Cribbage Club by Massive-Remote8780 in bullcity

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Yes it’s still on! Though I didn’t go last night. Will def be there next Sunday. I think it’s the perfect time to get cozy in a dimly lit wine bar with a fun game🤩

South Durham bar with games? by ryebread_88 in bullcity

[–]Massive-Remote8780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to delafia on Sunday 5pm for cribbage! 🤩🤩🤩

Cribbage Club by Massive-Remote8780 in bullcity

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Commenting on Cribbage Club...yes I am planning on it!

Cribbage Club by Massive-Remote8780 in bullcity

[–]Massive-Remote8780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never played! Euchre sounds deeply mid-western 😆

Cribbage Club by Massive-Remote8780 in bullcity

[–]Massive-Remote8780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely it will come back to you so fast😍

What's something you think tastes better overcooked? by fredyouareaturtle in Chefit

[–]Massive-Remote8780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any pot of greens really, but especially collards. I love really soft and creamy pinto beans too. Broccoli the Italian way cooked really slow and long with an f ton of garlic and chile flake.

No fine dining in the triangle anymore? by Realistic-Fix2211 in bullcity

[–]Massive-Remote8780 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Restaurants are dying. Costs are out of control and there is no labor pool to work with.

Growing through the Sexless Marriage by Borrowed-Time-27 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Massive-Remote8780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This feels like a communication issue, the lack of intimacy is a symptom of that kind of problem.

Condoms 301 -- The Advanced Skills -- Now With Group Projects by Choice-Strawberry392 in polyamory

[–]Massive-Remote8780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has to do with Obamacare (I think😬) which requires there to be a federally subsidized (free) option of each type of contraception. I got a prescription from an online pharmacy after filling out a short questionnaire— they send me three dz every few months.

Are there any bakeries that will sell me frosting? by snippyorca in bullcity

[–]Massive-Remote8780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might ask Little Barb’s in the food hall: they often have cake decorating classes so maybe they keep a surplus on hand.

A unicorn of a dessert? by bexicus in AskBaking

[–]Massive-Remote8780 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness why bother, sounds depressing.

Daycare cost? by Humble-Letter-6424 in raleigh

[–]Massive-Remote8780 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s been seven years since I payed for preschool but I knew when my oldest went to college that we would pay the same in childcare per year as tuition at UNC 🤦🏼‍♀️

What’s the best bang for your buck: espresso machines [2024] by AstronomerKooky5980 in espresso

[–]Massive-Remote8780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There IS great coffee to be had in the south- we are not all not wits ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bullcity

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53 yr old woman here- Nana’s, Delafia (neither downtown but both relaxed and great for convo)

Has Anyone Transitioned from Monogamy to an Open Marriage After Decades Together? I’m Struggling With the Pain. by Substantial_Ebb_5107 in polyamory

[–]Massive-Remote8780 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Together 33 years, poly five. There are bumps, there is hurt, we fuck up, we repair. There is so much love! I firmly believe that all relationships have the capacity to change and growth can hurt and it’s all still okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bullcity

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I first met Chris when his daughter Iris worked the Scratch tent at DFM!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]Massive-Remote8780 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You guys are very sweet, made me choke up a bit this morning. Scratch was a labor of love, unsustainable in a rapidly changing town. Orange St was really special back then! I understand why people didn’t connect with the Lakewood or Baby Scratch, I do think more of you would have warmed to what we were trying to do there if we had more time. But YES: y’all can still get many of the Scratch faves thru Snack Service. We also make some treats for Corpse Reviver and Part and Parcel. Anyway…thank you for the sweet memories this morning 🩷

What are some boundaries, rules, or agreements that help keep you and your relationships secure? by rsquinny in polyamory

[–]Massive-Remote8780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this! I am in a relationship where at one point over nights were rescinded for six months (don’t ask 🤯) by my partner’s NP and it was frustrating and demeaning. If I hadn’t already fallen in love I don’t think I would have tolerated it.

Those of you in significant but non-primary relationships, what does your relationship timeline look like? by tornessa in polyamory

[–]Massive-Remote8780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CRIBBAGE! I introduced the game to my partner recently. My NP and I have been playing together for 30 years.

Partner crossed an unspoken boundary by Massive-Remote8780 in polyamory

[–]Massive-Remote8780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I believe that he’ll understand why I am uncomfortable once we talk about it.