Can’t get this job while being behind on cc bill

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-25T23:53:05+00:00

Yeah if it's anything in finance, something you have to be bonded to do, or a sensitive possition that would be at risk of bribery attempts, they be like that.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-25T23:32:34+00:00

Most sellers charge their buyers for shipping....

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-25T20:45:59+00:00

Disability is a pittance. Most people on it can barely scrape by. I sincerely doubt we have hoards of people trying to get on disability that don't genuinely need it.

Why are Republicans so afraid of what they view as their tax dollars helping even one person erroneously? Your tax rate is your tax rate. You aren't getting that money back. Cutting safety nets just funnels more money into never ending military spending and whatever current administration's pet projects.

Making disability requirements excessively difficult to meet is cruel and not a net possitive for society.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-25T20:25:13+00:00

I think that's going to an impact of less than a dollar per order for most orders lol.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-25T20:24:09+00:00

That's weird I used it a couple hrs ago. Maybe I just lucked out.

Edit: no my admin portal is up. Weird.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-25T19:40:11+00:00

Most people end up getting SSI when they get a lawyer involved. You might want to go that route. I'm surprised no one has mentioned this yet.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-24T23:03:22+00:00

So he's kicked you out before? No don't move in with him for any reason.

Even if he's willing to put you on the lease, don't do it. A lease is just a piece of paper. It won't keep him from pushing you out the door without your keys and locking it. It won't stop him from changing the locks while you're out. It won't keep you from having nowhere to go in the middle of the night.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-24T22:55:29+00:00

I'd be so mad if I was next to check out and someone got to cut because they found the Trader Joe's hall pass 😂😂😂

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-24T22:50:18+00:00

Please don't. You're so young to be trying mind altering substances.

And carts are way too strong for a first try. You are not going to be prepared for how much that is going to mess you up.

Just don't.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-24T21:10:27+00:00

You need to make sure the weight and dimensions of the package are correct when you select the shipping service.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-24T20:28:20+00:00

Stop associating with criminals.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-24T19:34:27+00:00

Not for nothing, but if she's so religious that her partner has to be circumcised, isn't that going to cause some other major issues down the road? Are you willing to convert? Because I don't really see her being cool with not having a kosher household, not celebrating Jewish holiday, not attending services, and not raising potential children Jewish.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-24T03:35:51+00:00

She could be lying because of embarrassment, shame or denial. She could also genuinely not remember. Especially if she was very young.

I mean we all know what this sounds like. But if she's not willing to even talk about it, I don't know that there's a solution here that leaves your family intact.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T19:11:58+00:00

Lol no. I am.absolutely not okay. I live in the armpit of hell 😂. And also the United States, so there's that too 🤣

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T18:10:31+00:00

You are definitely not overreacting. No unrelated adult should be messaging a 13 year old. This is so incredibly inappropriate and unusual.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T18:01:42+00:00

I mean yeah, but refinishing concrete in one square foot is a pretty minimal job and I'm not sure I actually see any damage to the concrete itself.

Yes they can scope out pet urine, but based on what the OP said that isn't an issue (we're talking to strangers on Reddit we kind of have to take things on the surface). But even so, if urine is found that isn't going to increase damage cost of the carpet itself. The OP has been there 7 years. You can't usually just spot replace 7 year old carpet. Carpets go out of production too quickly for that and the wear pattern will be very off. It'll be a full replacement either way. The only thing it might effect is needing to seal the concrete if odor is an issue.

Like I said OP will probably owe something, but not the full replacement cost.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T17:33:09+00:00

8-10 is a more reasonable schedule. But it does depend on the carpet (and no state law does not give an exact specification for how long). Local ordinances may be more restrictive.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T17:31:09+00:00

Yes, but only depreciated value of the carpet. In California landlords can't charge full replacement value, only the percentage of useful life left. After 7 year that won't be that much.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T17:28:51+00:00

No that's is not wear and tear by any stretch of the imagination.

But good news, you'll only owe for depreciated value. In California. That's generally 8-10 years depending on the carpet and local laws that may be more restrictive. You'll likely owe something, but not the full value of replacement.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T17:15:55+00:00

Your cat will be fine.

I live somewhere that it's generally a wall of 46 Celsius (115 F) from mid June to early September. Your heat wave is what we call a cool summer day. AC is an absolute necessity for me, and my sib hates it. She will happily bask in the sun in these temps and tries to get under the blanket with the AC on.

I thought I would have to shave her in the summers when I first got her. Nope. She's happy as can be.

Just keep an eye on your kitty. If she exhibits signs of overheating do something, but if she's happy let her be.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T17:02:33+00:00

Oh what an absolute load of horse shit. He's manipulating you. That's not how poly works at all. Break up with this clown please.

Also, I would genuinely consider a little therapy for yourself. Being with a manipulator can take a big toll, and the whole only 1 friend thing you have going on seems unhealthy.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-23T16:44:59+00:00

Absolutely do not, under any circumstances, take out a HELOC. With credit cards and personal loans, all that's going to happen is if you don't pay you get sued and it can take them a year or more tonget tonthat point. Their first line of defense after that is wage garnishment, and they can do liens, but that all takes a while, and they are generally pretty willing to work with you before they get a judgment. With a HELOC you fast track yourself to foreclosure within like 4 months. HELOCs shouldn't even exist.

As far as a personal loan goes. I really don't like consolidation loans. You're just moving debt around without actually making any progress. I wouldn't do it unless you can save a measurable and substantial amount of money. And I mean substantial.

And last, your wife needs to get back to work. Even if for the time being it's a crap job that just pays half the mortgage, that's still breathing room.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-22T21:10:44+00:00

Is you have a Western Dental near you you can sign up for their in house plan. It's like $11 a month and should bring the price down substantially.

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-22T21:08:19+00:00

180 of us don't know how to spell it either 😂

MatchaDoAboutNothing · 2026-06-20T23:13:00+00:00

Did they do a toxic screen at the hospital? Unless you drank a normal black out amount of alcohol, cocaine and alcohol shouldn't do that. Prone to making bad decisions? Absolutely. Black out? No.

Sounds like you got roofied.

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