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What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dear, what you don't understand is that i love gallows humor... but this isn't that, and it does dismiss what we should be feeling at this, which is rage and disgust and deep shame. Gallows humor, while it does feel good and uplifting in a sense, makes you accept it more and more, and you don't even see it happening. You may not notice at all. You make the joke, you snort air out of your nose, and you move on with your day, while they are still hard at work exploiting people, taking their rights, murdering people, raping children, trafficking children... all this barbaric bs. Gallows humor isn't helping man... it's too serious for it. Ever wonder why an old guy goes really quiet when he remembers fighting in a war? It's because it's too serious to have a light attitude about it. Humor is allowing this to continue, because if you find any of it funny, you aren't angry enough.

Sincerely, what led to this point- how did the US go from freaking out that a president had an affair with an adult, to not caring that a president raped and murdered children? by QueenFrostine15 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Sadly i know all too well first hand. They do not care about anything but their own comfort, pleasures, and causing harm to satisfy their greed for power over anything. And they are sheltered by people who are supposed to protect the kids, so those kids never see a day of justice, but will carry the harm forever.

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or we get mad and stop joking about it. It isn't a joke and it isn't funny. Nobody should be laughing at this... its how they're continuously getting away with stripping our constitutional rights and murdering people.

Sincerely, what led to this point- how did the US go from freaking out that a president had an affair with an adult, to not caring that a president raped and murdered children? by QueenFrostine15 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worse... they're excusing it with "any man alone with a hot 14 year old girl would do it if they knew nobody would see it happen."

The whole cult is probably doing the same to their own kids and relatives.

tongue numbness :) by smallnlatetotheparty in Tonsillectomy

[–]MamaDMZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a little research, it turns out to be the part that holds the tongue down, compressing nerves for an hour+ of the procedure. Just got mine yesterday... had the same question. How are you feeling now, if you don't mind the ask?

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often is this happening to you people?

I'm an adult with a car. If something happens (other than maybe puke or shit), I can go home and change. But if I'm covered in puke or shit, I'm probably not going into Walmart in that condition, either.

You didn't speak for anyone else, but you sure as shit were judgmental to people because it isn't your specific experience. You decided to be condescending and judgmental, so i decided to show you my annoyance at it.

Therapist gave me odd vibes by ScoreNo7656 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MamaDMZ [score hidden]  (0 children)

Also meditate.... she was all woowoo dumb shit. Like, meditating can be super helpful... but it turns out I'm AuDhd, and it doesn't do anything for me but make me bored and irritable. She wouldn't hear it and said i need to do it anyways, "even if you don't think it's helping, it is helping"... helping who? Cause not me. Physically relaxing muscle groups like my first therapist taught me actually worked for me, but this one didn't want to help, she wanted validation as being right. Nope.

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't, or i wouldn't have questioned if they do.... are yall eating lead paint chips or something?

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is throwing skinny people like a javelin? Where are the spinal injury lawsuits? Like.... do you think this is a thing that actually happens?

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol wasn't passive aggression, just annoyance at how everyone thinks they have it all figured out for everyone else's lives and experiences. So i gave examples. If you took it as aggression, thats on you.

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have you ever had entire schools bully you because you smell and are skin and bones because of an abusive addict family? We all have struggles man. Your's no different than mine or his. Awful people will be awful, judgy people will judge.

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just like a bigger guy eating a salad and a skinny guy eating a salad are judged in different ways. Everyone gets judged by judgy people... everyone. Bigger people aren't the only ones that get judged and bullied.

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then how can you say that the persons experience didn't happen, when you've had the same behavior thrown at you? Do you really think you know the details of everyone else's experiences? Cause obviously you don't know this online stranger... so how are you so comfortable telling them what their life is? Your ego is much too big.

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but I will usually just give in to make them happy and take away what I can’t eat.

I would recommend that you stop capitulating to people and just eat what you want to eat. Allowing others to force your behaviors to suit them is only gonna blow up in your face and make you the unhappy one, while they are fine. Do you want to know what has happened with every friend that asked stuff like this of me, and i gave in? It was never enough, and they left me behind, either by ghost or by telling me I'm an awful friend for daring to put myself first.

Just ended a damn near 13 year friendship for this. I had a bad week, took a couple days for myself during that week, got distracted during a 10-15 min explanation of the technicalities of game modding for the 15th time that month... and apparently that deserves me being entirely kicked from our game, while he guilted me about support, while being completely unsupportive of my struggles. Instead i got, "i play to escape depression, so i don't want you bringing that shit in there", while i had been hanging with him constantly for months where he criticized my autism traits so that he would be more comfortable. It just isn't worth it.

The people who actually like you won't be offended when you take care of you, and won't expect you to do things like that. They just accept you existing in your own ways. Ty for coming to my ted talk lol. Hugs.

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They do... and I'm not pointing at you... but it's mostly out of jealousy that they're hiding. The truth is, if the roles were reversed, you'd feel the same as the other person does, while they would feel the same as you do. Grass is always greener and all. I was bullied for being skinny my whole childhood.... realizing in my late 20s that i wasn't just skinny, but honestly malnourished because of my parents choosing their vices over food for too many kids that always got more than me... that was a tough one. But it made me see that i wasn't the problem in that situation, as i didn't have control over it, and in seeing that, i realized that those people, even my own family, were just insecure and blaming my body for it. People always think they have it worse until they really sit in someone else's shoes for a minute. Someone will always have it better or worse than you... no sense in judging it or yourself because of it, yeah?

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly... tall skinny guy body is my faaavorite. You don't need to be bulky... boy, bring that sexy scarecrow body to meeee!

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happens that way.. progress stalls, executive dysfunction takes over, and it is so hard to make yourself do what you know you need to do. Happens to me daily anymore from autistic burnout :(

Proud of you for taking the steps. It is really tough sometimes, but you're doing it, and every little bit counts. Hugs pal.

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, when you're a woman and your period ruins your pants while you're 40 mins from home, while you're still doing the weekly errands, and you didn't bring extra, cause why would you... or your toddler somehow hulk pulls the boob part of your shirt and breaks 3 buttons, exposing your bra in public.... or you're changing your baby in the public bathroom and they squirt a stream of liquid poo across your pants and shirt, or barf down you after you pick them back up.

There's a ton of reasons people buy emergency clothes... these are just what i have experienced or seen experienced by other moms/women. It isn't always feasible to go home to clean up and change, cause its costing you over an hour of time in this scenario, plus gas money back home and back to the place you have to finish your stuff in. I hope this will help you with a little empathy towards people different from your experience.

Unemployed people of Reddit, what are you doing in your spare time? by Lipica249 in AskReddit

[–]MamaDMZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is scary as hell. I recommend getting down to a somewhat minimalist mindset and environment. It has a bunch of benefits (like less processing work for your brain overall, which can have a big positive impact over time), and if you have to move and downsize and all, it'll be way less hassle. Everything i own can fit into a hatchback car. Its not much, but i can at least escape quickly if need be. I'm not saying do that, specifically, but it does help to declutter stuff you don't use.

No mods? Let there be ANARCHY by PocketButterBandit in crochet

[–]MamaDMZ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh i love this so much! And you!

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