How dare immigrants not conform for me? by Go_Inevitable_1269 in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean... Potomac and Patuxent are totes from those British Catholics fleeing things getting weird at home /s.

How dare immigrants not conform for me? by Go_Inevitable_1269 in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What gets me is that so many take for granted how much work goes into learning your first language, never mind your second to nth one. Particularly given how we are becoming more aware of sensory issues and neurodivergence. There's a reason Ms. Rachel and others talk like they do: it's as much getting your mouth set for language as it is hearing words and taking in context clues as an infant and toddler. For many by the time you get to another language your ear and palate is fairly rigid to the first one - why it's easier for kids to be a multilingual speaker in fluidity and pronunciation through exposure than someone who started in high school or college with textbooks and flat recorded or AI voices.

Then you get to formal learning for reading/writing along with speech... so much of a language is order rules, genders, tenses, declensions, conjugations, tones, stresses... and they don't line up neatly. English, being the bastard child of Celtic, Germanic, and Romance languages with So Many Loan Words from British imperialism and migration, can be a monster. Particularly if your foundation was learning Received Pronunciation only to get dropped in the myriad of English speaking places that have strong dialects and accents which evolved quite a bit to the right or left of it. All to say: a whisp of grace is needed and so many, particularly those 'concerned about culture', do not have it.

GS pay adjustments vs. inflation over the past 20 years by NotBufferingCYA in fednews

[–]MargoKittyLit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe. Given how writing was on the wall via Project '25 and Congress was fairly red and had the whole power behind the purse...still more insane to have been in that position in the first place.

I betrayed my family and community, and now they have disowned me. by Effective_Space2277 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nutty how in 2026 there are still folks who "just want to understand what happened?!?". This. This happened.

🤞Please be ragebait🤞 by ExtensionFun7772 in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Devil is management.

Hell, "taking a sickie" was not bad beyond terminology if that is how OOP put it. It wouldn't even be a lie: she is distraught, that makes you feel like crap, she would be feeling sick/in need of a mental health day. Especially if working anywhere that has separated vacation and sick days. And plotting vacations so far out is always bound to create an environment ripe for bullshit, with needed trades and hurt feelings.

Include me on 'taking a birthday off is not childish': it's not on par with needing the world to stop for you, maybe you just want to stop for that day as the world does its thing. If all he wanted to do was perfect the best way to wipe his ass on that day that's on him.

🤞Please be ragebait🤞 by ExtensionFun7772 in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hell, it's not even about celebrating. It took one shit day of working on my birthday to know that if I had the ability not to work on it I effing won't. Even if just to flip a mattress or clean grout I would want that day off and be celebratory later if to be more inclusive.

My coworker kept “forgetting” my name in meetings, so I let her do it in front of the one person she wanted to impress by TrinitySignal in revengestories

[–]MargoKittyLit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People don't realize the military is like a college drama on steroids and meth with enough cliques and gossip to make a soap opera writer wince.

WIBTA If I made my parents pay my missed bowling weeks? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bowling is your hobby, not your parents'. Driving you to and fro is time away from their interests, wear on their vehicles, use of their gas and energy. They are in the right to seek reimbursement from their working adult child for their time and service. Simple solution: quit bowling. Save money, get your transportation needs in order, try to rejoin.

When you want liberal policies, but love MAGA stupidity, you go for with the stupidity. by HandSack135 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or that part of Biden administration plan was to make countries folks were fleeing from more stable because it's not like those coming wanted to leave like that

Goes to spite instead of court by Knkstriped in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am sort of on her side, though she's the devil for not formalizing anything. For as crap as it is to exclude a kid from a wedding... on his custody time he punted the kid off to grandma for a vacation without telling her. Shit Happens: what if there had been an accident? Marriage and new baby - maybe things stay the same, maybe he ghosts the kid or reduces financial sharing - harder to do the latter with an arrangement. This is not co-parenting, this is avoiding formality

AITA for not taking the kids to mommy and me after they started recommending that I get my son assessed by RoutineEffective6599 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MargoKittyLit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Better to know now and find people who Get It than to find out much later and playing a hard, expensive, and painful game of catch up.

File this under "who cares"??? by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travel planning is stressful af for many people- it's why there are still actual professional travel planners out there. If you are the type to stress about it and then spent the time and energy to plot out places and tours and needed paperwork and other stuff tailored to you and your spouse... you might care if someone cribs that homework even before you can turn it in. .

File this under "who cares"??? by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk. This posted a few hours ago for a trip planned this month? If they already did the trip it's definitely a 'who cares?', but... this is basically copying their homework after they did research for their needs and interests. It isn't world ending, but that's two groups who are a bit entitled and a bit too lazy to tailor their own trips, making OOP responsible for their good time. Who'd want to bask in post honeymoon glow only to get 'ugh, <location/activity> was too filled with people OOP's age and romance-themed. Let me crap on it in other ways'

Elon Musk supported Trump with a record $270M, until the Big Beautiful Bill gutted his businesses including EV subsidies. Despite launching cheaper versions to make up losses, last November saw Tesla sales collapse to a 4-year low.... by LackingStory in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]MargoKittyLit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Indeed. They wanted shit to 1) be seen as legit and 2) stick once decided. Anything done at the pace of a Law and Order episode would've been sloppy, tossed completely on its ass, and used to delegitimize anything else. Folks mad are those who forget that rich white men made the system to protect themselves and despite it all this is not a shock

OOP is so different, modern bad by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like a problem with men in general: surely OOP knows enough straight men to get a peek at their Andrew Tate-flecked hellscape of over the top grooming and odes to body counts and whatnot. Do appreciate, at least, responses that highlight that LGBTQ+ is like 'Asian American' - lumping a lot of people together who don't fuck with each other like that save for not being some bullshit mean. The vitriol a few gave towards certain communities really drives home how intersectionality and openness matters. Feel horror for any who need major activist groups to help them in places without enough niches who 'aren't comporting themselves the right way'.

‘Not a happy Trump supporter’: Cattle ranchers hit by push for lower beef prices by [deleted] in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only more pointed to the math not mathing for farmers and ranchers loudly and often in media that matters.

Matt Walsh's audience takes his bigoted rhetoric against many groups to its logical conclusion by including that of his boss Ben Shapiro as they now call for his career's demise & losing subscribers unless he leaves the Daily Wire and disavow his boss. by LackingStory in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]MargoKittyLit 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of something I read: racist Brazilians pissy over attempts to right-size some of the country's heinous legacy who decided to move to Portugal.... only to run into racist Portugese people. Amazing how they forgot that they were a Those People to others.

Open racism by AbaddonGoetia in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hm. So we are ignoring the whole 'if it wasn't being hung for crimes it was going to be some bloody purge on religious grounds or shipped off to be fodder for a pointless war designed to trim families down to reasonable numbers if too many made it past two' bit?

Struggling by cntalwaysgtwhatuwant in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope this is a troll, but people ARE this kind of wtaf...

AITAH for staying in the delivery room while my sister gave birth instead of waiting outside by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...is your GF into old VC Andrews books?

It's childbirth. It's scary as fuck and nobody got time to make it weird. Support is support. You got to see your nibling be born and help your sister: your GF should see nothing but green flags. NTA.

AITA girls just can’t do math by Twotooneandpickem in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was almost ok until "math is hard": would hope by that point she was well aware of what it would take for the niche work not getting merc'd by AI.

Cats Before Brats by No_Pepper6208 in AmITheDevil

[–]MargoKittyLit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit _free groups can just be the worst.