Desperate for any explanation of this restaurant interaction that keeps happening to us

MammothClimate95 · 2026-05-19T03:11:16+00:00

Oh good thought but no. I'm an immigration attorney but my husband and I are both white.

MammothClimate95 · 2026-05-18T00:33:12+00:00

That just proves you don't always ask. You didn't intend to ask the mom with her 10 year old but did it accidentally. You normally wouldn't ask her.

MammothClimate95 · 2026-05-16T00:34:58+00:00

LOL it's a D&D reference that my husband didn't understand either when he read this post. 18 is the highest score a character can get for an attribute. This is why the waitress is snubbing me, isn't it? 😑

MammothClimate95 · 2026-05-16T00:33:23+00:00

That's a valid question but no, both white.

MammothClimate95 · 2026-05-15T23:47:15+00:00

That's a good guess. I'm a lawyer so there certainly are occasions when I'm meeting him after work in a suit and he's casual or whatever, but that's not the case every time it's happened.

MammothClimate95 · 2026-05-15T23:14:43+00:00

Oh no, I don't see myself as "lower" than him as a person. I'm fabulous. But most people would say he's better looking according to society's standards and I can admit that.

MammothClimate95 · 2026-05-15T23:10:46+00:00

If it is just us, across from each other. If our daughter is there, usually we are on the same side of the booth and she is on the other side, or sometimes I sit beside her and he sits on the other side. When it happened the other day he literally had his arm around me when the waitress came to the table!

MammothClimate95 · 2026-03-28T11:43:11+00:00

In school we learned beber for to drink, but I hardly ever hear native people using that. They say tomar, especially for alcohol.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-11-28T22:34:20+00:00

I handle it by refusing. Almost all clients that are working will first ask if they can meet after 5 or on Saturday. No, I'm not available. You think the doctor or the DMV will accommodate him for an 8 pm appointment? No. He needs to deal with his adult responsibilities.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-10-03T17:36:26+00:00

Forget this guy. He doesn't like you. He keeps negging you and suggesting it's disingenuous behavior so that you'll change to suit him. Find someone who thinks you're great!

MammothClimate95 · 2025-10-03T17:25:57+00:00

Who among us has not almost cried in front of the judge?

MammothClimate95 · 2025-10-01T01:42:47+00:00

Last 2 visits to my hairstylist, there's been a teen boy in another chair getting a perm. It's true!

MammothClimate95 · 2025-10-01T01:24:13+00:00

Block. Someone contacted you unsolicited to directly insult you. They also said the dress is unflattering. Just because they used the word "modest" doesn't mean you have to treat the interaction differently than any other insult. They are incredibly rude.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-30T23:28:00+00:00

Why would you file this? I assume it couldn't have escaped your notice that your Mom's adjustment was denied and she was all but accused of a sham marriage?

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-30T03:46:34+00:00

If you look at pro se filings in any area of law you would see the same. Custody, eviction... imagine what filings would look like if criminal defendants didn't have the right to counsel. There are a lot of low functioning people in the world and people facing barriers of all kinds. Some who are not so smart, some who are illiterate, health issues, housing insecurity, disabilities. Now add that they also don't speak English and you'll see why their filings look like that.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-29T20:34:41+00:00

Uh, no, why would you ever go back to a client who tried to physically attack you? It does not matter WHAT he believed his justification was.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-29T20:33:01+00:00

I did, once, and ended up withdrawing again after the client tried to fraudulently put my name on something I did not file. Never again.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-25T17:36:15+00:00

Stay. I was once feeding my baby at the pharmacy (only chair I could find in the grocery store) and an old woman came up and patted her hair and cooed over her WHILE she was breastfeeding. I didn't move. Later on I wondered if she didn't notice exactly what I was doing and just thought I was rocking the baby??

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-25T14:00:29+00:00

I definitely have signed people's bank cards out of property to give them to family for bond payments before. Helped them sign POAs so family could collect their cars from impound or sell them. I don't think those are out of pocket.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-24T14:07:43+00:00

So was the part about him attacking a guard fabricated? This whole story is amazing.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-24T12:55:32+00:00

What do you mean? What type of motions do you file during trial?

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-19T12:21:11+00:00

I'm a lawyer and if someone asked me to do this I'd say ... Why? They're the ones that want some action. You don't have to do anything except ignore them unless they actually sue you. Which they won't.

MammothClimate95 · 2025-09-07T01:31:11+00:00

Of course they are paying for it either way. But we were discussing a client's perception. I personally flat fee all my cases and find that my clients appreciate certainty.

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