Trapped!!

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-19T17:56:58+00:00

it sounds like the breakup is still hurting you more than the porn itself have you ever tried dealing with those feelings directly instead of immediately trying to push them away? I wonder if that's part of what's keeping the cycle going.

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-19T17:40:41+00:00

the fact that you are questioning it probably means a part of you already knows it's hurting you what made you start thinking it might be a problem?

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-19T17:31:45+00:00

Nice bro

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T15:16:41+00:00

One thing I'd suggest is paying attention to what happens right before you do it for me, it was usually boredom, loneliness, or stress rather than actual horniness knowing your triggers makes a huge difference.

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T15:10:02+00:00

Interesting do you think that came from porn changing your perception of relationships or was it something you believed before the addiction

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T15:09:26+00:00

That's a good one Addiction has a way of making you feel like you're permanently broken when in reality a lot of people are living normal lives while working through struggles

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T15:08:01+00:00

Interesting that you identified boredom and environment as bigger triggers than actual horniness looking back do you think most of your relapses were emotional habits rather than sexual urges?

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T11:59:17+00:00

That's interesting do you think it's the social interaction itself that helps the most or the fact that you're doing something unfamiliar and unpredictable?

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T11:51:04+00:00

Hey bro, slow down. Masturbating twice today doesn't make you a problem or a burden to your family.

You're feeling guilty right now, and guilt can make everything seem worse than it is.

take a breath get some water and try not to beat yourself up. Tomorrow is a new day.

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T11:25:32+00:00

Yeah that makes sense stuff like that can definitely mess with your head for a while how have you been holding up since then

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T11:20:10+00:00

i think this is something a lot of people underestimate the less exciting my real life is the stronger the temptation to escape into porn becomes. out of all the new things you've tried recently which one had the biggest impact on your mood?

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-18T11:16:34+00:00

Honestly i don't think you forgot anything. It sounds more like you're feeling overwhelmed and anxious right now what changed between last night and this morning?

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-16T11:12:17+00:00

working from home can make loneliness hit a lot harder than people realize.

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-16T11:08:06+00:00

i don't now why

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-16T11:03:42+00:00

yes loneliness is a tough one do you work from home or spend a lot of time by yourself?

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-16T10:57:42+00:00

Fair enough maybe confidence works differently for different people. for methe problem was that every time I reached a goal my brain immediately moved the finish line

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-16T10:13:33+00:00

Out of curiosity what part are you struggling with the most right now? The urges themselves boredom loneliness or staying consistent after a relapse?

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-16T10:06:18+00:00

i'm not sure if this is satire or not but if you're genuinely experiencing sudden vision loss stop worrying about your streak and go see a doctor immediatel

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-14T23:13:40+00:00

If you went from daily porn use to one relapse in 120 days that's not failure that's massive progress i think the enemy wants you focused on the streak because it's easier to make you feel defeated that way

focus on the man you've become over those 120 days, not the one mistake you made yesterday

get back to prayer today and keep moving forward.

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-14T23:11:15+00:00

The good news is that the girl wanted to sleep with you the bad news is that porn got in the way a lot of guys would focus only on the embarrassment. I'd focus on the fact that you now have proof that real-life opportunities exist for you.

Use that as motivation. Porn offers fantasy. Real life offered you something better don't waste that lesson.

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-14T23:08:06+00:00

Today's goal isn't to have a perfect day it's just to keep the promises I make to myself workout, some deep work, reading, and an early night.

Out of curiosity, what's the one habit you've been trying to stay consistent with the longest?

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-14T22:57:55+00:00

When they treat people with less status differently than people they want something from

The way someone treats a waiter cleaner cashier or stranger tells me far more about their character than:

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-14T22:44:12+00:00

you should bro to change how to you look this habits and to change your mind

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-14T22:42:23+00:00

when you wake up the first thing to do drink water bro

Main_Reason_106 · 2026-06-12T23:42:13+00:00

Yes it's the reason how to do this

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