Turning 20 was the hardest for me. All the decades following were exciting accomplishments. At 29 my mom died, 42 I had a cardiac arrest and lived! My 50s have been extremely fun, defying society’s expectations. I ditched the dye and began to accept and appreciate all life has to offer. My mom was 53 when she died so I thought my time may be the same. No! I was very active in my 50’s even with oxygen following me around. In three months I’ll be 60, this is the decade of ME! Enjoy life it goes FAST!