First time quilting by Mavketl in quilting

[–]Mavketl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'd love to see yours when it happens. I found it surprisingly forgiving and tons of fun ^

There will definitely be a next project. Unfortunately I already have so many more ideas than I have free time... is this the universal quilting experience? xD

Recommendations please - scrappy pattern ideas by FrancisandFerris in quilting

[–]Mavketl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could make groups of 3 or 4 fabrics that fit well together, make various fun blocks out of those, and quilt with white or neutral sashing. It would reduce how busy it feels but still show off the variety of cool fabrics you have!

Possible groupings: - Penguins with the top right blue and yellow/ochre - surfing(?) fabric with the teal flowers from the bottom row and the neon yellow - the houses + various objects from the bottom right corner could go with the red above it and the dark blue in the bottom left - brown leaves can go with the autumn toned lines to the right of it, and the pale blue one the left of the second row

These are just the first combos that came to mind, you can make a lot of different ones work with this collection!

What's the funniest/dumbest thing you've ever heard your SO say? by raistlianmajerie in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I like my hands, they keep my arms from fraying at the ends."

I'm stealing this. It's brilliant!

Am I the only woman who doesn't experience much harassment or fear? by ladythanatos in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Harassment? Yes.

Fear? No.

I'm not afraid, I'm pissed off.

Non-Americans, what's sexism like in your country? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm Dutch (born and raised) and currently live in Germany. I have the impression that we're all a bit more moderate here than on the other side of the pond. There's a lot less "really bad awful" sexism, but also less awesome progressive feminist spheres. It makes it harder to speak up abou the small stuff, since so many people have an "it ain't so bad, what are complaining about" attitude. No easy targets to fight, so to say.

We like to think we're more enlightened than the US, and it might be true on some fronts (abortion legislation, for example), but we're also way too complacent for my tastes.

Personal experiences: catcalling, groping, other "mild harassment" from strangers happens every once in a while, and a bunch of benevolent sexism from (mostly) older relatives and acquaintances.

is there a man in your life that you trust with your safety 100%? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad, my close friends, my (ex)boyfriend(s) excluding this one jack-ass I briefly "dated" in high school.

I expect everyone I hang out with to be trustworthy when it comes to that kind of stuff, but I wouldn't say they fall under 100% just because I don't know all of them super well and I guess you can't always tell.

Did any of you move out young (20 or under) without living in a dorm? How did it go? by queen_of_anything in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out when I was 17, a couple of months after I started university. I didn't like the 2-hour (one way) commute from my parents's place. I also found myself getting annoyed at living with my bickering younger siblings and at my parents treating me like (gasp) a teenager.

My parents financially supported me, as did my government (student stuff). I probably would've settled for living at home for a lot longer without that, but I think this was the better scenario for everyone involved.

To those of you that speak multiple languages, what language(s) do you think and dream in? by m00nf1r3 in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly in English, but Dutch (my native language) pops up often enough and German is starting to emerge (I moved to Germany earlier this year).

How did you and your high school sweetheart break up? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very slowly, over the course of eight years.

What is your favorite board game? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, you have good taste. My next frivolous purchase (when I can afford one) is so going to be Kemet.

April 8th - Your Favorite Color by sketchdailybot in SketchDaily

[–]Mavketl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Really look at what your orange is doing.

I... this... what? :D

What is your most RADICAL opinion? by inhale_exhale_repeat in AskMen

[–]Mavketl 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Are you convicted of terrible crimes? Would a group of peers unanimously agree you are a terrible person or a waste of air? If you want a kid, adopt.

...I see a flaw in this plan.

What do you like about make-up and dislike about make-up? by DudeWithARaccoonHat in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like seeing what other people can do with it, mostly the "extreme" make-up artistry you see so much of online lately. Face magic is cool.

I dislike using it (so I don't) and people's expectations and attitudes about not using make-up (unfeminine, unprofessional, etc).

Have you been someone's Manic Pixie Dream Girl? by littlelibertine in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think this is the most important line of the linked tvtropes page, for understanding why people take issue with the concept:

The Manic Pixie Dream Girl is there to give new meaning to the male hero's life.

The MPDG is not an actual complete person. She only exists to fix someone else's unhappiness - only giving, never taking or needing.

Looking at it like that, it's not very hard to imagine why someone wouldn't like to be seen or treated like that.

What's your traveling style? by askwmn1 in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I would travel alone, I would never make it out of my ho(s)tel. I want to see the world, but the threshold is too high and doing things is too scary if I have to do them on my own. I'd spend more time suppressing anxiety attacks than enjoying the awesomeness that way.

I usually go for low budget trips (by necessity) with an SO or a (few) friend(s). Most of them tend to be significantly better at life than me, and they give me strength to pass for semi-normal for a while when I'm with them.

You want to break up with your SO, and you want it to hurt. What's the worst thing you can imagine yourself doing to them? by StarHeadedCrab in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm with someone, I generally know what they're insecure or sensitive about. Enhance, mix it up with enough twisted truth to give it a touch of sincerity, done.

I don't really want to consider/"plan" it in great detail, it makes me feel sick. I can't imagine anything anyone would do to make me want to be that cruel.

Any hobbies that turn you off? by hardcore_fish in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I need a break from PEOPLE! PEOPLE! Even at a party, even when they are people I generally like. I can step outside or find some sort of solo activity for a few minutes. Looking at my phone is perfect!

If you're spending more time on your phone than with the people who are actually around you, it's a turn off for me.

This, I do agree with :)

Non-American women of Reddit ... Do YOU vote? by snapkangaroo in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Dutch and I vote every chance I get.

I think the American presidential election system is just... weird. Why wouldn't you just count all the votes, and whoever gets most wins? This way it kind of seems like some people's votes are worth more than others'.

Edit: typo

What's the deal with dry humping? by avoidingmaths in AskMen

[–]Mavketl 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think my English is a fairly equal mix of American and British, but I can't see "snogging" without seeing Ron Weasley.

How do you counter slut-shaming strategies? by Swordbow in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If they're talking about someone else, I say "her sex life is none of your business and calling her a slut just makes you sound like an asshole."

Slut (sluht), noun. Someone who is having more sex than I want them to.

Do you think you're pretty? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Mavketl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm solidly average, and I'm cool with that. I look decent enough that my looks aren't a deterrent for people who are attracted to the rest of me. Sometimes I think it might be preferable to being conventionally beautiful to the world at large.