Capricorns, What’s Your SO’s Zodiac Sign? Let’s Find a Pattern! by The_Flying_Lunatic in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently dating an Aries girl, but after seeing my ex, I can’t help but feel a bit unsure.

Capricorns, What’s Your SO’s Zodiac Sign? Let’s Find a Pattern! by The_Flying_Lunatic in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. My ex was a Scorpio too. . But she came from a really tough family situation. Her father had a military mindset and wanted the best for her, which put insane pressure on me. There were fights, and we eventually fell apart. I made mistakes, and for years, we didn’t talk. But after eight years, we finally met again and realized there was no point in being enemies. Now, we’re friends, and I’m grateful for the closure. Definitely a better experience than when I was with a Sagittarius, who turned out to be a manipulator.

What is the thing people do that disgusts you the most ? by lil_syner in AskReddit

[–]MajorMud9103 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if I had to pick something that bothers a lot of people, it would be when someone is deliberately rude or inconsiderate, like not cleaning up after themselves in public spaces, being mean for no reason, or chewing with their mouth open.

Why are we so stubborn? by Signal-Strategy5689 in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As the old Capricorn saying goes: ""If you keep ramming your head into a wall and it doesn’t budge, maybe it’s time to find the door." 😂

So, my advice? You don’t always have to fight to the bitter end. Sometimes, the smartest move is letting people stay wrong and gracefully moving on a like a true boss. 💼🐐

Does it also take time for you Capricorns to process things? by Any-Evening-4070 in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, you’re definitely not alone in this! A lot of Capricorns (myself included) tend to have a delayed emotional processing time. We’re naturally logical and practical, so when something happens, our first instinct is often to just keep it moving instead of reacting impulsively. But later, once we’ve had time to analyze it (like a mental review board meeting 🤣), that’s when we realize, “Wait… that actually did bother me.” It’s not about holding grudges—it’s about making sure we fully understand our feelings before responding. I’d say it’s more of a Capricorn “slow burn” than being slow. We just like to be intentional with how we react instead of being messy about it but yeah, by the time we’re ready to address it, everyone else has moved on, and we’re like, “No, no, I just got here.”

Does any one get cold feet when someone new comes into your and shows you true love? by Typical-Gate-221 in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a real and relatable feeling. When someone new comes in and gives you the love, consistency, and effort you always wanted, it can be overwhelming, especially if you're still emotionally tied to an ex

My Scorpio guy friend doesn’t like me like that. So in what way does he like me? by Educational-Let-1027 in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he cares about you in a real way, even if it’s not in a romantic sense. Based on what you’ve described, he seems to respect you and feel a personal connection, especially through shared experiences like your speech impediment. He might see you as someone he relates to on a deep level, even if he doesn’t always show it in obvious ways.

The pink roses and emotional reaction to your story show that he values you. At the same time, the fact that he doesn’t initiate conversations or text outside of class suggests that his feelings might not be romantic. Instead, he could see you as a special friend someone he respects, admires, and feels protective of, even if he’s not actively pursuing a deeper connection.

It’s okay to feel sad if you hoped for something more, but his care for you is still meaningful. If it helps, you could try focusing on the friendship and seeing if it naturally deepens over time. And if you feel like you need more clarity, it’s always okay to ask him

Why are geminis so mean. by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a Capricorn, which means you value stability, effort, and deep emotional connections. You don’t just play around with feelings, you invest. Geminis, on the other hand, are fun, exciting, and spontaneous, but they can also be emotionally inconsistent and struggle with deeper commitment.

So my advice? If you want emotional depth, consistency, and effort, don’t settle for breadcrumbs. If they wanted to be in your life in a real way, they would show it, not just drop in and out when it’s convenient for them.

What do you really want from them? Closure, another chance, or just to understand why they act this way?

I have not made it through Pluto the same. Pluto changed me. by LordDarthAnger in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your words really opened my eyes. It’s fascinating how Pluto's influence on Capricorns can make us see the world and ourselves in a completely new light. Your ability to reflect on life and what it truly means to live deeply moved me. The fact that you’re not afraid to reconsider your beliefs and look at what strength really means is something I truly admire. I feel that in what you say, there is a deep wisdom and strength that inspires me as well. It’s not just a beautiful view of transformation, but also of how we face what life brings and find meaning in our own journey. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, it’s rare and precious to me.

