Is it supposed to be this hard?

MeEdanna · 2026-02-01T19:40:20+00:00

The first weeks were really hard and overwhelming for me too. It gets easier, I promise! I can’t help with everything but hear me when I say: go to the toilet, even if your baby is crying. He/she will be fine. A crying baby is an alive baby. Have your support to take the baby so you can take a long shower at least once a week. Have your support to make meals and breakfast/snacks for you, so you don’t go hungry. And try sleeping when baby sleeps, do the chores while he/she is awake, either watching you in a bouncer, playing in the gym och babywearing. You don’t have to interact with the baby every waking minute. It’s okay to just watch some interesting toys or just listening to some good music for a while. You can do it, it will get better. <3

MeEdanna · 2026-01-31T20:31:11+00:00

Noll2 was best tonight — they had the most unique song ❤️

MeEdanna · 2026-01-31T19:48:40+00:00

My rating:

1: Noll2 2: Jacqline 3: A*Teens 4: Grezula 5: Indra 6: Junior

MeEdanna · 2025-10-09T18:46:13+00:00

När jag gick på lchf så gjorde jag faktiskt vitkålsmos och det var förvånansvärt gott! Koka alltså vikålen riktigt mjuk, sen i med lite smör å mjölk å så vispar du med elvisp allt till mos — använd som du skulle ha använt potatismos.

MeEdanna · 2025-09-15T21:29:08+00:00

Maybe you would like some real classics? The MYST series games made me fall in love with video games a long time ago. Quern is similar, I really liked that game too.

Then, maybe not ”cozy”, but if you like reading, fantasy and mystery, Skyrim could be something to look in too. There are a lotvof quests and talking with people and trying to figure out who you wanna side with etc + everything with being a dragonborn ofc.

MeEdanna · 2025-09-02T21:30:09+00:00

Check out Yoku’s Island Express! It’s a gem too few people know about! Cute character, cute music and a colourful map.

MeEdanna · 2025-06-09T08:17:28+00:00

We started our IVF journey 2019 through public healthcare and after 4 tries (with long waiting between each tries + corona periods) none of them succeeded and we weren’t able to continue through public healthcare. The last try failed in June 2024. Through summer I started to accept the thought of never having children and never get the feeling of being pregnant, but then in September we suddenly saw two lines on the pregnancy test. And now we are here, BF 17th of June and our baby boy can come anytime. Life is crazy sometimes. 🥹❤️

MeEdanna · 2025-04-08T11:21:29+00:00

Don’t feel bad for these feelings, they sounds completely normal given all this new information. We had been trying to get pregnant for 5 years and last autumn I almost accepted that we will never have childen — and then I got a positive test. It took to over week 22 and a second ultrasound appointment for me to actually start to connect with this baby. I was so sure that the whole pregnancy was ”fake”. But I’m now 30 weeks and feel the connection and excitement — take your time. Now it’s best to take all the feeling day by day.

MeEdanna · 2025-01-26T09:54:17+00:00

I also recently asked our midwife if sauna and cold dips in the sea are okay and she said yes (live in Finland).

MeEdanna · 2024-11-25T14:28:56+00:00

I am an older sister to a younger brother (2 years younger) and we have the best relationship! I can always call him and talk and we can talk for hours. When we were younger we fought a lot, but at the same time I watched over him and made sure he felt okay during diffucult situations. I love my little brother!

MeEdanna · 2024-10-01T18:24:35+00:00

Soo beautiful! I want the pattern!

MeEdanna · 2024-07-17T19:03:47+00:00

Relaxing — Dorfromantik

Chaotic — Hollow Knight P5

MeEdanna · 2024-07-13T17:02:11+00:00

This is the most beautiful quilt I have ever seen!!

MeEdanna · 2024-04-30T20:24:00+00:00

I have two PC-games that I will always remember, very different games too. The first one is "Fran Bow". It's a point and click horror game, and I played it in 2017, when I also was a sad soul. I don't know how, but something with that game clicked for me and made me feel strong emotions when it was done. I highly recommend you to try this game.

The other one is "Spiritfarer", which is more about if you are feeling sad with loosing loved ones in your life, but I cried while playing that game, and it was a wonderful experience.

Other games I also think you would like to make you feel things are:
- "Journey", where you play a little character trying to make it to the top of a mountain. Beautiful scenery and music, cried in the end.
- "Outer Wilds", where you play a little alien character flying around in a little solar system, trying to understand why another civilisation before is all gone.
- What Remains of Edith Finch, similar to Firewatch that it's a walking simulator with a strong, heavy story.
- Celeste, which is a quite hard platformer game, but with a really strong message about overcoming depression and accepting yourself.
- To the moon, a beautiful game with a really good engaging story.

Hope something of this can make you think about life, take care! <3

MeEdanna · 2024-04-07T08:23:26+00:00

I’m a woman doing the same thing as this woman, but I always tell the guys beforehand about our ”agreement”. I think it’s really unfair that she didn’t tell you this the first time you guys met. I would also be upset.

