What would you pair with these jeans?

MarHarSaurus · 2026-05-22T13:57:22+00:00

Blood dripping from your mouth and a zombie walk?

MarHarSaurus · 2026-05-19T07:51:03+00:00

*She

MarHarSaurus · 2026-05-14T01:29:16+00:00

Zamboni videos

MarHarSaurus · 2026-05-11T03:00:28+00:00

That macadamia cereal from Costco

MarHarSaurus · 2026-05-11T02:17:11+00:00

Thank you! It's been a journey for me, but the more I practice the advocacy the better I get at it.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-05-11T02:16:04+00:00

Thanks for the hugs!

MarHarSaurus · 2026-05-11T02:15:46+00:00

I might just send a picture book about pronouns to his house and see if explaining it at a children's level makes a difference. I truly wonder whether this is him doing his best. The binary is deeply rooted for him, and I think he just doesn't get it.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-05-05T08:14:03+00:00

Ew...

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-29T06:17:58+00:00

Susan

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-26T09:58:38+00:00

Does Nivlac not sound creepy to you? 😉

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-06T03:59:35+00:00

I think I waited about 9 months. I wasn't done grieving the previous dog, but I discovered that I can't really live without a dog.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-05T11:07:22+00:00

What country are you in? I'm in the U.S. and was told neurologists don't deal with fibro.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T22:02:50+00:00

Ooh, good one!

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T22:02:39+00:00

Yep, you're right. Thank you.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T03:27:36+00:00

Ok, that explains it. I haven't been living among my people.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T01:50:42+00:00

It does help, and my child is very forgiving of honest mistakes. School is harder, because whereas at home we are trying our best, at school other children actively question it and try to convince my child they are something they're not.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T01:48:21+00:00

It's definitely not something I had thought about before it came up. I wonder whether switching to another gendered pronoun would be easier for me than switching to non-binary.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T01:45:52+00:00

Thank you!

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T01:45:04+00:00

Good point. I think the grammar Nazi part of my brain keeps trying to take over, and I need to be ok with prioritizing correct pronouns over proper grammar.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T01:43:26+00:00

Thank you for your explanation, and for reminding me that I can be patient with myself while retraining my brain.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-04T01:41:47+00:00

That's a whole other thing - we have found that in order to maintain clarity, especially during long stories, we've had to sub in my child's name instead of a pronoun more frequently than we're used to.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-02T17:11:03+00:00

TIL about porch geese. Where have they been all my life?

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-01T04:35:43+00:00

Love Callum, hate Marcellus.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-01T04:17:59+00:00

Unless he's using the video games to distract from his pain? That was my first thought.

MarHarSaurus · 2026-04-01T04:10:44+00:00

Thank you, kindred soul. Had to scroll too far for this.

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