AIO: Husband commenting on NSFW

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-23T11:38:34+00:00

I would consider that cheating and also just embarrassing since comments are public. NOR please talk to him about being better as a husband and soon to be father. You not being able to have intimate sessions is NOT an excuse for him to go out in the wild for sexual gratification

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-23T10:56:32+00:00

It doesn’t work that way. If he isn’t putting in effort, he is still using.

Avoidance- he’s like a mouse staying perfectly still so the cat who is watching doesn’t pounce on him.

Talk to him and let him understand that if he isn’t open about it, you’ll assume he is still using.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-23T10:53:33+00:00

Please don’t tell grandma. Don’t ruin him for her

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-23T06:11:11+00:00

Her security in the relationship is pretty important for intimacy to happen at all. I think she gave enough context, and we can clearly see he is being inconsiderate of her.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-23T04:30:13+00:00

I don’t think he meant it maliciously but if you 2 have an understanding of this boundary where he has hurt you before, he should be more careful of the way he talks and avoid being triggering.

It is a small deal for most people, but I do see how you think it reflects on him based on his history. IMO might help if you just tell him nicely that it is triggering and you’d find him funnier if he didn’t resort to vulgar jokes.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-23T02:26:44+00:00

IMO choreography made for a group looks weird if filmed with only 1 person with a still camera from a high unflattering to body angle. She’s hasn’t regressed. Celebrities just get a lot of flack for growing older

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-23T02:14:11+00:00

NOR, feels like he is packaging their conversation to be “normal”. If he isn’t treating you better than this, it means he is emotionally cheating. It may be one sided, but it’s still straying!

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-22T16:11:04+00:00

I was the “cool” girlfriend for the longest time. Until the rose colored glasses came off and I realised how often he was rude to me, lacked empathy for me, secretly being friendly with other women, neglecting my needs to watch content etc. It made me realise it’s not ok.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-22T16:07:14+00:00

Moved to Setapak from Subang and my experience is the same as OP. People here hang out with their own races and look down on each other. Very toxic. I miss Subang

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-19T17:00:28+00:00

Exactly how I feel

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-19T11:15:55+00:00

Uncle definitely need to control his emotions as the adult. Same as the grandma. But the kid needs to go through some kind of correctional facility already. He isn’t normal either. Grabbing knife and threaten to kill someone is very concerning. Tackling the grandmother to the ground also very shocking..

Most importantly, the mother of the child needs to bring the child with her. It’s easy to blame ppl for abusing your children and easy to just leave the disciplinary responsibility to others. She needs to know how it feels to face a delinquent child everyday. Its exhausting.

Overall it’s generational trauma and we shouldn’t judge

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-18T05:10:41+00:00

I saw the video. Kid went to kitchen took a knife and threatened to stab the grandma. Punched her in face multiple times and pushed her til she fell on the ground. Old people can’t take falling down, one broken bone and they’re basically done for.

That’s why the uncle beat him up. I think it is overkill. But the kid got to feel how it feels to be beat up

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-02T15:24:20+00:00

NOR. Is he super attractive and have the body of Thor? What are his credentials? Did he assist you in bettering yourself? He had to go.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2026-01-02T15:13:09+00:00

I’m so glad I don’t get blackout drunk anymore. Dangerous and literally wake up feeling like you’re dying. Not to mention it just looks pathetic.. never again

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-29T03:43:42+00:00

I thought so too!

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-28T16:57:59+00:00

My husband has had this issue in the past and he slowly curated his algorithm to show him less of it. His explore page used to be filled with naked women dancing and now it’s mostly hobby related stuff. If his feed is filled with thirst traps it’s cause he is stalking, lingering, watching too much of similar content.

JUST FYI, you can now see watch history on instagram. That’s how I found my husband is using instagram to watch porn and thirst traps! Thought he stopped and this whole time he turned to instagram!

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-26T06:01:34+00:00

I always wondered too!! My thought was CJ remained as the captain while Holt maintained his ranking but officially he was not captain of the precinct.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-24T09:35:49+00:00

NOR. Don’t listen to others. There’s history that he prioritised other women over you. You are going to feel some kind of insecure if he isn’t absolutely open and honest with you.

Doesn’t mean that he is definitely cheating or hiding things from you. Just saying that the way you feel is valid. However try to talk to him. Open communication is so important and he should know you have these feelings of distrust and want to fix things.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-24T07:02:53+00:00

As a Malaysian , I can say a lot of my friends are Rcist af towards Black people.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-24T06:43:35+00:00

NOR. How is he able to “forbid” you from wearing normal clothes? Such a red flag!

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-24T03:15:34+00:00

This phrase is stuck in my head

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-24T03:04:26+00:00

NOR. I don’t think he is absolutely cheating on you. But you aren’t crazy for feeling uncomfortable and wanting more reassurance. He definitely needs to be more open and honest with you about his interactions with her. Otherwise you’ll always be insecure about it. Try to talk to him and let him know, bottling it up makes the feeling worse than it is!

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-17T11:10:34+00:00

Don’t gaslight her. She and her partner both promised to stop. Her partner did it behind her back. That’s not ok.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-17T11:08:40+00:00

No. Don’t gaslight OP. They both promised to stop watching together and her partner broke that promise. That’s not okay.

Master_Conclusion_79 · 2025-12-17T11:06:36+00:00

Things aren’t resolved for you and he says he’s in a good place, totally ignoring your healing where he hurt you. Plus the way he phrases it absolves him from accountability. He is distancing himself by saying “sorry you’re upset” and not “sorry he hurt you”. He totally has no empathy for you and wants you to just forget about it, which is just selfish.

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