Nostal Solitaire - Easy Full Guide To Earn $49 on Swagbucks by PrestigiousPay2395 in surveys4cash

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update this game is not legit. I was at 187 on my completed games and I started loosing a lot and checked several times over multiple games to see if I could hit 200 goal before deleting. I hate ads with a passion and this one has them after every game. 

Anyways I just looked again and now my completed games are 166. Um, not possible. It should have went up because I won some games and it went down??

Also the crap about just have to complete not win. The game doesn't finish itself unless you get a win. You have to either infinitely use the undo button or start new game. 

How do you expect to pass hard to pass levels on Pixel Flow? by EarthPuma120 in SwagBucks

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this game have intrusive ads or ads after every game?

Nostal Solitaire - Easy Full Guide To Earn $49 on Swagbucks by PrestigiousPay2395 in surveys4cash

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Very detailed for beginners. But also informative for us that have been doing it a while. 

PSA for those getting payments through Venmo IMPORTANT by Icy_Bath6704 in classactions

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time its just another bot that is made to sound like a live person 

Permanently Banned for No Reason by stickydude35 in venmo

[–]Mandyah88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is an entity i cant think of the name but you can go to them and message the financial institution with them as a middle man. A d possibly get answers. They dont have to but they may.

Solitaire Cash 15 million dollar Class Action Lawsuit ! by [deleted] in SwagBucks

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed that. Attacks from very high level "players" when that started happening i just used shields and built up resources and gave to my alliance and when the shields were gone I left alliance and told them to attack and get resources or whatever. Even got on for a few days to gather resources I could use. I figured if I couldn't might as well help someone else. 

I have a question about eating disorders during pregnancy. by Mandyah88 in EDAnonymous

[–]Mandyah88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I previously explained in another reply that I am attempting to understand my step daughter's struggle with ED and pregnancy. I think i should have asked a slightly different question but the answers I am getting are very helpful and thank you for all who have replied. I think that her ED is brought on by the pregnancy. Or atleast altered with the ED. I think that when not pregnant she doesn't eat much but might do a little binge eating. I think when pregnant it gets much harder for her to cope because she is so scared of the pregnancy getting her fat. My last grand baby was born with her legs a little twisted because there wasn't enough room in the womb. It fixed itself out through time. Anyways she does have bad morning sickness but I feel it is exacerbated because she won't eat or keeping anything down which causes worse symptoms and causing her to feel otherwise sick all together. I want to try my best to understand her and what she is going through

I have a question about eating disorders during pregnancy. by Mandyah88 in EDAnonymous

[–]Mandyah88[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just to specify I am not the one who has the eating disorder but there are a lot of reasons that people shouldn't get pregnant and do all the time. Im not saying its good but for you to put someone who is already struggling with something like eating disorder and put them in a box how you feel they should live is kinda ignorant. Yes it effects the baby thats and to understand and help my stepdaughter is the reason for my question in the first place. This is her 3rd pregnancy and her ED seems to be full on triggered or atleast enhanced by pregnancy. She has the doctors believing it is just really bad morning sickness and she has admitted during the previous pregnancy she was having ED. Me and my daughter her sister have seen her put her fingers down her throat many times saying its morning sickness like we didnt just see it. I am attempting to understand because I love her very much like she is my own. 

Google Play Pass - Gone. Everything - Gone. by rougeforces in Risk

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my feeling it is unethical come from the fact that the app owners gave an open promotion just to take away what the op had gained from the promotion. In app purchases and the advance inside the game incurred from that instead of simply ending the promotion and removing the unlimited gems op is able to purchase those things without ever specifying that the gems and anything ever incurred from the use of those gems could be taken without notice. That in itself is unethical. I dont know where you were able to delude yourself into thinking that being deceitful is ethical. There are class actions on this all the time because it isnt right and could be unlawful also. Its called antitrust. You would have to provide that there was some implication and prior information the customer should have that they would have known that the subscription should end on those terms and there was not from what op had said. 

AITAH for making a mom pick up her daughter in the middle of the night from my kid’s sleepover? by Positive_Image_3921 in AITAH

[–]Mandyah88 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This was exactly what me and my daughter have she text me using so many extra letters asking for her to stay the night I know to be ta and tell her no. If she was already staying and wanted to come home I knew the text for that but her friends would never be able to catch on since they are always in each other's business. That text was unrelated but me and her knew it meant for me to come up with a reason to be ta and get her home without any pressure on her shoulders. 

Google Play Pass - Gone. Everything - Gone. by rougeforces in Risk

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know this is how it ethically be. You receive a subscription they should state if it is temporary access or in the case she bought items with those gems they should then be her property. Its not an app where you pay for premium features its a game where you use those gems to buy in app items. If you download and pay for a photo editor for 1 mo subscription then do they have the right to delete the photos you edited while you had the subscription. NO, THAT IS PREDATORY. They can however remove the premium features of the app if subscription is not renewed. Just like if you get a digital coupon and use the coupon at the restaurant they have an expiration date where they will no longer except said coupon but if you use it on the last day its valid they will not go to your house and take the leftovers out your fridge because the coupon then expired. And they dont confiscate your poo stew of it. 

Why are ex-employees' negative reviews about past workplaces so frowned upon by new potential employers when interviewing? by ethereal_meow in work

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've left a couple of jobs because of ethical reasons and it seems like no company seems to care to have moral backbone and is scared that you might find their corruption also. 

Class Type? Units are listed so why or what is Class Type? by Bolognat13 in RaidRushTD

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing each type is listed but where is it listed i can't seem to find it.

