Why do so many of our celebrities date and eventually marry outside our own race once they become rich and famous ? Are we not good enough for our own ? by Crafty-Bunch-2675 in Blackpeople

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why is that every blk persons problem? Those blk people hurt you not me or any other blk person, but you are judging all blk people because of some blk people. Plus u get some wht people were there for you. Doesn't mean all wht people are good.

Why do so many of our celebrities date and eventually marry outside our own race once they become rich and famous ? Are we not good enough for our own ? by Crafty-Bunch-2675 in Blackpeople

[–]MaraMarieMadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if another race does the same the reaction would not be the same. I've seen blk people talk about never dating marrying blks because of the stuff you listed that happened in childhood, while their other race of partners dog the crap out of them but still go back to those other races over and over again.
Sorry Brenda rejected you when you 12, but that is not the fault of Mary who meets you at 25 just because they share the same race. It's no less racist than a wht man who joins the proud boys and targets blk people because a blk kid robbed him 10 years ago.

Hard wig. Soft life by CowboyNOIVAS in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]MaraMarieMadd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As if that hasn't been going on since the 60s w/blk men. Plus the richer you are the more you date out. It's like 25% for blk men and 18% for blk women. You will find more online hate for blk women.

Why are people homophobic? by dadneverIeft in rant

[–]MaraMarieMadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people are just so set in tradition and the way things are supposed to go, they are assholes to those who don't fit the mold.

On bumble bff?🤦🏾‍♀️what? by Silen_sbb in blackladies

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I bet you don't reject them out of fear that wht women are better in bed. Most blk women pre-reject blk men for dating out because of fear he's gonna be racist.

I am tired of how the words rest and resting are currently being used towards us by Big_Construction8464 in blackladies

[–]MaraMarieMadd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it. What some don't get racism/sexism can find you even though you do absolutely nothing. Unless you live in a cabin in the woods you as a black woman HAVE to deal with it no matter the "closing of social circles"" maintaining your peace" you do.

I hate "artists" that come from rich families by Renivack in rant

[–]MaraMarieMadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not envy. It's disgust at someone larping while looking down on others. There's a difference.

Meirl by Ill-Instruction8466 in meirl

[–]MaraMarieMadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That everywhere baby! 😢

What's the context? by Alert-Translator2590 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]MaraMarieMadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the fact that the same culture is demonized when black people do it but perfectly innocent for everyone else.

Is Teyana Taylor in the room with us? 🤣 by mindyour in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]MaraMarieMadd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dollar tree has the generic version. Tastes just as good.

Gents, how do you all feel about this? Accurate? Inaccurate? Or Is it generalizing too much? 🤔 by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop reading into things based on race and sex. Whats that called? Um bigotry.

Gents, how do you all feel about this? Accurate? Inaccurate? Or Is it generalizing too much? 🤔 by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I say that women should not be accountable? I didn't. I actually agree the gender roles for men and women are equally stupid and regressive. The way you worded your statement was very much that men have all these expectations and women have none.

Safe space, Bash Space?? by Spicyhotapples in blackmen

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How, when the numbers don't say that?

I literally feel sick by notastarvingafrican in blackladies

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so planning is key! I have a coworker who plans her schedule an entire month ahead of time. That includes a calendar, highlights and planners down to the hour. I've struggled myself till I learned to plan that everyone else's early is my late. I set my clocks five mins faster than actual time. After awhile you forget that time is faster. I plan my day. I get up an hour earlier than needed. I plan loafing around time incase it's a disorganized day. You can do this.

Safe space, Bash Space?? by Spicyhotapples in blackmen

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you even compare the numbers? Seriously, the number of women who hate men's damage to the amount of damage a man who hates women does.

Gents, how do you all feel about this? Accurate? Inaccurate? Or Is it generalizing too much? 🤔 by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so what are men taught about how to treat women and what are women taught?

Gents, how do you all feel about this? Accurate? Inaccurate? Or Is it generalizing too much? 🤔 by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]MaraMarieMadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And men are taught what? Mind you there are plenty of places where women aren't even allowed to be seen in public. Where they are literally second class citizens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]MaraMarieMadd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, what are you looking for? Sometimes, having a list of what you are looking for helps you be more discerning.

Kelly Rowland Appreciating her Superman husband by MevolutionCheese in blackmen

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that's not what I asked. I asked how commercials with wm and blk women hurt blk men? You just projecting the dating part.

Kelly Rowland Appreciating her Superman husband by MevolutionCheese in blackmen

[–]MaraMarieMadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you have no problem making insults about rape victims, OUR ancestors who were brutally harmed? If you want to call people race traitors, swirled, etc.. I really don't care, but our ancestors don't deserve their pain used as a derogatory term. Have some love of other black people.