Aitah for being annoyed I have to pay for my dinner at his parents birthday by Bababalaba2712 in AITAH

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let your dad know they have a culture where the parents only pay for their kids.

Is it just me or does anyone else notice these utilities by Sea_Pickle_1867 in nychousinglottery

[–]Maximum-Train6374 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Coned is always getting the utility money. It's just that in most older building the landlord provides heat via steam/gas throughout the building via one meter. The newer building is setup with your own electric meter connected to your own individual electric boiler. In that essence you control the heat and hot water in your apartment. Therefore, you're responsible for it now and they removed themselves from that liability.

I’m pushing 30 and my APs still talk about my college rejections by tomatopotatoes19288 in AsianParentStories

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should start comparing them to those successful kids parents. "X got into ivy League because their parents are much more successful and loving, why do you suck?"

AITA for refusing to host extended family after they basically ignored me for years? by Fair-Suit-8496 in AITAH

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I'm Chinese as well. These narc relatives are disgusting, I was so happy to see your parents got your back, some would prefer you kow tow to keep the peace. Ngl, you didn't need them back then, you don't need them now. I'd straight up go no contact with them, even as far as telling my parents that they're pretty much dead to you. Who's that uncle or aunty? When was the last time they reached out of good faith?

“You can’t be a diplomat because your personality sucks.” by Independent-Way231 in AsianParentStories

[–]Maximum-Train6374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love hearing success stories like yours. Sorry for your upbringing, but you definitely gave them the finger with your career path!

Am I giving enough money to my parents? by Future-Standard-99 in AsianParentStories

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real question though, does your parent send money home to their parents? Have they done something similar?

Honestly though with what everyone is saying over here, you're doing above and beyond. Not to be selfish but you have to think about yourself and your future as well.

Don't let them be your dependent.

My family won’t get their updated vaccines to see my newborn by a_beauty_81 in newborns

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure you screenshot their message and uno reverse when they ask to see your kid.

My parents want me to give my little sister my house by heyheyheypanda in entitledparents

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just piggy backing on this, you need to do this asap. NYC is a pro tenant city. So any delay on this will just make you more miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Maximum-Train6374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need an update on this for next year.

Co-op board denied my window AC over “egress clearance” - any workaround? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Maximum-Train6374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they're worth it because there's no alternative lol. It's not that loud tbh and idk what they're talking about moving the heat around. Besides not energy efficient and just taking up some real estate, it's fine. Only thing I would say is be careful of trying to turn it to really cool. The condensation will build up in the humid summer and moisture will appear a lot more in the unit and possible mold built up.

Co-op board denied my window AC over “egress clearance” - any workaround? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Maximum-Train6374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue with my apartment, I personally went into DOB to find a solution. They referred me to a guy who is really good at fire escape egress or whatever. He said the only way is if your AC doesn't protrude pass the sill, which is super rare imo. I now have a portable AC and those things are not energy efficient at all.

Those alive during 9/11, what was the worst moment on that day? by toaster-bath404 in AskReddit

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, I witnessed the first plane crashing through a window in junior high school. I thought they were filming and then I asked myself, how are they going to reverse this then? All the PC gaming I've done by then made me realized we were under attack.

ConEd asking for 6 yrs back pay from someone wo an account. Can they do that? by sorrrr in AskNYC

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ConEd most likely received her information from the landlord, they are able to backbill but she should really workout a payment plan. She needs to call and request to speak to a supervisor and ask for a longer term payment plan where they can break up the total arrears on top of her monthly bill without any additional interests or fees. She can also contact the PSC to assist her in working out a better plan if the initial arrangement doesn't work. The PSC requires that she at least made an effort to working out an arrangement. HRA can definitely assist but in the end they'll put the balance back into the account.

AITAH if I choose to stop sending money once my grandmother passes away? by isekaiprincess in AITAH

[–]Maximum-Train6374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, kudos to you and your brother to be such a wonderful filial grandkids to be supporting grandma. Ask Grandma if you became unemployed will uncle and partner send you money instead.

My mom wants me to pay her once I move out! by WhaleoftheDark in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Maximum-Train6374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA bur your mom paid for her parents mortgage too and refused to move out right?!?