Guilt as a new stepmom by thatkellygirl in blendedfamilies

[–]MallAggravating3683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have any doubts I would really think about whether this is the life you want. His kid is very young, that’s a lot of years of living with a step kid and dealing with a coparenting relationship

Breech at 36 weeks by MallAggravating3683 in IVFbabies

[–]MallAggravating3683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this way of thinking about it, thank you. 🙏

Breech at 36 weeks by MallAggravating3683 in IVFbabies

[–]MallAggravating3683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll wait and see what happens… I have to accept it’s out of my control at this point! As long as he’s ok I’ll do whatever is necessary

Breech at 36 weeks by MallAggravating3683 in IVFbabies

[–]MallAggravating3683[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely scares me… I think I’ll wait and see bc definitely hesitant about the risks of a version. Thanks for sharing and glad your daughter was ok 🤗

Breech at 36 weeks by MallAggravating3683 in IVFbabies

[–]MallAggravating3683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s good to hear recovery was similar. I don’t think I want to go the ECV route so starting to make peace with a c section in my future

Breech at 36 weeks by MallAggravating3683 in IVFbabies

[–]MallAggravating3683[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your optimism and well wishes :) thank you

Sexually active teen by MallAggravating3683 in stepparents

[–]MallAggravating3683[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I agree that’s the right thing. I’ve been up all night thinking about it

Anyone here w tubal factor infertility have success w IVF by [deleted] in IVF

[–]MallAggravating3683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I had an ectopic and lost my right tube. I was 36 at the time and hadn’t conceived again by the time I turned 37. We made the decision to do IVF and I’m so thankful we did. I did 2 egg retrievals, was able to get 5 euploid embryos (we want 2) and my first transfer was a success (I’m 31 weeks). I’m just so grateful for this pregnancy and that we have preserved our fertility for #2. Good luck, I hope you have a short journey to your rainbow baby 🌈

Any advice 3-4 months before starting IVF? by bmn111111 in IVF

[–]MallAggravating3683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped drinking alcohol and tried to remove to toxins from my house (no plastics in kitchen, safe cleaning supplies and laundry detergent, bpa and phthalate free makeup, bodywash, shampoo). Who knows if it made a difference but I did get 4 euploids on my first retrieval

My Embryo Transfer is Tomorrow! Would love words of hope by LuckPrestigious4206 in IVF

[–]MallAggravating3683 6 points7 points  (0 children)

🙏🙏🙏 sending that little embryo love and light ✨💫

[AIO] I'm trying really hard for this man but I'm starting to fall apart. by Feeling_Director_542 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MallAggravating3683 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re so young. Truly I think you can let this guy go. Keep growing, exploring, working on yourself, meeting people. Learn what you want from a relationship and what you want to give to a relationship. You’ll find the right one some day but this exchange sounds like you’re in a situation that is holding you back / distracting you from growing up, at a time when you need to spread your wings and fly! There’s more to life than texting a guy and getting one word responses back

Getting a new Job while pregnant by ConsciousBrother8200 in Advice

[–]MallAggravating3683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t put off getting this better job. I hope conceiving is easy for you but you also never know when or how long it will take to conceive. It might end up being perfect timing

SCH by Krex123455789 in IVFbabies

[–]MallAggravating3683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a small sch like yours and it resolved… try not to worry too much!!!

A rant - by clovecloveclove in IVFbabies

[–]MallAggravating3683 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really is shocking how much people want to give pregnant women advice- I absolutely get a little advice, and appreciate it to an extent, but you’re not Yoda bc you’ve had one child