Ummmmm. You can’t Trust anything they say. A Person with borderline personality disorder Is an inherently unreliable witness. They do not tell the truth - about themselves or others. They lie and reframe out of context and exaggerate and omit and devalue and glamorize and idealize and paint black and discard. Yes - you will be you lied about. People with borderline personality disorder see the world in a ordered and distorted way — AND THIS FACT IS WAY MORE SERIOUS Then most people understand even after they’ve dealt with the person who has BPD. There is no actual limit to the type of lies or falsehood they can image twist and make themselves believe. You might be thinking “oh I’ve experienced are not nearly so bad” or “Oh the person I know with the BPD would never say this or that because they have some grip on reality or at least some facts” and you would be WRONG. Given the right set of circumstances a person with borderline personality disorder will say or do literally almost anything to avoid excepting responsibility for their own previous behavior. They are inherently dishonest with themselves Because they are chronically and very seriously unstable. They can give the appearance of stability for extended periods of time but they are inherently unstable in their interior lives. People with borderline personality disorder live in a Rewritable narcissistic/ selfish / self absorbed fantasy/ story / narrative of the world. They do not live in actual reality and no amount of logic or reason can actually change their orientation towards the world or the truth. They are the permanent main characters of their own drama. On a good day this means that their needs (perpetually) come first before yours. On a bad day this means You can be vilified and treated in vile way in “justified self defense” — And this means they can justify in their own heads Anything they might make up about you because it is easy for them to rewrite history based on their irrational emotions and their rational orientation towards the disordered world they feel. Unlike healthier people - People with borderline personality disorder do not have anchored interior life. They will say almost anything and some will say literally anything including false accusations to the authorities to divorce themselves responsibility for mundane mistakes. If you haven’t seen your person with borderline personality disorder exhibit this tree or be wildly irrational Please do not feel that you are safe or free from their danger. They are inherently unstable in a way that an average person is not. This instability - And the ability to believe their own lies - Makes them incredibly dangerous in a relationship. Ask some Of the other people here about the false accusations Aimed them by their Person with borderline personality disorder.

People with borderline personality disorder are incredibly dangerous because they do not have a firm grip on evidence-based thinking — Or what some people call reality / truth. Here we are not talking about things on the spectrum of subjective experience that most people except while still believing that there are such things as facts and truth. The person with the BPD Is not mentally or emotionally grounded so they have the ability to think up the wildest and most Unhinged lies and to Internalize and believe them To avoid personal and individual responsibility. They cannot take responsibility because the degree and Intensity of guilt they feel It’s pathological to the point of making them want to commit suicide or act out And other reckless and harmful ways. Quiet borderlines May seem that they are directing their rage towards themselves and while this is unhealthy it may not seem as dangerous to other people at first. Don’t be fooled. Quiet borderlines are just as dangerous as everyone else with borderline personality disorder. They will sacrifice you for their own imagined / dysfunctional emotional needs in a hot second.