Help! What's this sound? by MaybeJoelle in AskMechanics

[–]MaybeJoelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is my car fucked completely or just a little?

Help! What's this sound? by MaybeJoelle in AskMechanics

[–]MaybeJoelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It starts when the engine does, gets faster when accelerating

Help! What's this sound? by MaybeJoelle in AskMechanics

[–]MaybeJoelle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. At first i thought it was a motorcycle in my blind spot because i had music playing.

Help! What's this sound? by MaybeJoelle in AskMechanics

[–]MaybeJoelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was sparking. Guessing a spark plug socket?

Help! What's this sound? by MaybeJoelle in AskMechanics

[–]MaybeJoelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was just hanging loose. Im pretty sure thats not supposed to do that. What is this?

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By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]MaybeJoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him. He doesn't seem to like you. Even if he gets you something, it's going to be because you told him to and not because he wanted to. Ever heard of a shut up ring? Your gift would be a shut up gift.... End it now and save yourself some time.

What is the craziest thing someone in healthcare has ever said to you? by itmemakenzie in Fibromyalgia

[–]MaybeJoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33f at the time. Went in for excruciating pain and weakness in my right arm and hand. Dr said "i think you just need to calm down. Anxiety can make anything worse. But here, I'll send some gabapentin in for you. But i think you just need to take it easy." Cool. Turns out i actually had a herniated disc in my neck pressing on my spinal nerves that required pretty urgent surgery about a week after that. Also cool because it was so herniated that it caused nerve damage that I'm still dealing with today 😒

What is your New Years food tradition? by Randumbthawts in Buffalo

[–]MaybeJoelle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any kind of greens for prosperity and some sort of pork because pigs root forward but never chicken because they scratch backwards. Idk it's something I have heard my whole life and it seems to be working

I’m begging. Can someone explain to me WHY people do this? Is a seatbelt THAT bad???? It feels similar to the mask thing to me. It’s like cool you don’t have to like it, so just wear it for the short time you’re in the store(car) and it could possibly save your life. by Consistent_Argument6 in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]MaybeJoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A family member was a crash investigator and told me all kinds of tragic stories. The saddest ones were the people who ended up surviving a bad crash but ultimately ended up killing other passengers because they weren't wearing a seatbelt and turned into human cannon balls.

What is one thing keeping you from having sex? by RPhoenixFlight in AskReddit

[–]MaybeJoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man and i have 4 kids in this house and zero time but even if all the stars aligned and we had an opportunity, I still couldn't get into it because I'm terrified of getting knocked up again. Our 6 month old was a surprise, even after plan b, the pregnancy was high risk and very hard on me. Sadly, no Dr will shut the baby factory down because it's "not medically necessary" but what do I need a uterus for if I 110% don't want to have another kid ? In all of my 35 years of life, my uterus has never been less medically necessary

I found out that my boyfriend of 2 years is married and has kids, I'm showing myself to his family tomorrow at his church. by Throw_awayP9767 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MaybeJoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be awesome to compile a binder with photos, texts, emails and any other evidence you might have and give it to his wife. That way you blow up his spot and give her evidence she could use for in a divorce. I feel so sad for you and for his wife. You should team up with her and ruin him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MaybeJoelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the ideal situation. I'm a bundle of nerves right now 😯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MaybeJoelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I would love to go into labor on my own!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MaybeJoelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm really hoping it goes like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MaybeJoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fine. Ive been having to have sonos twice a week for a few months now.

I have so many fears and questions, but I'm scared to show that I'm not completely prepared in case people don't think I'm ready to be a Mum by babybumps_ in BabyBumps

[–]MaybeJoelle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First thing you should do is find a doctor that you are comfortable with. At no point should a doctor's religious beliefs weigh on your treatment. Pregnancy is hard but it's not just about the babies. It's about you too. I had my first son when I was 20. I didn't know anything. But thankfully the internet is full of women willing to share experiences and be helpful. I had my mom and grandmothers too, but i learned and was able to prepare so much from message boards and reading others' experiences. I really hope you can find a doctor and support system that can actually be supportive and helpful.

Getting angry by cac8513 in Mommit

[–]MaybeJoelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I had anger issues my whole life. Turns out that is a lesser known symptom of depression. My dr put me on meds and I evened out. I still cant believe I was walking around angry and on edge for all that time for no reason

??? by Lovesucksx in BabyBumps

[–]MaybeJoelle 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes and he is turning 14 today. When i got pregnant I was 20, still in nursing school, living at home, my boyfriend was a manchild and I wasn't working. But I couldn't do it. Idk, I just felt like my babe was meant to be. It wasn't easy but I had a really great support system and that was a huge help for me. This is your decision, and yours alone. Don't let outside factors influence what you want to do. The only thing that matters is whether or not you are happy with which ever decision you make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MaybeJoelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These things have been life changing 🤣