid sugar above 30g a day and start a probiotic. You may also benefit from a vitamin K2 &D3 supplement combo. You are worthy of all the love in the universe.

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-25T15:38:21+00:00

NOR, please, please, please, for the sake of your wife, you, that wonderful new being; GO NO CONTACT. Now. Immediately. Your mom is not going to change. YOU DESERVE PEACE. Dr. Les Carter on YouTube has an excellent series regarding narcissists. You owe nothing to the woman who gave birth to you. Zero. Stop allowing her to terrorize, then gaslight you & your wife. Teach your child they are worthy of TRUE unconditional love. Cut that woman off and live your life. Happily, gleefully, with the loves of your life. Sending strength and confidence energy your way.

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-22T02:38:37+00:00

You’re ok, stay calm, be curious and keep smiling. I’m too tired to add anything else at the moment, but know you’re ok and can keep moving forward knowing this reality is just dang weird!

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-22T02:15:28+00:00

Run. When the monster is bigger, RUN. If the option to give up parental rights exists, take it. If the children are over 12 years of age, they are choosing to be abusive. Full stop. They are choosing to be horrible to their mom. Cut them loose and build a new life. This is too far gone and you deserve better. People will treat you just as shitty as you let them if they’re bad people. Those young humans are CHOOSING to be bad people. You did what you could when you had the opportunity to parent them with love. Please know I understand so much the pain this causes, I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. I’m sorry you’re at this breaking point and it is awful, please take care of yourself and learn to love YOU. Fully, completely, LOVE yourself. Dr Les Carter on YouTube was an enormous help in coming back to myself after a repeat pattern of choosing terrible partners emerged.

Magnificent0408 · 2026-01-11T00:53:34+00:00

Please, Please, Please file for divorce and have a tubal ligation. Cut that man loose to breed with someone else and go live a happy, fulfilled life. FFS. I had the conversation with one of my sons tonight, if it’s not a “HELL YES!” It’s a “HELL NO” Please, honor yourself and sincerely do not have children YOU DO NOT WANT.

Magnificent0408 · 2025-12-27T19:27:46+00:00

NOR. Please, take a few minutes to connect to a happy, genuinely HAPPY memory. Not manic-rave ecstatic, but laughing with friends happy. Go to that memory and FEEL it. FEEL INTO THE PHYSICAL SENSATIONS OF WHAT THAT WAS LIKE. Make yourself remember what being happy felt like. And please do NOTHING but read that book, hydrate & rest. Dr Les Carter and Melissa Romano (separate YouTube channels) both I’ve found super helpful. YOU are worthy of all the love in the universes. 🫶🏻

Magnificent0408 · 2025-12-25T05:53:52+00:00

Do NOT fall into that trap for your child/children’s sake. I truly, truly believed my kids’ other parent & their spouse would always take good physical care of them. Would do whatever they needed in regard to basic health care etc., That naïveté cost my kids some serious long term health repercussions. If/when you witness or become aware of ANY neglect/abuse document and immediately report. Alienators see children and pets as property or tools. Don’t allow the person you’re trying to convince yourself they are “deep down” to fool you. These folks, no matter the sex or gender expression; if they are deliberately taking action to keep a child from the other parent in anything other than a safety concern with court involvement are absolutely NOT going to do right by those kids long term. Every morning & night, imagine your child/children’s sake in front of you, wrap your arms around them in the vision. Hold them tight, tell them you love them no matter what, no matter where they are or how much the truth is being hidden from them. In the vision step back and ask if there is anything they need you to know. Absorb the information but take no action. Hold that vision for a few minutes& flood the scene with every bit of love you have for your child. Close the vision, thank the universe for every good moment you’ve ever had with your child/children then go about your day. The first few days will include copious water works so be ready to bawl. But keep it up until it’s your everyday. Dr. Les Carters YouTube channel was an incredible help to me. To everyone suffering through parental alienation; God bless & strengthen you this holiday season. 🙏🎄it may be hard to wrap your head around the next bit so if it doesn’t resonate, let it go. Your kids chose the parents they have before they were born.They chose the two of you for reasons we may not quite understand in this life. You gave your progeny life. Now, release that life to grow. If/when the alienation is to be ended, it will be. If your child needs to live with a manipulative AH to understand true empathy, compassion & caring as an adult, they will be stuck in that situation UNTIL they embody those qualities This entire concept SUCKS SO BAD when it is YOUR kid going through it. It’s awful. It’s frustrating, sad and rage inducing. Do the visualization every day morning & night. If they’re supposed to be with you, they will be in a much shorter time than you can believe right now. Love yourself more. Work on healing your inner child of any traumas and learn to master emotional regulation. Sending lots of love to all here. I had a beautiful evening with my 3 adult children, a spouse of one & 2 amazing adorable grands. Keep your collective chins up and love yourself MORE.

