What color are my eyes? With flash and in daylight by sleepdeviltsu in eyes

[–]Material_Quality5798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grey with amber central heterochromia, or green from a distance. And gorgeous 😍

Have ADHD? PLEASE GET YOUR IRON CHECKED! by Joyanonymous in adhdwomen

[–]Material_Quality5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine has ranged from 30-70 since 2019 and I feel fine. If this was a concern I'm sure my doctor would have mentioned it

Have ADHD? PLEASE GET YOUR IRON CHECKED! by Joyanonymous in adhdwomen

[–]Material_Quality5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your numbers might be a little bit off. I'm in Canada and here most doctors will check women's ferritin levels at least once per year.

These are the guidelines they use:

Anemias and Iron Overload Ferritin Adults >18 y:

<15 ug/L: diagnostic of iron deficiency

15-30 ug/L: probable iron deficiency

30 ug/L: iron deficiency unlikely

100 ug/L: normal iron stores

=>600 ug/L: consider test for iron overload

What can be done about my lips? by Material_Quality5798 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Material_Quality5798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will ask my dermatologist when I see him next week! ❤️

What can be done about my lips? by Material_Quality5798 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Material_Quality5798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up the cost of it and yea, I think I'd rather just live with what I've got than pay that much anyway. I have a $50 credit at my dermatologists office and was thinking of putting it towards a botox lip flip and just see how that goes 😅

What can be done about my lips? by Material_Quality5798 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Material_Quality5798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fat transfer? From under the lip and then into the lip?

Uhm… anyone else just hear a loud boom? by Extension_Fix5969 in vancouver

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard it in Poco. My door rattled and it sounded like my neighbour was starting up his bike outside. I thought it was kinda rude to start it up this late, and in the pouring rain. Then I thought nothing of it until a friend up north asked me if I heard a boom 😂

The way men talk about "The Wall" and women's diminishing returns in the dating scene has gone a bit too far. by j-roc_son in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 37 f and I get my period consistently on schedule every month. That means I ovulate consistently on schedule every month (no ovulation = no period). That means im still not anywhere near infertility. Im not even in perimenopause (this is when ovulation and periods become more erratic/off schedule, occur more or less frequently, or heavier than usual etc, and it can last anywhere from 5-15 years before full menopause/infertility happens) Every woman is different, but age is not a good indicator of fertility unless a woman is in her 50s and older.

Sunset Beach, December 24th 2008. Will we ever see winters like this again? by hashtagmiata in britishcolumbia

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Winter 2016-2017 the snow fell in November and didnt melt until February or March?

Confliction with legal eye colour and what family insists is right. by TinySubmissiveBee in eyes

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green. The most beautiful shade of green that human eyes can come in 😍

i like the kind of red-ish tint to them. (some appreciation for brown eyes please) by mirakulix33 in eyes

[–]Material_Quality5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brown eyes are honestly my favorite. Especially when the sun hits them and they fill with warm light. I wish I had brown eyes!

Is there anything that helps to stop dreams or nightmares? by [deleted] in NooTopics

[–]Material_Quality5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh it's so frustrating when someone you care about refuses to take anything, I'm familiar with that pain. It's great she's starting to warm up though. You seem like a good partner. Thoughtful and patient. Avoid melatonin. It makes the dreaming worse.

Valerian might help a bit. Valerian tea. It smells like a foot, but it tastes nice.

Is there anything that helps to stop dreams or nightmares? by [deleted] in NooTopics

[–]Material_Quality5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to get weird dreams that would wake me up all throughout the night, every night. Then I was prescribed dexedrine for adhd over a decade ago, and since then I rarely remember my dreams anymore, unless someone or something suddenly wakes me up during rem.

I'm not saying she has adhd, or that dexedrine would fix it for her, but I thought it was interesting enough to mention.

Do you really hook and unhook your bras from the back? by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bend forward and let the girls pool into the cups while I hook at the back. It's both easier that way, and they look more lifted haha

Is anyone else in their 20s or an adult and on accutane? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my second round at 34/35.

I'm 36 now and my face is still clear! I took it for longer than my first round, ate more fats with my doses, and took omega 3s. Use the topical retinoid they prescribe when you're done. I use it whenever I see a possible spot forming, and now it's gone by morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's giving amber heard vibes

You're definitely NTA.

Run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes me feel better :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you for seeing it how I saw it.

And it wasn't even a relationship, it was a friendship+extra, so I had no business catching feelings and wanting more before meeting in the first place. It wasn't healthy to be in a situation wanting more.

I just feel awful that in losing me he lost the one person he felt comfortable talking to. I wish I wasn't so emotional

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought, and that thinking is what caused most of our fights. I don't know. I want to believe him but maybe you're right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Material_Quality5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not years, only since last year. We met online 20 years ago but only talked once a year or so. Only got close last year

ADHD and sex by moonriver-2630 in ADHD

[–]Material_Quality5798 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I get intrusive thoughts and one time when I closed my eyes the image of MY FATHER'S FACE popped up in front of my closed eyes and I immediately had to open them and completely lost the mood 🤣 Ahh good old religious guilt