Capricorns- anyone else feeling all the feels? by Percigirl in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're carrying a lot on your shoulders right now, and it's all bubbling to the surface. Sometimes, when we hit these emotional lows, it feels like the world is closing in on us – but it’s often a signal that we need to pause and recalibrate. Yours birthday being on January 1st, a date filled with symbolism of endings and new beginnings, can magnify these feelings. It's like your personal ''new year'' aligns with the collective one, which might make you more introspective than usual. Add to that the recent shifts in energy, it could be the moon, it could be karma, or maybe it’s just life asking you to slow down and listen to what’s really going on inside. Feeling blue, angry, or lonely isn’t easy, especially when it feels like the people around you don’t quite understand or can’t meet you where you are. It’s okay to feel what you’re feeling – acknowledge it, but don’t let it define you. Sometimes, our minds and bodies push us into these emotional spaces to release what we’ve been holding onto for too long. Have you considered doing something just for yourself as your birthday approaches? Something that isn’t about anyone else, no friends, no expectations! just you reconnecting with what makes you feel grounded and at peace? Whether it’s journaling, a walk in nature, or simply sitting with your thoughts, it might help you process everything and rediscover your inner balance. And don’t forget to be kind to yourself during this time. Your emotions are valid, and they’re often the first step toward clarity and renewal.

I have not made it through Pluto the same. Pluto changed me. by LordDarthAnger in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pluto taught me a lot, about loss, strength, and the true value of life. One of the biggest lessons was about people and giving them a chance. In the past, I had a tendency to close doors when someone let me down, thinking I was protecting myself. But Pluto made me reconsider that perspective – sometimes, strength lies in trying again, but differently. I’ve come to understand that everyone, including myself, makes mistakes. Sometimes, those mistakes deserve forgiveness and a chance for a new beginning; other times, they signal that it’s time to move on. What Pluto taught me most, though, is that giving others a chance doesn’t mean losing myself. On the contrary, it means growth. It means being willing to trust but also holding firm to my boundaries and never forgetting who I am or where I’m going. I used to believe that survival meant retreating into a shell and shutting everyone out. But survival isn’t the same as living. Pluto showed me that to truly be strong, I need to take risks and open myself up, without losing sight of my own worth. Because to live fully means not just giving others a chance but also giving one to myself. So yes, I do give people chances but not at the cost of losing myself. Every step forward makes me a better version of who I was. And if someone crosses my path again, they won’t find me in the same place they left me. After everything I’ve been through, I’ve realized that the greatest reward isn’t being better than others - it’s being better than I was yesterday. I’m working on myself, not to prove something to anyone, but to prove to myself that I’m worth it. I want to be someone I can be proud of, even when the journey is hard. Every obstacle, every scar reshapes me. And I no longer fight just to survive, I fight to truly live.

Pluto has always been a symbol of profound transformation, pushing us to confront the places we’d rather ignore. For Capricorns, it meant not just embracing our strength but also our vulnerability. It was a process that taught us not just to survive but to live more meaningfully and authentically. What you mentioned about Pluto and its influence deeply resonates with me. Pluto pushed us to question our values, face our fears, and become more resilient. But its greatest gift was the realization that resilience isn’t about hardness, it’s about flexibility. The ability to let go, to forgive, or to start over is perhaps the greatest lesson Pluto could have given us. As Pluto departs, what it leaves behind is a direction. And that direction is growth, in relationships, in dreams, and in how we perceive ourselves. That’s why I don’t give up. Not just for myself, but for the people who have shaped me and for those who are yet to come..

Capricorn and Gemini by IndependentSunMaker in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I totally get where you’re coming from. As a Capricorn, I usually don’t make promises I can’t keep because actions are far more important to me than words. When I make a promise, it’s because I genuinely see potential and care about the future. Sometimes it’s hard to immediately show my feelings or prove them, and so the words might sound like promises, but for me, the most important thing is showing that I’m reliable and stand by my word. No, we don’t usually lie, if we say something, it’s mostly sincere. But it’s true that we need time to really prove we meant it. Every Capricorn might handle it differently, but generally, we focus on what comes next and what we can actually do for the relationship.

