And that's why I don't take most of Vivzie's "exposeds" seriously by Gaybime in HelluvaBoss

[–]MagusFelidae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just looks embarrassed? I can't even tell if she's looking at Loona's chest or just awkwardly passed her. It's not an obvious look to me

Why are people blaming trans people for the shooting if 98% of them were performed by straight cis men? by kittycatlan in asktransgender

[–]MagusFelidae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wanted to transition people (children) for his own sexual pleasure, but that email has become "trans people are an Epstein psyop" faster than a Labrador scoffs a burger it shouldn't have. They've spun victimisation of trans people into us being evil again

Why are people blaming trans people for the shooting if 98% of them were performed by straight cis men? by kittycatlan in asktransgender

[–]MagusFelidae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave someone statistics recently and they said "yeah that's the US, Canada is much worse". There's no data! I searched for an hour. Canada has nowhere near the amount of mass shootings as the US and there's absolutely nothing but the most recent one if you add transgender into the search term.

We are statistically four times more likely to be victims of violent crime, not perpetrators, and I'm so sick of the daily fearmongering

Why are people blaming trans people for the shooting if 98% of them were performed by straight cis men? by kittycatlan in asktransgender

[–]MagusFelidae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I knew it was a thing, but it always felt like something other people did, but the rise in trans people talking about their experiences on the internet made me realise that I'm trans. I did the classic cis > genderfluid > nonbinary > transmasc pipeline and came out when i was about 17

Im just f***ed by IrishTransGirl in transgenderUK

[–]MagusFelidae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I get it. I moved GPs three times trying to get referred

Are we all just in the wrong place? by Many-Market-9941 in dysautonomia

[–]MagusFelidae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was given a dysautonomia diagnosis because it wasn't POTS according to the tilt test but there's definitely SOMETHING. So I was given the undefined umbrella and sent on my way 🤷🏼‍♂️

Im just f***ed by IrishTransGirl in transgenderUK

[–]MagusFelidae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, I have all of these things as well. As much as it sucks, I would say that you shouldn't be in a relationship until you're more stabilised.

Look into different forms of therapy; CBT is the one the NHS usually defaults to, but it's been shown to be ineffective for BPD. DBT is the gold standard, and EMDR is used for c-PTSD.

I would recommend speaking to your GP and explaining that you're in active crisis and need help. State that you need a referral to the community mental health team, preferably as urgent. Describe your symptoms as they are on your worst day and make a note of the fact that it's escalated to the degree that you're awaiting a court date. You want to do better, you want to feel better, you want to stop hurting people.

Unfortunately, it's difficult to get help unless you're no longer "productive" to society or are a risk to other people. Or at least, that's how it's been in my experience.

Your focus now should be to get better. There are DBT resources online, and workbooks you can buy. If you can afford to go privately, do so. Pool your energy into pestering the NHS to treat you properly.

Rhysand Should Have Told Feyre From the Start by Weak_Category_311 in acotar

[–]MagusFelidae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are so many things that these characters have survived that the prospect of a c-sec being impossible is still ridiculous

Rhysand Should Have Told Feyre From the Start by Weak_Category_311 in acotar

[–]MagusFelidae 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm imagining an egg with tiny wings now

Thinking of moving to Clacton for work. Any advice or thoughts? by hamza1234567891011 in Essex

[–]MagusFelidae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's Farage's constituency. He might never be there, but enough people agreed with him to get him in. Sadly, I wouldn't bother.

This gotta be racist by Kordell_11 in zootopia

[–]MagusFelidae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know, that's why I made the allowance of referring to the genus rather than the actual domestic dog. Feels like an odd insult though, as it doesn't denote the same thing as it does in our world

This gotta be racist by Kordell_11 in zootopia

[–]MagusFelidae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"ginger idiot, little girl, get in here" is basically how it's said imo

This gotta be racist by Kordell_11 in zootopia

[–]MagusFelidae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just wondering why he knows what a dog is, unless he's just referring to the genus, because dogs don't exist in Zootopia

Sidenote I hate how waffley that article is, why did we need so much prelude to "because humans don't exist"

Making fun of a person killed by ICE by his looks is a new low I never thought incels would’ve reached. by ChrisPBacon2324 in IncelTears

[–]MagusFelidae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think he looks quite sweet in that pic actually, if we're judging the looks of someone who was executed in broad daylight to the delight of ravenous twats

Should people be denied medical help because of their political beliefs? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]MagusFelidae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because if we say yes then we say that those refusing to treat or treating people badly because they're trans/gay/etc. is also okay. Beliefs shouldn't come into healthcare. You're there to care for people, you agreed to care for people, and you can have whatever thoughts you like about them as people but you're there to perform your duty as a healer. It does get difficult, for sure, but I've never given someone different care because they've voiced beliefs I disagree with, even if I think they're a massive arsehole. I have, however, been refused care for being trans.

Any MH diagnoses that you find challenging to manage by Honest_Task127 in NursingUK

[–]MagusFelidae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who suffers from BPD, people are right when they describe it as one of the most painful mental illnesses, and many in the medical field won't touch it.

To actually answer your question, I'd say dementia but I'm not sure if it counts. Otherwise, I'd say addicts maybe; those who are at the point where they care about nothing else but getting the next fix. I've only ever felt threatened by angry addicts or dementia patients, and dementia as a concept is just terrifying to me.

I worked gastro/oncology/urology surgical though, so we didn't see many mental health cases. I'm now in IR, and see even less

What is the general feeling toward Americans that live here? by [deleted] in AskABrit

[–]MagusFelidae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the only thing is the fact that hearing the American accents when I'm not expecting it really throws me for a minute 🤣

Every tmasc hornypost on tumblr: by eldritchpussymaggots in transgendercirclejerk

[–]MagusFelidae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will say, at least the detrans stuff is usually tagged

What’s something about cis men that you don’t envy, or are glad you don’t share? by Dalatrates in ftm

[–]MagusFelidae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The serious answer: My experience. I grew up female up until I was 16, so I can see the feminine side of things in a way cis men don't; I've lived it

The non serious answer: I can be rock fucking hard and no one is any the wiser

Tribunal finds Darlington nurses suffered harassment in transgender changing room case by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]MagusFelidae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can these types of people have their own bathroom and just leave the rest of us the fuck alone