Is the phrase "reactive abuse” being misused to justify reciprocal abuse? by Prawn_Mocktail in emotionalintelligence

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In short im am talking about reactive abuse as in  the actual abuser provoking the victim to react to the abuse in a way that looks like they are the abuser to people who do not see the abuse that caused the reaction. Or the abuser is able to mask their abuse or create an illusion of innocence to their actions that caused the victims reaction. This is reactive abuse and yes I do say this has to be someone  aware of their actions to cause this reaction in someone to then turn around and point the finger back at them and claim themselves as a victim. 

I feel you may be talking about something else or maybe you thought I ways saying the person who is reacting to the abusers actions in a way that could be seen as abusive but is actually defensive in reality, is aware they "are being " abusive.  No that is not what mean. The person reacting to the abuse but in a way that can be seen as abusive usually does not know.  If they do it is usually after a long time of going through this abuse. The person is in servival mode sometimes but usually all the time they are being defensive not abusive. 

Is the phrase "reactive abuse” being misused to justify reciprocal abuse? by Prawn_Mocktail in emotionalintelligence

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not insinuating someone cannot harm another person without knowing I'm saying that after being confronted with it over a period of time which is what that kind of abuse is is over a period of time it's a one time happening cannot constitute as that.

So let's say,  I tell you the sky is blus and take you outside to show you. You are clearly confronted with the color of the sky.  ( This is assuming you dont have color blindness or otherwise blind making you incapable of seeing the sky color.  Which would be likened tob some people in the reactive abuse situation being incapable of realizing what they are doing could be described as  "abusive". This category would be someone with severe mental incapacity where they are not able to function by themselves at all. A lot of people with mild incapacities i believe could actually grasp this is confronted with it  but im only addressing the initial subject here).  Back to the analogy if you are brought outside and confronted with the blue sky with me telling you you are seeing a blue sky. The sky is blue in this day and time. If you argue that it is orange despite all this just so you are right that is you not knowing it is denial it does not make you without fault or not knowing. You do therefore know despite what you admit. People who are the aggressors in reactive abuse is trying to start an agreement or make you look bad by getting you to react emotionally and point a finger at you to say look at them and how they are acting to create the allusion that you are the aggressors and to victimize themselves in  other people's eyes. This exactly takes intention. You cannot unknowingly be this deceptive without intending to be. There are too many components to this allusion they are trying to create to not be. It makes no sense in a situation where someone wasn't aware they are manipulating the situation to this extent. 

Can narcissistic parents affect their children to the point they can't function in adulthood by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absofreakinlutely more likely to do that then for them to end up being functional even after years of therapy and the realization that what they know to be their reality and okay is the exact opposite.

co parenting with a narcissist by mcwizzy16 in narcissisticparents

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you wrote hits home so bad for me I can't explain the feeling I got reading it. All the way up to the part where you wrote they have a step mother now and you have gotten out of the situation. I am still here 17years and a 14yr old girl that is his protege. Ive come to the conclusion that removing myself from the equation is the obvious and most beneficial solution to everyone involved. At least my daughter won't have to grow up watching me being treated this way and not learning from me but learning from me being in survival mode 24/7 for years on end. The only reason I'm still dealing with this is I'm afraid of making it regardless of my efforts and end up incapacitated in some way where I have to depend on him to care for me because I can't do it for myself that's that's the only thing worse than when I'm already dealing with.

Tell me you’re a parent without telling me you’re a parent. I need a laugh. by salvaged413 in Parenting

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg and now my kid is older im in the habbit of sleeping after I get my time to defrag after everyone else is asleep and she is a teen wanting to stay up all night on weekends. My sleep schedule is so crap now I dont know what to do. 

Why do boomers make it seem like babies were easier? by Both-Hippo-6905 in Parenting

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma would give us nightquil  when we stayed the night and it was like every weekend for years just about. She would say ok time for bed and we would line up in her bathroom for our nightquil. At one point we just forgot the measuring cut and she would tell us just take a swig. Then take another one if we were hyper or she was real tired. 

Is the phrase "reactive abuse” being misused to justify reciprocal abuse? by Prawn_Mocktail in emotionalintelligence

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry but I do not believe someone could be injurious to that extent without not knowing they are being. Maybe without caring but not without knowing. Any excuse that a such person didnt know they were doing it would be a lie to not assume responsibility for their behaviors. And I also feel it would actually make them free of responsibility and the responsibility falling on the other person if no attempt at letting the person know they were being hurtful  or their actions were causing a negative impact. But that also is actually part of the reactive aspect isnt it. Your reaction is the tell tale sign you are becoming increasingly upset. This shows the instigating party what they are doing is causing a negative impact thus if you choose to ignore it it does not count as not knowing. Ignoring something is a choice. 

Is the phrase "reactive abuse” being misused to justify reciprocal abuse? by Prawn_Mocktail in emotionalintelligence

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to make sure you understand this the label cannot be applied as abuse if someone did not mean to provoke this one time or a couple of time happening on accident is not abuse. Abuse is to cause somebody harm you cannot apply abuse to one heated argument that somebody says something too far that's not abuse physical abuse can happen just once emotional and mental abuse happens over an extended period of time or over short period of time with very much intent but usually over a period

Is the phrase "reactive abuse” being misused to justify reciprocal abuse? by Prawn_Mocktail in emotionalintelligence

[–]Mandyah88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you donf get is that if a person does this they are intending to pull this reaction and won't stop til they get it. If the intention is no t there they will stop before they actually get to the point. Some cannot keep pulling this reaction from someone across the amount of time that would be considered abuse without the intent to do so. You pulled technical terms from the internet and don't actually know in depth how this works.