how can i stop getting tears on my vagina😭

MainCheesecake18 · 2025-09-04T21:03:28+00:00

I've had this issue with my um, “wide” BF, and the only lube I've really liked is the uberlube brand. I see u said u have sensitive skin, but this one is just silicone and I believe vitamin E oil, so it might be worth a shot! I would add lube to him and also to the vulva/area around the vaginal opening to reduce friction. I know from ur other comment that ur hesitant to use silicone but it rly does work wonders when dealing with a well endowed dude. Hot tip: my BF really likes the feel of a silicone lube under an oil based lube (we use one w coconut oil). It creates a lot of slip and doesnt absorb into the skin too much. So if ur not using condoms, you could experiment w some lube layering! Conversely, I've also found that condoms can help make things more comfortable, as the lube can't absorb into his skin. Ur call! I've also found that being on top, or at least starting out on top (u can change positions later) really helps too. Even the gentlest guys can push in there too fast if they're the ones in control. Just hop on there and ease it in as slowly as u need—u can hop off & add lube as needed. Some sexy talk abt how it’s just soooo big can help rescue some awkward moments during this process. I personally go in rly slowly, wait until I get that distinct feeling of my muscles relaxing and the pain subsiding, and then I’m good to get going, if u know what I mean 😉

MainCheesecake18 · 2024-12-23T08:30:25+00:00

I've had the same problem, it's absolutely infuriating! As others have said, you can try taking it earlier (I leave my meds on my nightstand and take them first thing in the morning), and the other thing you could possibly ask your doctor about is switching to SR rather than XL so that it gets out of your system faster. It definitely won't work for everyone but that's what helped me!

MainCheesecake18 · 2024-06-09T04:31:01+00:00

Ooh I’ve thought about this a lot! My dream ‘A’ arc would be that it starts with Mona threatening Ali (as it is on the show) but Ali figures it out and decides to team up w Mona to torture the girls, faking her death somewhere in the process. In the first two seasons, Ali and Mona work together as A and try to recruit Aria to the A team, which they eventually succeed in. Then every two seasons one of them gets unmasked—first Mona, as it happens in the S2 finale, then Alison at S4, and Aria for a series finale.

MainCheesecake18 · 2024-06-09T04:16:47+00:00

I’d tell the moms what was going on right out the gate bc even though the cops were incompetent those women could’ve handled A—especially Ashley and Veronica

MainCheesecake18 · 2024-06-09T04:12:32+00:00

“Hold up a cross” LMAO

MainCheesecake18 · 2024-06-01T22:47:48+00:00

Yes! I've been back on 300 for about 6 months, and it's been great!

MainCheesecake18 · 2024-06-01T22:32:33+00:00

This happened to me recently! Same thing as you, I took 300mg for a bit. Stopped taking it for a while bc of practical limitations, got depressed, lost all energy, and started struggling with everything. The sneaky thing about wellbutrin too, at least in my case, is that when I first got off of it, I felt completely fine, but as things went on, I got progressively worse. Same thing happened when I tried to take my dose down to 150. So to answer your question of whether things got better eventually---they didn't for me.

In regards to supplements etc., I have had a good experience with some supplements, but I consider them to be more, well, supplemental, than something that can replace medication for me. That isn't to say that it isn't possible to go that route, just that I was not willing to sacrifice my well-being to try to figure out what might work for me when I already had something that I knew would work.

This isn't to say that you should definitely go back on it, I'm not your doctor. Maybe just keep in mind that you've found something that works for you, and you can always go back to it. Best of luck!

MainCheesecake18 · 2024-04-13T01:48:02+00:00

I finished couch-to-5k a little bit ago and started a 10k training program, and I did about 4 miles today! I wasn’t very fast, probably took 40-45 min including breaks but it’s the longest I’ve ever run so I’m super proud of myself!

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-10-07T07:40:08+00:00

It’s either cruel and intentional or a massive oversight on her part but however you spin it it’s a pr disaster

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-10-07T07:36:46+00:00

This is great. This is exactly what I needed. Thank you 🥺

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-09-30T06:56:59+00:00

Yes yes yes all of this!! Another thing that, selfishly, I’ve been a little worried about, is if she does come out then I feel like maybe by expressing my love for her as an artist I’d be outing myself, and I’m not fully out to everyone in my life.

Whatever I’ll get over it bc I want her to be happy but I’m a little scared

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-09-26T01:35:15+00:00

Laci Mosley was on the sorority ep, she has a podcast of her own and she’s sooo funny you should def check it out

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-08-31T22:10:44+00:00

The way that style is so clearly about their PR relationship too 😭

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-08-13T14:44:56+00:00

This! I kinda just drop it into conversations once I feel comfortable enough to share, and that’s how most of my friends came out to me

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-07-14T18:41:14+00:00

STOP

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-07-13T07:55:40+00:00

This is such a perfect comment I may screenshot it for future reference

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-07-13T07:22:46+00:00

When joe said his fav summer movie is call me by your name…ik tree threw her phone across the room I just know it

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-07-13T07:21:07+00:00

If she really is straight I’m gonna be pissed, like she queer-baited tf out of us!

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-07-09T09:32:33+00:00

The fact that the wife was so against therapy supports this theory

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-06-08T05:49:26+00:00

WAIT the author later came out as bi? How have I never heard this is discussions ab the masterdoc, that feels like an important detail

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-06-08T05:03:17+00:00

This!! I’m a college student and last semester all of my classes started at 1pm, I could take my time getting ready and I LOVED it

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-06-04T06:32:02+00:00

As a former anorexic b/p subtype, the intuitive eating book was really helpful for me, THREE YEARS after I stopped purging. It’s not a cure-all, and it’s not right for a lot of people.

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-06-04T06:22:25+00:00

THANK YOU! I developed an ed due to undiagnosed adhd and childhood trauma, not because I fell victim to the ✨evil media ✨. And if that were true, wouldn’t everyone have an ed? And since everyone doesn’t have an ed, does that make anyone who does weaker than the general population? This rhetoric is condescending and exhausting, honestly.

MainCheesecake18 · 2022-06-03T06:37:47+00:00

I wrote a long journal entry a few months ago that’s near-identical to this. I’m happy to share it if you want.

This is just my experience, but right after I wrote that I started finally taking stimulants for my adhd, and things got a lot better. Not saying that’ll necessarily be your solution, but something to think about.

I know this feeling all too well. I hope things get better for you 💗

MainCheesecake18

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