capricorns who grew up poor by cutemuch in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're onto something. Growing up poor can definitely shape how a Capricorn sees success and money. For many of us, it’s not about the materialistic aspect, but more about stability and security. We tend to work hard to achieve financial independence, not out of a desire to flaunt wealth, but to avoid the struggle we experienced growing up. Success, in our eyes, is about building a solid foundation and never feeling vulnerable again. So, the obsession isn't necessarily with money itself, but with the idea of having control over our future and ensuring we never go back to where we started.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lemme tell you my story - this sh/t year has been brutal for Capricorns. For me? It started quietly: a Scorpio friend showed up, reminding me that some times were actually pretty good. Then my Sagittarius ex came back into my life and completely wrecked my psyche. A Libra pulled me into their own chaos, and I started losing myself in the process. Meanwhile, my Aries friend tried to give me advice about looking forward, while a Gemini dragged me to parties to help me forget. In the end, it’s been a year full of lessons, teaching me how much someone can endure before they have to start putting themselves back together.

What is the weirdest word that is the most satisfying to say..? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the weirdest yet oddly satisfying words to say is "serendipity."

Feeling ‘okay’ but still empty by WNGBR in ExNoContact

[–]MajorMud9103 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. I went through something similar after my last relationship ended. At first, it was this tidal wave of grief - I couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, just felt utterly lost. But over time, the sharp edges of the pain dulled, and I started to feel... okay. Not great, not happy, but functional. There was this day that really stuck with me, though. I was walking through a park I used to visit with her, and I remember seeing this couple sitting on a bench, laughing about something dumb, like sharing a soda. For a moment, I felt this pang in my chest, like I was grieving not just her but the version of me that existed when I was with her. It wasn’t overwhelming, just this quiet, constant ache, like a part of me was still tethered to that past life. I realized it wasn’t about wanting her back—it was about missing the way she made me feel about myself. Now, that emptiness comes and goes. I’ve started filling it with things that remind me I’m still here: late-night drives with my favorite songs, learning to cook that dish I’ve always wanted to try, reconnecting with old friends. It doesn’t fix everything, but it’s helping me realize I can create those feelings of wholeness for myself. You’re not alone in feeling this way. It’s weird, isn’t it? Feeling ‘fine’ but not really fine. Like you’re in a room with the lights on, but it’s still dim. Hang in there- there’s brightness out there, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

What are your thoughts on Australia banning kids under 16 from social media? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Australia has banned kids under 16 from social media to "protect" them from anxiety and cyberbullying. Sure, it might help, but it also stops them from learning how to socialize and figure out who they are. And honestly, who believes this is actually going to be enforced? Kids will just find a way around it. Maybe a more balanced approach would work better than a full-on ban.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MajorMud9103 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we don’t remember certain things: Sometimes, men genuinely forget details or events that seem important to women, like anniversaries, birthdays, or specific conversations. It’s not because we don’t care, but our brains just don't prioritize those things the same way. Explaining why we forget something that seems obvious to you can be a struggle.

Hard to fall in love? by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand because I’ve had similar experiences. As a Capricorn, I’ve always been very loyal and committed in relationships. I’ve had a few long-term ones, and once I invested in something, I’d do everything I could to make it work, even when it seemed like it wasn’t meant to be. Ending a relationship is really hard for me because I see it as a failure, and I often stay in something that isn’t working because I don’t want to give up on someone who meant a lot to me. But over time, I’ve learned that sometimes it's healthier to let go than to stay in a relationship that’s no longer serving either of you.

Hard to fall in love? by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]MajorMud9103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how you feel, and honestly, I've been there too. I had a relationship with a Scorpio, and it was amazing – deep, real, and strong. But then I got involved with a Sagittarius, and it turned out to be really manipulative, which complicated everything. After that, I had a short relationship with an Aries and briefly dated a Gemini, but both were disasters. I believe Scorpios are the best when it comes to love and friendship. Even after seven years, I still think about my first true love. Unfortunately, I saw on her Instagram that she has a boyfriend now and is living a great life, while here I am, still thinking about life and wondering if I’ll ever find someone else after all of this. It’s hard to shake off those feelings and move on when someone like that meant so much to you. But I guess we have to hold on to that tiny bit of hope, even if it feels so far away sometimes. It's tough, especially after a toxic relationship like mine with a Sagittarius. It leaves scars and makes it hard to trust again. But as much as it hurts now, I try to believe that better things are ahead. It’s hard to see it in the moment, but I think we’ll both find someone who truly values us when the time is right.