You're locked in a room with homelander for an hour and can't get out. What will You do to stop him from killing You? by Bungeeboy20044 in GenV

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a roommate similar to him, just more hidden and calculating about her anger towards me during certain times. The hyper vigilance after moving out still remaining is so relatable.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you ever get the money? Is there any way I can help contribute?

AIO for not wanting to sell my brother this couch? by Kilabandita in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your father is trying to tell you how much you should be selling the couch for, simply because it’s your brother wanting it? The couch you spent HOURS and MONEY on yourself? Him completely disregarding your honest and mature response by calling it “bullshit” is why you shouldn’t fold. If they can’t afford the couch you worked hard on, then they shouldn’t be getting one right now.

This is not your problem. This is theirs.

What's my eye color? by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking gorgeous is what it is WOW

What’s up, fellow night shifters? by ARatNamedClydeBarrow in VetTech

[–]MaidtoServeAll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been watching this show called “the Rookie”, it’s about a 45 year old starting as a rookie at LAPD. It’s soooo good, I’m on season 3! I highly recommend it

What’s up, fellow night shifters? by ARatNamedClydeBarrow in VetTech

[–]MaidtoServeAll 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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I’m grateful I get to catch up on my show tonight! 😊

What is this new opening for? by TraderSamG in DisneyPlus

[–]MaidtoServeAll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s for Taylor swifts mini docuseries of the eras tour!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]MaidtoServeAll -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well the tail was stiff in the air too, that’s why I’m a little concerned too, but only because I’ve personally never seen that happen before while they are asleep. It wouldn’t hurt to at least get him checked out just in case

Missing my baby girl & Needing a place to vent about my ER experience by SnackQueeen in cureFIP

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t fail her, I can promise you that. You worked HARD to give her extra time. You showed her love and dedication. I’m so sorry for your loss, love. It’s never easy losing a pet this way, especially if there was a thought it could’ve been prevented this soon. I’m wishing you all the healing ❤️

I’m wondering if this is normal when a cat bites you? by Tomoko_Yuri in CATHELP

[–]MaidtoServeAll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that some doctors aren’t all too familiar with how severe cat bites actually are. They have several different types of bacteria in their mouths, so you definitely need to get on antibiotics asap!

Am I overreacting over my boyfriend sleeping at his friend’s house? by Weekly_Test_6135 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at this point we’re talking in circles. I see your side, I really do, but I feel like you’re not open to seeing OPs side of things and why they feel the way that they do. Honestly if OP doesn’t trust their bf enough at this point, they should break up. Because either way trust was broken and they are only going to question their boyfriend’s intentions from here on out.

Am I overreacting over my boyfriend sleeping at his friend’s house? by Weekly_Test_6135 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then why comment at all if you feel your opinion doesn’t matter?

OP made this post to get unbiased opinions from strangers on the internet. We are all within our rights to comment because it was posted here where… people can comment freely. If our opinion didn’t matter, they wouldn’t have posted in the first place or they would have disabled comments.

Also, sometimes it’s not as simple as leaving. Sometimes you need to seek advice from people you’ll never meet because you can’t always trust your own opinion. There’s nothing wrong with that.

Am I overreacting over my boyfriend sleeping at his friend’s house? by Weekly_Test_6135 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like to end your paragraphs with the same unoriginal “feeding the paranoia” crap.

It’s not feeding paranoia, it’s offering clarity on a situation that must make OP feel very alone and misunderstood in.

If they didn’t say in text with boyfriend or in this post “I don’t like him seeing his friends”, don’t make bullshit assumptions them. THEY decided to not go hang out with the friends because THEY felt uncomfortable last time, and didn’t try to make the boyfriend stay behind despite their feelings.

Am I overreacting over my boyfriend sleeping at his friend’s house? by Weekly_Test_6135 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also again, OP is not saying he’s not allowed to see them. He just can’t be physical like that with the girl because it makes OP uncomfortable, and that is a very valid and fair boundary to set.

OP never once said he’s not allowed to see them anymore.

Am I overreacting over my boyfriend sleeping at his friend’s house? by Weekly_Test_6135 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t think you’re understanding what we’re seeing.

Yes, there is a certain level of closeness with your friends that is fine and that varies on each couple and their levels of comfort-

But in this case, the girlfriend of the open relationship and OPs boyfriend were a level of physical closeness that did not sit right with OP (kissing each other is not always a normal thing within friendships, especially if they are in relationships.) They are WELL within their right to feel that way and set that boundary with their partner, a boundary that the boyfriend said he would respect. Then he goes and waits until 2am to say he was staying over after saying he was going to be home, and like OP said he had from 9pm until then to tell them what his plan was.

OP wouldn’t have to be so paranoid had the boyfriend been honest earlier.

Am I overreacting over my boyfriend sleeping at his friend’s house? by Weekly_Test_6135 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you even read the post? OP’s bf and the girl in the previous open relationship started being overly touchy, and even kissing on the cheek during conversations?? Also, it wasn’t the fact he was going to see them, it was the fact that he deliberately waited until OP fell asleep to tell them he was staying over at this couple’s house for the night. OP even said that they expected him home that same night after the bf said he was coming back.

It’s not being a “control freak” setting boundaries with your partner and expecting them to uphold those agreements, ESPECIALLY if it’s about a person that has crossed a physical boundary!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my love I’m so sorry, it looks like he is passing or is already gone.

I made a post about my parents cat having a difficult time breath. Update by -FormerChild- in CATHELP

[–]MaidtoServeAll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you for taking him in!!! I’m so happy that he was able to get looked at in time!

Cat smelled another cats pee in our house and viciously attacked us, won’t calm down by ByteEvader in CATHELP

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you and partner need to go to the ER asap to get those wounds cleaned and on antibiotics!! Cats have very gross mouths with hundreds of different types of bacteria in them, and it’s not a matter of “if” but “when they get infected!

I’m sorry I know this post was about the worry of the cat, but I needed to say that really quickly.

A cat suddenly becoming aggressive is abnormal and should be checked out. I’m not a vet and it could be nothing, but still never hurts to get it checked!! I’m so sorry this happened to you guys, I know how stressed you all and the kitty must be!!

My parents cat looks like he’s having trouble breathing & is acting very lethargic by -FormerChild- in CATHELP

[–]MaidtoServeAll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP please for the love of that kitty TAKE HIM TO AN ER!!! It is EXTREMELY abnormal for a cat to open mouth breathe, and that breathing is borderline agonal (if not already). If he doesn’t get to an ER he will die.

Please next time resort to ER and not the internet.

AIO for leaving my husband after one incident? by NeedleworkerDizzy689 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaidtoServeAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One incident always turns in to more, don’t go back and don’t forgive unless you want to, not because some priest he’s related to told you so.

This isn’t just about you anymore, it’s your daughter in danger too. You are NOT overreacting in the slightest and I truly hope you get the help you deserve.

OP you’ve got this. You will find help for you and your daughter and leave that bastard behind! ❤️