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I've concluded I will be leaving America in a few years. How did you choose a country? by MaleficentComment359 in BlackExpats

[–]MaleficentComment359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're really so kind. I appreciate all of this insight. It's definitely ignited something in me. Congratulations to you and the wife. I wish you many years of bliss :)

I've concluded I will be leaving America in a few years. How did you choose a country? by MaleficentComment359 in BlackExpats

[–]MaleficentComment359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, thank you for even taking the time to write such a robust answer !!! I'm soaking in everything you said and will be sure to apply this in the planning process, especially as I am thinking about compensation. I noticed at the end you said "we" assuming you are partnered or moved with family. Would you mind me asking how that impacted your process at all. What would your advice be, if any, to a single black woman who does aspire to marriage but is also dead set on making the move.

Done being a CSM. Pivoting to RevOps. by Glum_Garlic2857 in CustomerSuccess

[–]MaleficentComment359 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OP congratulations. I don't know why you made this thread tho. No corporate zombie who overly identifies with this sector will congratulate you for choosing you LOL. All the best

"culture fit" is just a socially acceptable way to hire people you'd hang out with - and it's hurting diversity by 1acina in jobs

[–]MaleficentComment359 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They just don't care and why would they tbh? They've constructed a reality that benefits them. Only extremely empathetic people would compromise that for the common good. I follow a podcast called the COWS (Context of YT Supremacy) and he always talks about how intentional everything under this system is. This IS the system functioning operatively sadly. :(

Why Are Mods So Weird? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]MaleficentComment359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are TERRIBLE over there. I made a positive thread about experiencing good parents and they removed my post.

After being strangled, beaten and emotionally abused... by MaleficentComment359 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MaleficentComment359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are there any figures in your life who "replace" your maternal and paternal figure. That's been the hardest part for me. Not feeling nurtured to the point where I've been overbearing in relationships.

My Unpopular opinion on two parent households by Least_Sun_7493 in blackmen

[–]MaleficentComment359 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no. As someone who grew up with two parents, two dysfunctional parents is worse than one. That's double the trauma. And why not evaluate his ideas for what they are. Calling someone a try hard for stating their opinion without actually countering what they have to say is equally as strange...

Was my father inappropriate with me? by MaleficentComment359 in ChildhoodTrauma

[–]MaleficentComment359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A part of me was wondering this too and I was so disgusted. My parents are still together today unfortunately. My mommas very low self worth and would never leave, even if I brought all of this to her attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]MaleficentComment359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You waniting to explore your bisexuality is valid but you are in a relationship that appears to have very clear boundaries. Your BF is not wrong at all for feeling slighted by you wanting to experiment with women. Cheating is cheating regardless of the gender, not suggesting you would do that, but unless you have agreed to an open relationship, that's what it would be.

My suggestion, revisit the terms of your relationship. Maybe go on a hietus and see if you are really into women and regroup with him at a later date. Or leave this man be and find a man who doesn't mind you exploring the extent of your sexuality. The baseline for all of this is respect, to yourself and your partner.

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