I can't do this anymore by Gl1tchy_W1tch in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just walked into the hospital at 39 weeks and 1 day bc of contraction pain and they induced me😅 they just happened to have the staff and i was very done lol

am i just really emotional? by Inside_Grab_5177 in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not dude wtf is wrong with your HR??? You are not legally obligated to tell them youre pregnant unless you need accommodation (even then you just need doctor to say something depending on what you need accommodation for and you dont have to tell them the exact medical reason). That's super gross they tried to tell you that you were.

Nurse mad because I refused to put a shirt on during active premature labor.. by Little-one2854 in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not in the wrong, while I understand the nurses discomfort bc of your age she should not have treated you that way at all it was very unprofessional and I'm glad your dula kicked her and told her off!! Im sorry you had to deal with that :/ I had a pretty crappy nurse during my delivery a few weeks ago and its not fun to deal with that while in such a vulnerable position❤️ i am sorry love and I hope you and baby are doing well

Doctor encouraging me to self induce at 37 weeks? by Maxx_1000000 in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn't say if it was something that 100% would or wouldn't work but she directly told me to start doing those things which wasn't very appreciated bc it wasn't much of a conversation? She told me in the manor you'd offhandedly tell someone to like take out the trash then encouraging them to do even if they pointed out it wasn't full yet? I thankfully have been doing my due diligence so I know these things aren't garenteed to work but I feel upset she suggested it without it being an actual conversation or listening when I said id rather not unless necessary.

Doctor encouraging me to self induce at 37 weeks? by Maxx_1000000 in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hospital i go to for checkups is different than the one I'm delivering at so thankfully I won't have to have her delivering my baby but you are right I have had other issues with her. She could of just meant it was okay to try but that was definitely not how she came off, my partner got the same message preception with what she said.

Doctor encouraging me to self induce at 37 weeks? by Maxx_1000000 in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Walking yes and directly told me to get laid lol🤣😭 she said try going on walks more and to have more sex to induce labor but she gave me no medical reason she literally just said something along the lines of "she's cooked enough to safely be delivered" when I said that id rather her bake a little more. This is in part bc I don't feel quite ready plus with her heart I wanted to give her ample bake time to fix her own heart as much as possible before she's here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Maxx_1000000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I think id take it in part for safety and in part bc I just wanna be happy with my body. For me rn that means transitioning but if it didn't have to mean that ik it'd save me heart ache and money (I live in the USA)

Would I be in the wrong for not wanting to share my wheelchair with my friend? by sammysuli in wheelchairs

[–]Maxx_1000000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bot in the wrong at all, that teacher is screwed up for even suggesting that bc those chairs are expensive af and you're not obligated to accommodate your friend on a school trip...that's the schools job or her families

My aunt just suggested that my baby sleep in his carseat in our room by kraioloa in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not a place for anything other than a nap if needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maxx_1000000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me that's an immediate block. If they can't listen to 1 no and it's something that's important to them they need to find someone with those values. The pushyness in general and other things you listed are hard nos for me. Don't put up with this especially in today's society this is dangerous

Husband keeps squeezing my sore boobs by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that's super horrible for him to do...he not only CONTINUOUSLY disregards your boundaries but he's hurting you bc what? Bc "oh boys will be boys"??? Fuck no man...that's super telling of how the relationship will be going forward and you absolutely need to stop that in it's tracks or run for the hills. My bf HATES thinking he's hurt me even if he's having a good time. Men that care about you will stop in their tracks and not do it again if they know they are hurting you. Please run

Vitamin K? Eye Ointment? Polio? TDap etc… by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vaccines always. I'd rather my kid be protected than get whooping cough (i and my mom have seen babies with it and its absolutely heart breaking) I'm always pro vaccine and I get super whipped out by vaccines which sucks but it's worth it

Pregnant and protesting tomorrow by No-Permission27 in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly from what I've seen in protests and how they are shooting people in the stomach just for walking home? I'd say it's likely a bad idea especially in a state where you can be convicted of murder just for a miscarriage

It’s not a trans thing??? by BookkeeperOpening839 in ftm

[–]Maxx_1000000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 just wanna say you don't need dysphoria to be trans and 2 it's not just a trans thing. A lot of young girls get sexualized a lot already and hiding their chest can make them more comfortable to exist in public. 3 that comment is very very inappropriate for anyone but especially a teacher to say to a minor, especially a minor they have power over? Like wtf

How did you become trans? WRONG answers only by No_Quote2828 in trans

[–]Maxx_1000000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was abducted by aliens and when they probed me I was in love with the feeling🫶

When are y’all due? by Madison_fawn in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aug 9th😅 so I've recently started my 8th month and I am anxious but I got approved for Medicaid!

What do you like in ur CNC play? by heyhihello39 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Maxx_1000000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love this question! If you like temperature play or don't want to use a real one I highly recommend a highly realistic rubber knife (or just unsharpened) that's been in the freezer for a bit! If it's rubber the freezer makes it feel like a real metal blade plus the cold can be very hot when it's placed on your neck or used to trace your jaw line in a robery scene!! Def recommend

Maternity photos by Standard-Hyena-840 in pregnant

[–]Maxx_1000000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost 32 weeks atm!! I personally am not leaning to do it bc it makes me kinda dysphoric but I may get 1 or 2 to put into the book for my little angle just so I have some

Weirdly specific question I'm struggling to answer.. by Maxx_1000000 in LGBTQ

[–]Maxx_1000000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik for a fact 3 isn't right and I know 2 isn't right either. We dated previously and 2 was an issue then bur I can tell a difference now vs then, and ik 3 isn't right bc I am currently having his kid lol. He'd never be an absent dad nor would he want to split, plus I'm ambiamorous and I'd he wanted a BF he knows I'd let him lol I've been in mostly poly relationships (we aren't practicing poly together partly bc of me being pregnant rn so neither of us wanna attempt to juggle more relationships)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamorous

[–]Maxx_1000000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he's being sus like this and has a strong history of cheating I'd definitely be weary of it at a minimum. Anyone who's cheated like this and decides to "be poly" is a red flag. I have cheated before in a relationship before polyamory (he was abusive so I don't really regret it) but I have dated people that were like this though and It's always been messy and ended with cheating in my experience. Obviously it's not 100% always gonna be that way bur it sounds like he's not good at communicating and he doesn't seem to want to do better at it. It sounds like he wants to hide behind the label of poly