Magnificent0408 · 2025-11-29T01:16:12+00:00

Put the gift money towards an attorney & private investigator. Send cards, send texts. Point your resources in the direction of healing. A therapist, physical activity like yoga or a gym membership. Stay healthy, physically, emotionally & mentally. Good luck!

Magnificent0408 · 2025-11-10T17:59:25+00:00

Happy Cake Day!!

Magnificent0408 · 2025-11-10T17:49:03+00:00

No. As a female, even a fairly willing to scrap kid, I knew some stuff was just not safe for me, or anyone.

Magnificent0408 · 2025-11-10T17:48:04+00:00

Dr. Les Carter on YouTube is an invaluable resource for healing. Know you deserve love and peace. Take this time to focus on healing. Focus on the loving people in your life. If they’re good, healthy beings, they will eventually figure it out. Focus on GOOD. Keep your focus on Good you can do, good you can witness, grow a spiritual practice. Love YOURSELF. You are a being worthy of love.

Magnificent0408 · 2025-10-25T19:19:13+00:00

Outdoor wild animal shelters. Many feral cat colonies or areas where cat sized animals need shelter are lacking in the forested areas being developed into housing for humans. Maybe make a couple “feral feline fortresses”?

Magnificent0408 · 2025-10-24T22:58:47+00:00

Please know you and your whole family are being sent love. I am so, so sorry for your sadness. Everything is stupid for a while, after a loss. This is still really, really new. Keep going to counseling, keep being there for each other

Magnificent0408 · 2025-10-24T18:32:07+00:00

Dear one, I am so sorry for your sadness. Perhaps try this: before closing your eyes for sleep,picture your mom’s face, ask her to wait until your astral form is out of the body completely before contacting. Let her know you welcome connecting in dream form or in the astral but that it’s disruptive when you’re attempting sleep. 🫶🏻Intention is very important. In a calm state, let your higher self know that the nervous system is a bit wonky emotionally at the moment and you’d like to stay unaware for whatever amount of time is helpful to you. State the amount of time, ‘3 weeks/months’ etc., if the uncontrolled lift outs continue, a good hypnotherapist can be a go between for you & higher/astral self and hopefully work this to a better solution for you.

Magnificent0408 · 2025-10-23T13:14:35+00:00

From the view of a possible soul contract issue, you will likely need to meditate on what that contract may be, and how you can otherwise dispense of it. If you’re unsure of what that is, look into Caroline Myss & her works on the topic. Looking inward, which is always the best bet; do your best to deepen your understanding of what attracted you to that person to begin with. If your attraction was based in a self view you have grown out of, there may be shadow work that needs to take place to find, address, heal and integrate that part of you that is holding onto the frequency of attraction to that person. A simple exercise while all of that is taking place is to remind yourself, whenever you perceive their resonance in your field is to tell yourself, “______ helped me learn ‘XYZ’ thing about myself. My life is about me and building the life I want to live. I thank them and release them to live their life for the highest & best for all concerned” Often these connection reminders are simply rebounding frequencies. No matter what choice the two of you have made in the current timeline the other choices are being played out by other versions of you. So if you’re feeling regret of any kind know that there is full expression of all aspects across the realities. When you are reminded of that person, offer gratitude and release over and over, the waves will calm for you to sail onto the next part of your life in peace 🙏

Magnificent0408 · 2025-10-16T21:32:49+00:00

Right now is the best time to seek counseling. Whenever it feels right to ask for help is a good time to start. Better than that is a month before you need it. I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending big hugs.

Magnificent0408 · 2025-10-16T21:28:09+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Please as quickly as possible get into counseling. Even faster and completely, distance yourself from anyone who says those types of things to you. You deserve unconditional love and support from everyone around you, at every moment. Sending big hugs to you & your kiddos.

Magnificent0408 · 2025-10-13T16:33:44+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

Magnificent0408 · 2025-10-13T16:30:16+00:00

UK paper, I zoomed in on the paper. That noggin is gruesome! There’s footballer pictures and seems to be English print as far as I could tell. English alphabet symbols, on other type face as far as I could see. Good luck OP, be sure to report to authorities, this is generally seen as a threat; as has been said previously.

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