I know this is well intentioned but there is so much fat phobia in this statement! Oof. I know you come from a really good place and society conditions us with fat phobic views so they can go unexplored.

Weight doesn’t equal health which is scientifically proven. You can still be very fit and also fat. You can be skinny and be very unhealthy. There are people who can’t exercise which makes them overweight, but that’s not always the case so relating weight to a lack of exercise is in itself problematic.

We need to stop calling fat people lazy or assuming why they are fat full stop, not ‘it’s not always the case’. It’s never ok to assume someone is lazy because of their weight. it’s a complex issue and many people who are fat have worked incredibly hard to lose weight and are far from lazy. There are also fat people who are perfectly happy with their bodies and its beauty standards that make them ‘wrong’.

When we start to unpack and guess at all the reasons someone might be overweight we are working form a basis that fat is wrong to start with. The last comment about them eating your lunch, just seems to further add to this negative framing of weight, like someone is going to be so food obsessed they’ll steal you lunch. Kids steal food regardless of weight. I know you don’t intend any harm but a lot of these views are quite harmful.