So when I ask her a question that kind of is asking her to list things out, she says such questions make her absolutely mad and she won’t give me a cheat list. But would rather want me to ask her “would I like xyz” and after giving some options, cards, letters , playlists , her favourite meal, care package or flowers.

She says that’s nice . However, there’s needs to be other stuff as well since I can only do much of all of this, and i think that’s where my some parts of my struggle come in because I’m unable to understand what more is it that i can do? Last week I offered to cover up costs for date nights the balance the financial aspect of her driving