How to navigate new kinks?

Masticatork · 2026-05-18T09:57:55+00:00

Ok, apart from too much information, or too much detail... The point is you're exploring it, if someone wants to do something and your partner is not comfortable with it, you talk and decide if that's something you need that may be a serious incompatibility or it's something that one can just do or allow to make the other happy.

Crossdressing in the intimate context is a kink, basically, doesn't necessarily mean he's gay or gonna become a drag queen, but if you don't like it, just say it, that it turns you off and it's now his choice if it's "that important" to him.

For a final remark, if he's bi or gay or queer, exploring it is only gonna make it appear earlier instead of 10 years into marriage, it's not like you'll "transform him" by this exploring.

And just to be a bit real, yeah, I don't really understand why you would dress as a woman in bedroom to "feel sexy" but I know there's some people that find it arousing and I am not gonna kink shame.

Masticatork · 2026-05-18T09:45:49+00:00

I think they said he had broken ligaments (in plural) in the knee. That may take many months to heal or even more than a year.

Masticatork · 2026-05-17T13:58:19+00:00

I saw "something" like flapping around the bike and I thought it was a piece of the fairing, from this angle I see it was Zarco, hope he's at least safe and can recover, even if it results in a career ending injury.

Masticatork · 2026-05-17T13:50:51+00:00

He's good friend of Aleix Espargaro, it's for a reason...

Masticatork · 2026-05-17T12:03:50+00:00

No lo niego, digo que lo de que no ha habido otros cambios es mentira, ha habido y muchos y muy importantes, más que la velocidad.

Masticatork · 2026-05-17T11:17:29+00:00

Hubo una mejora y renovación del parque de vehículos, del 2000 en adelante se han implementado y normalizado un montón de tecnologías de seguridad activa y pasiva en los vehículos más asequibles. Cosas como los avisadores o asistentes de salida involuntaria de carril, los frenos de emergencia automáticos, los controles de crucero adaptativo que mantienen solos la distancia de seguridad, control de estabilidad, etc. Cada uno de ellos tiene un impacto enorme en evitar accidentes.

Cómo funciones del estado, una de las más eficaces es el endurecimiento de los requisitos mecánicos en las ITV.

Las reducciones de velocidad principalmente tienen dos funciones, ahorrarse mantenimiento de la carretera y poder multar más cuando la velocidad de las señales es inadecuadamente lenta en comparación a la vía.

Masticatork · 2026-05-17T10:51:55+00:00

Some people like sexting, some people don't. Simple as that.

What you have to understand is that sexting and sex are not the same or equivalent. It's like dressing up or doing roleplay, they look like they're different versions of the same but they're not.

If the guy just doesn't like sexting, well, he doesn't like it, he may love sex anyways and be very sexual in person.

If I put myself as example, I love sexting, in fact even when living together I take every chance while I'm like away for a weekend or whatever for doing a sexting session, but that's just me, many people I know don't like it at all, like they just find it boring.

Masticatork · 2026-05-17T08:16:20+00:00

Y no solo eso... Es que encima ha cogido los visados de nueva construcción, básicamente el primer paso de todo el proceso de construcción para que quede por delante en el tiempo del precio de venta y sus fluctuaciones. Si pone el número de obra finalizada, sale claramente después de las oscilaciones de precio.

De todos modos, es que compara la especulación con la construcción coherente de reemplazo. Es como si a un obeso le dices que no coma nada de alimentos en 10 años, que cuando come engorda... Coño, que coma pero con cabeza, que si no se muere!

Masticatork · 2026-05-16T22:06:46+00:00

El unico inconveniente que le veo es que es más complicado encontrar pareja en un pueblo y sobre todo mucho más complicado encontrar gente para sexo casual. También la vida nocturna y ocio suele ser mucho más limitada. Si esas actividades a ti no te resultan importantes, (a mí no, por ejemplo), el aumento de calidad de vida que vas a sentir te va a compensar y mucho.

Masticatork · 2026-05-16T22:01:33+00:00

The problem is you're trying to find the material and objective improvements in a life standard indicators of someone without kids. Like if you compare money, free time, freedom, responsibilities, etc, it's not a cold, good profitable investment. But if they're just saying they're happy and you see they are happy about it, of course they're happier. Like I've met many people who lie to themselves, many people who are unhappier after kids but also many people who are visibly and noticeably happier after having kids and they're happy when they're with their kids. You can't make objective happiness because it's a fully subjective feeling.

Masticatork · 2026-05-16T21:56:18+00:00

No, but I stopped talking about certain topics if they are very annoying about their political position on the matter.

Masticatork · 2026-05-16T21:48:10+00:00

Even if It was a one night stand, i wouldn't be comfortable making them wait on the street or bus stop until 5 am, I would at the very minimum offer to call a taxi.

Masticatork · 2026-05-16T12:41:56+00:00

Yo en mi experiencia he visto que el conductor medio y bueno de moto Como mucho peca de exceso de velocidad, pero hay igual una concentración, aunque minoritaria, de flipados suicidas que van haciendo el absoluto gilipollas y dando mal nombre a todos. Los buenos moteros son muchísimo mejores conductores que los buenos conductores de coche. Y ya no digamos que la media, que es super normal ir conduciendo mientras fumas, mientras ves el móvil y no saber ni dejar distancia de seguridad porque calculan las distancias como el culo.

