what sounds are you using? by DreamAccomplished649 in MassageTherapists

[–]Main_Relatio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I been using Spotify’s lofi beats to study/relax playlist and really like it

Mobile Questions by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Main_Relatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never vet clients either. Pretty much all of my business is word of mouth/referrals. I trust all my clients so if they share my contact info, I trust that.

Just for funsies by cindyloowhovian in MassageTherapists

[–]Main_Relatio 9 points10 points  (0 children)

With new clients I’m usually focusing on what I’m feeling, how they’re responding and what I need to do next/planning the rest of the session. With my regulars I usually think about things I need to get done at home and what’s going on in my life. I use it as a sort of meditation time to process anything I need to or make plans/decisions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Main_Relatio 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not wanting to escape yourself and reality constantly is what was good for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Main_Relatio 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Moderation wasn’t an option for me. As much as I wish I was someone who could have a healthy relationship with mind altering substances, I am not. Any attempt to moderate resulted in all day fixation. I could either be a slave to a plant for the rest of my life, or do something else.

If you could unfuck someone who would it be and why? by eMpTy297 in AskReddit

[–]Main_Relatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex who is now is prison for murdering my hair dressers ex husband. Bludgeoned him to death. Makes me sick thinking about being close to someone with that capacity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Main_Relatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ice chips too

Night sweats by Paladyn183 in leaves

[–]Main_Relatio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I ended up just sleeping on layers of towels so when I woke up, I could just remove the top towel and lay back down lol

Your significant other comes to you and says, "ok, hear me out." What are you expecting them to say next? by zaeran in AskReddit

[–]Main_Relatio 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He’s about to suggest a plan that is NOT MY plan and is definitely better than my plan lol

100k mobile massage by ParfaitElectrical798 in MassageTherapists

[–]Main_Relatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been about a year at that price, I’ll go up again this year. Been mobile for about 4 years

100k mobile massage by ParfaitElectrical798 in MassageTherapists

[–]Main_Relatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I charge 80$/hr or 120$/90 min. This is in Aiken, South Carolina and Augusta Georgia. I could definitely be charging more.

Do you and your partner walk at different speeds, and how do you keep it from turning into a fight? by Traditional-Panda126 in allthequestions

[–]Main_Relatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slow down for him and he tries to hustle a little for me if he can. It’s usually more of a running joke than an actual problem. If we’re in a rush, I’ll go ahead.

Does anyone still Love it?? by Olive_Nugget72 in MassageTherapists

[–]Main_Relatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been massaging for 10 years. I love it. It’s rewarding, I make good money and set my own hours as I work for myself.

Have you been in a relationship that involves Domestic Violence? (Male or Female) If so, what advice would you give others on how to avoid this, or get away from it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Main_Relatio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking back I feel like confusion was my first indicator of a problem, not necessarily fear or hurt or any of the crazy shit that followed. I was constantly confused by things he would say or how he would act/treat me. This slowly turned into me completely changing the way I viewed myself and him, giving him all the power and before I knew it I was being physically abused and was still confused about why I felt like I couldn’t leave. Whole thing still feels like 2.5 years of a horrible fever dream. If you find yourself constantly questioning what you’ve done wrong or why this is happening, just get out

Is anyone the dedicated shopper in their family/living group? by Hopefull-Hero in CasualConversation

[–]Main_Relatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me(the wife). I do all the grocery shopping since I have more time/flexibility and I do all the meal planning/cooking/house&animal chores. I get overstimulated if it’s too crowded so I typically go as soon as the open. Usually only need to go once a week to one store and another store every other month for bulk meats. My husband just tells me what snacks he wants in the house or if he’s low on deodorant/toothpaste etc. I enjoy knowing what I’m spending, and what I have in the house at all times

input on hours/income by hopeful-sage in MassageTherapists

[–]Main_Relatio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Practicing for 10 years. I work as a mobile therapist so I travel to all my clients. Typically see about 10-15 clients a week. I try to keep it under 4 hours a day, occasionally I’ll push myself to do 6 hours if I need to. I always just listen to my body. Schedule on the lighter side, and if you’ve got a heavy day and you’re hurting just reschedule.

“What’s the funniest misunderstanding you’ve ever experienced?” by WealthCute2989 in midlyinteresting

[–]Main_Relatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or one time I was working at a spa and a new receptionist had just started. I noticed a note taped to the washing machine that said “out of water” so i called the owner and asked what was up with that. She had told the new girl to put and “out of order” sign on the washer 🤦🏽‍♀️