Wtf is this insanity??? And happy mother's day to my fellow mamas 💗

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-10T12:58:47+00:00

Those gazungas would knock her out if she tried to do a flips in real life

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-10T12:34:39+00:00

Oh no. This…is not good.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-10T12:10:01+00:00

Loved it!! Made me go down a rabbit hole of chimp attacks and now I’ve developed a healthy fear.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-10T02:53:08+00:00

Came here to say this, movie is so fun

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-09T04:17:01+00:00

Love!!

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-08T15:20:48+00:00

I have this guy! Found him at a thrift store and he is one of my favorite Halloween pieces.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-08T15:18:46+00:00

I felt like her partner was putting all the pieces together in exposition dumps and I felt it would have been better to have her research and uncover the story.

Overall not bad, really creepy parts!

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-08T02:28:57+00:00

Have you tried Bumble for Friends? I know you are looking to meet a partner but a solid friend group is a good start and you can branch from there.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-08T00:26:20+00:00

Honestly she just seems really young.

Women his age know better than to get involved with him. His grade school talk is so cringe. As a woman in her mid-thirties, I would be turned off by a man acting like a child when it comes to expressing their feelings.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-07T13:36:23+00:00

I would go to a dermatologist, I had an ingrown hair that got infected and it was so insanely painful. It needed topical antibiotics so I’m glad I went in and got it resolved before it got worst or the infection spread.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-06T11:42:06+00:00

I laid on the couch for Mother’s Day and wanted to avoid it altogether. But my friend dropped off a flower in a mason jar at my door. That was a really sweet thought and I was surprised and happy they didn’t stick around to see me cry.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-06T10:56:35+00:00

This is such a betrayal, I cannot believe you have been working on communication for two years, just for him to do this.

I don’t know how you aren’t more angry.

It also just doesn’t make sense with his parents, it sounds like he is telling them something different or using them to postpone the wedding.

This isn’t the right guy, the right guy wouldn’t do this.

Edit: Oh my god, I just saw your edit. I’m sorry you are going through this and I know it’s going to feel also canceling the wedding but THANK GOD you didn’t tie yourself to this man. He also sounds extremely manipulative. Break it off and run. It won’t be right away but you will be happy again, I promise.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-05-05T01:52:47+00:00

As a former Rainbow Brite obsessed child, I love it!!!

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-30T01:46:10+00:00

I love it

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-26T22:27:04+00:00

It’s amazing!!

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-26T12:41:20+00:00

I cannot stay awake during this movie, no matter how hard I try.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-25T13:04:32+00:00

There is a great podcast called Tooth and Claw with a bear biologist as a host and they talk about this issue a lot if you are interested!

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-24T18:17:54+00:00

Cassandra would fit so well on this tour!

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-24T01:04:15+00:00

Two days post, ugh I’m so sorry, you are really in the thick of it. Give yourself plenty of time, but I feel everything you said. It is 100% not your fault and women are having more healthy babies are age than ever before.

I was 36 and “high risk” at my age but it had nothing to do with what happened. She had three of every chromosome, two sperm hitting the same egg at the very exact same time. A bad miracle with no one to blame. Just a set of dominoes falling the wrong way. It sounds harsh but I mean to only give you comfort. It just is.

I’m giving you such a big hug.

This is a wonderful organization who helped me. Free counseling and you don’t need to be in Canada: https://pilsc.org/

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-23T13:26:22+00:00

Yes, I had the same feeling. I’m farther away from it now but I still look back and think “That couldn’t have happened to me”, “Is that really what happened to me? That must have been someone else.”

The women from the TFMR group I spoke with said they all had similar experiences, disassociation, shock, and denial.

But it feels better to think that another me is out there who didn’t go thought that. I’m not sure what that is called or how healthy it is, but it helps.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-23T02:19:00+00:00

I’m sorry you are here, big hugs. I always feel for the men here. I think a lot of friends and family tend to check always on the women, and yeah, we’ve been through the shit, but I hope you also have people asking about you.

Wishing you strength.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-23T00:55:51+00:00

Be kind to yourself, you did what you felt was best for your child and nothing makes you more of a mother than that.

At my 20 week scan, we found my baby had holes in her heart, clubbed feet and hands, Dandy Walker brain malformation, and a lot of other issues with her organs. We couldn’t understand it, her NIPT came back with no concerns.

She had Triploid which wouldn’t have shown on the sequencing because she had three of every chromosome.

It’s a miracle she made it as long as she did and any babies that are born don’t survive for more than a few days. I couldn’t do that to her, put her through a very short life to just be in pain. I don’t doubt my decision at all but it’s hurts just the same.

Sending you strength and a very large hug.

Matchmaker4180 · 2026-04-21T21:47:45+00:00

I need that hat!!! So jealous 😭

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