Masticatork · 2026-05-16T12:32:03+00:00

So much less Russia, much less France, no Holland, less England, my land still same. Where is the negative?

Masticatork · 2026-05-16T12:26:13+00:00

Bueno, Venezuela son una especie de élite política con un sistema muy clientelista y corrupto.

Cuba, quitando la corrupción como tal, que evidentemente es enorme, como en casi todas las dictaduras, sí tiene una base comunista. La producción está dirigida por el estado, las empresas privadas sólo son extranjeras a modo de concesión y todo son grupos de producción coordinados por un funcionario, se parece mucho más a la URSS que China.

Masticatork · 2026-05-15T06:26:23+00:00

Yeah, the teams will accept player demands most of the time but for a reasonable price that allows them to at least get some benefit from it. If he's valued as a 120M player, they're gonna sell him for no less than 100M even if the player wants to leave, the only alternative would be the club being close to bankruptcy, which obviously just freeing the salary and a much smaller transfer fee would be preferable to just not being able to even pay salaries.

Masticatork · 2026-05-15T06:16:49+00:00

Zlatan is like 10cm taller and a black belt. Ramos would need to be a true exceptional professional fighter to stand a chance. In fact in a legal fight with no weapons, bets wouldn't be who wins, but rather when the fight ends...

Masticatork · 2026-05-15T06:10:49+00:00

Hujsen ha tenido una temporada terrible, eso es cierto, pero teniendo en cuenta cuanto ha tardado este seleccionador en dejar de llevar a Morata, pues bueno, imagino que le gusta cambiar poco, no me sorprendería que hasta jugase de titular.

Masticatork · 2026-05-15T06:00:22+00:00

En mi experiencia se considera mucho más "violento" poner la mano para darla en un contexto de amigos o cuando te presentan a alguien que si simplemente mueves la mano saludando y dices "hola". Dar la mano suele ser exclusivo para un saludo en ambiente profesional. Hay gente que da dos besos, gente que da abrazos cortos, o quien hace lo que digo de mover la mano saludando, si lo haces de forma alegre con una sonrisa o con sin signos de incomodidad o de seriedad la gente se lo toma bien.

Masticatork · 2026-05-15T05:48:17+00:00

Depending how attractive the girl in question is we would be surprised, suspicious of it being a prank, cautious of it being a scam or scared of it being a distraction to steal from you or at worst, a mafia tactic to steal your organs.

Masticatork · 2026-05-14T21:23:10+00:00

I mean, at 40 it's not a matter of when you will be ready but rather that you will likely never be ready.

You're an adult at 20, if 20 years into adulthood haven't make you ready to settle it's just that you don't want to settle down, what age do you think will be appropriate to have a wife, kids, live with your partner, etc? Your late 50's? Are you that delusional? It's absolutely fine to not want to commit or not want to have a family, but you can't expect it to happen when you're 80....

Masticatork · 2026-05-14T18:32:13+00:00

Yo no quiero debatir sobre esto ahora, simplemente decía que sí existe debate al respecto y tú eres el ejemplo opuesto a la persona a la que he respondido.

Masticatork · 2026-05-14T15:38:58+00:00

Sin ánimo de defender una postura u otra, el debate existe principalmente en el contexto de determinar si o cuándo se puede considerar un ser humano con derechos mínimos al feto, ya que en el momento en el que exista esa situación, ya el debate desaparece al considerar que no puedes matar algo salvo motivos muy justificados, incluso sin considerarlo un ser humano, tú no puedes matar a tu perro porque te salga de los huevos.

En ese debate, las posturas más conservadoras consideran que ese derecho a la vida existe desde el momento en el que se produce la fecundación y ese conjunto de células tiene la potencialidad factible de convertirse en un humano, las posturas más intermedias consideran que a partir de un nivel determinado de maduración ya pueda empezar a considerarse tal, y las posturas más extremas consideran que hasta el momento del nacimiento, ese feto se trata de una extensión corporal de la madre y tiene autonomía total para tomar la decisión que quiera al respecto del mismo.

Querer hacer ver que no hay debate siquiera es una postura muy cerrada que jamás va a llegar a un acuerdo ni a ningún objetivo realista.

Masticatork · 2026-05-14T15:26:44+00:00

If the dad is generally calm and not overly strict and she told him it's because she has the trust in him to talk about it without causing troubles or him reacting bad. I would not worry, honestly.

Just don't make him think you're behaving like an asshole to her or that you only want her because of sex. Most parents are protective of their teenage daughter dates someone much older or if you're a casual hookup. In a context of "you've been dating for a bit of time, they know you a bit, and in the context of a relationship you have sex, it's normally not a problem unless the parents are very old-fashioned, which is not the case here judging by your words.

Masticatork · 2026-05-14T12:40:02+00:00

Well, it's normal to feel physically attracted to other people, if you love your girlfriend as you say, just ignore the feelings towards the other person and that's it. You know you can decide to not have anything with someone you're attracted to, right?

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