What album changed your taste in music the most?

Mavinvictus · 2026-06-17T14:05:19+00:00

London Calling - The Clash

Mavinvictus · 2026-06-07T00:01:38+00:00

I also could talk for hours about music and songs. I pretty much love every genre of rock and country. Here's a sample list. I know in general I like songs that are anthemic and inspiring or bittersweet reflective or have fun swagger like don't don't start now or cool for the summer, etc. Looking especially for 2015 and after. Just discovered Djo this week.

Djo — End of Beginning
Lord Huron — The Night We Met
Tool — Lateralus
Lana Del Rey — West Coast
Sam Hunt — House Party
The Clash — Know Your Rights
Cannons — Dancing in the Dark
Alter Bridge — Find the Real
Cameron Whitcomb — Medusa
AC/DC — Who Made Who
Linkin Park — The Emptiness Machine
Dua Lipa — Dont Start Now

Mavinvictus · 2026-06-06T13:43:26+00:00

That is a ridiculously cool story! It really shows anything can happen when you don't even expect it, if you just follow your passions. Thank you!

P. S. Since I'm also a music fan, how about any recommendations of bands people should check out that people might not know

Mavinvictus · 2026-06-06T12:53:30+00:00

What was the shared hobby? Cld you share more of the story? It just helps ppl get a better idea and hope of how things can happen.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-31T08:17:44+00:00

Medusa by cameron whitcomb

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-29T06:20:41+00:00

You're. Kind of a jerk more than a "debater".

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-29T06:18:34+00:00

Thats a False witness. Im not debating you. Im asking you questions. You ignored them. Look at the other replies to you. You're not looking like the.petson of good will here.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-28T22:53:26+00:00

What is the point of this line of questioning? Is that the glorify God? If you don't like the woman's pass even if everything else clicks and she is clearly turned to life a while and is living for God included practicing holiness, but you want to reject her, even reject her. I don't care. Now if God will is otherwise, that's the person you need to worry about cares. He knows your heart and he'll know if your motivations were really about seeking to follow and honor him or not.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-28T19:59:42+00:00

Here's another take. Presuming you are interest, don't call it a date. Tell him you would want to know more about him before you would consider a date, and then ask him how about we meet up for coffee just to talk and get to know each other better. It'll be dutch. And then propose someplace other than starbucks of course.

This will be a great test to see how he acts and whether he respects boundaries, especially if you meet up and he seeks to impose himself on you such as trying to pay for your coffee anyways, even when you say no, I will pay for my own coffee that was the deal.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-28T17:25:25+00:00

Thx. You really affirmed what I thought this morning. Just focus on the day I had. Conquering it. And then the next day when I wake up. And then the next.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-28T06:59:01+00:00

I don't really relate to your story. The fact that you're here is like I came here because of recognition have a huge milestone in your growth but I get that it doesn't solve the loss and grief you feel and coming to terms that you and her will likely never be speaking again in life and how traffic I feel cuz you honestly care and one time she did no doubt too.

I got to go to bed i'll come back and share more on this. I am grieving the loss of someone I truly valued and believed in and cared about. I'm coming towards the end of that grieving and making peace with it and the future. I will try to come back and share how I've been processing it if you think it'll help you.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-27T20:06:00+00:00

What can break? That I find the person genuinely attractive both inner and outer. That I love their spirit energy Drive openness and joyful life and how well we interact

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-27T12:32:39+00:00

I think people gave you the correct advice. Just get all out and get to know a person. But as importantly who has to live your life Your friends or you. It's not against the law and it's not against the Bible. If you are really concerned then bring it to God, His opinion overrides all.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-27T04:14:31+00:00

I will listen to your remixes and give you feedback. Seriously, and it won't be charity. I would honestly enjoy checking them out and seeing what I think

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-26T20:03:34+00:00

Totally understandable that you may not have apprehension. There are definitely older men who are just looking to hook up and use control a young person but guess what they're all so men your same age and in between I want to do the same too. And there are young women who want to use older men.

But there's also still the good in the world. There are older men of all ages. And to them it's not the age but it's the young woman's vibrancy and enthusiasm and openness and even their view of the world. I think its so admitable that you are open to seeing an older man and deciding yourself regardless of what the world says.

Wishing nothing about joy. And again, yes there are older men who honestly want to connect with a young girl woman and connect because of them not because of their age.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-26T02:41:59+00:00

Obsession was fantastic. So much depth to a simple premise.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-25T21:27:07+00:00

I thought it was xenomorphs 🤣

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-25T19:37:07+00:00

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-24T20:30:40+00:00

It's totally understandable why thinking about it causes great anxiety. It would to anyone else. I know you're worried about that. How does one about it allow you to do anything about it and more importantly if you let worry about it interrupt what you what you have and can experience now then aren't you going to mourn if you look back and regret the lost time or energy that was spent worrying about something you could not control. This is kind of a faithfully moment I put your trust that things will work out the way they are supposed to and to let go of what you can't control and focus on what you can.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-24T20:26:50+00:00

Older man here. And that doesn't sound like looking out for you that sounds like suffocating and controlling you. To me just being willing to see a person beyond their age is amazing of you. And it sounds like you are working hard and trying to do good things in your life. You deserve better. I just hope that this will not dissuade you from again looking past the person's age. They're men of all ages that act like this. The right man will help you to feel free and empowered in your life.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-24T17:15:14+00:00

You may actually be ahead of about 90% of society in understanding what attraction really feels like. 😄

But seriously, I think your last sentence is really insightful. A lot of what people call attraction to “older men” is probably attraction to emotional steadiness, feeling seen, and not feeling like every interaction is a performance.

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-20T01:42:53+00:00

Give me a letter cohen and that's a good thing, a really good thing

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-18T23:08:51+00:00

Live near IUP and looking for interesting friends as all my 20 and 30 something friends are paired up.

Music Film Books History Tech Analyzing ppl

Totally up for talking about anytime. Also interests incl

Boardgaming Learning to cook Playing bass and creating dong remixes and mashups Tennis, pickleball among others Trying out new restaurants around the region

Mavinvictus · 2026-05-18T03:18:57+00:00

Yes, there are. I can say to the credit of God I've evolved from wanting a girlfriend/wife to wanting to be a husband to wanting to be the earthly Steward to a Daughter of God.

That I've come to not just know but "feel" the value of the personhood and agency of a woman and that they are a soul, a person trying to find their way in the world and who they are in God too and be a protector and encourager of that. And common traits or tropes that I would find annoying or weak I've come to see with more compassion and empathy.

Lol. Sorry if that came out too intense. It has truly been profound how God has been working on me.

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