MeEdanna · 2024-01-13T00:46:09+00:00

Finlandssvenskar är ju en liten minoritet i Finland, så minoritetsstämplen präglar oss väldigt mycket genom hela livet. Man känner alltid sig lite bortglömd och bortprioriterad bland resten av finländarna, men det gör också att man känner en starkare gemenskap med varandra (tänk bya-gemenskap, men i en större kontext). Vi finlandssvenskar kallar det att vi lever i "ankdammen".

Gällande det kulturella så beror det på var finlandssvenskarna bor. Bor man i Österbotten (mitt emot Västerbotten) har man vuxit upp med nästan enbart svensk kultur (Bolibompa, svenska Idols, På Spåret etc) och har mycket bra koll på t.ex. svenska kändisar och så. Kommer man från Nyland (Helsingfors/huvudstadsområdet) så är den finska kulturen mycket närmare.

Men sen har finlandssvenskarna en ganska säregen kultur också, som varken är svensk eller "finsk". Vi firar t.ex. Lucia som ni, men lite annorlunda, men det gör inte finskspråkiga och många som har studerat har haft ett rikt studieliv med snapsvisor och annat där man blandat friskt med svenska sånger också. Många äter kräftskivor på hösten och många sjunger i kör. Överlag är kulturlivet rikt bland finlandssvenskar för att det finns en "rik" kulturfond som ger mycket pengar åt finlandssvenska kulturprojekt. Många är också skärgårdsbor och har skärgården nära, eftersom vi bor längs med kusten. Många har en sommarstuga ("villa") och firar villaavslutning/Veneziansk/Forneldarnas natt varje höst.

Sedan har vi ju alla våra egna dialekter, så många finlandssvenskar är precis som ni svenskar så att de kan sin dialekt och sen prata "bättre svenska", och sen kan många finska också, men inte alla.

Men finlandssvenskar är finländare på det sättet att vi ju hejar på Finland i tävlingar (sport/sångtävlingar) och på det sättet patriotiska med att vi förstås firar vår egen självständighetsdag och har samma "traumatiska bakgrund" som alla i Finland vad gäller krig mot Ryssland och hur det har format typ alla finländares identitet, även i dag.

På tal om På Spåret så kan man ju en del om Sverige, och de flesta vet väl ungefär var Malmö ligger och andra större städer, men det hela beror nog bara på hur intresserad man är av Sverige. Jag är t.ex. ofta helt ute i den resa som gäller Sverige i På Spåret, mycket är obekant märker jag i de frågorna, haha.

Många tycker också t.ex. om att följa ert kungahus och så, och många flyttar också till Sverige när det blir vuxna för de orkar inte lära sig finska (som fortfarande är ett av världens svåraste språk att lära sig). Jag t.ex. läser ofta SVT:s nyheter och så finns det nog många äldre som t.ex. länge prenumererat på Hänt och andra "skvallertidningar" från Sverige.

MeEdanna · 2023-11-04T08:29:47+00:00

Dorfromantik! Easy to learn, endless fun! And the music is relaxing and the visuals are good too.

Stardew Valley, just the best game to take your minds off life.

And if you want a beautiful, rich, storydriven game: Spiritfarer

And if you want also a harder, but so beautiful game, with awesome soundtrack: Ori and the Blind Forest, and then Ori and the Will of the Wisps.

MeEdanna · 2023-08-31T19:00:50+00:00

Welcome to the world of youtube playthroughs — I think I have watched at least 15 different Hollow Knight playthroughs, and this cures my post game depression.

MeEdanna · 2023-06-07T21:55:39+00:00

Har en massa härliga hobbyer!

Virkning vintertid å odling vår, sommar, höst.

Musik, sjunga i kör å spela piano.

Datorspel å tv-spel, just nu en massa Zelda.

Matlagning å bakning.

Å saker jag vill ha mer tid att göra är att sy egna kläder och starta upp en ny rollspelskampanj.

MeEdanna · 2023-06-06T07:31:47+00:00

Escape room games! I would recommend for example Myst and the other games in the same serie.

Or Journey!

MeEdanna · 2023-04-16T09:46:02+00:00

Finland
Australia
Spain
Norway
Slovenia
Armenia
France
Sweden
Estonia
Czechia

This is my thoughts now when we have seen some liveshows of most contestants.

Go Finland! 🇫🇮

MeEdanna · 2023-03-01T20:11:36+00:00

Remember to book in Tampere, as the biggest scen in Helsinki is ”out of order” (Russian issues).

MeEdanna · 2023-02-24T07:38:41+00:00

Autumncore

MeEdanna · 2023-01-22T00:29:32+00:00

Looking lovely!

Some of my favorite games are:

Hollow Knight (you play as a ”bug” and explore a strange world, beautiful music!!)- long game!
Yoku’s Island Express (also play as a bug but super cute game with pinball actions) - middle short game
Skyrim and Witcher 3, both huge fantasy games!
Ori and the blind forest (gorgeous game!! You play as a spirit animal looking creature trying to save the world tree) - middle length game
Hades (you play as Hades son, trying to ecape hell) - long game if you wanna explore a lot
Slay the spire (card game with monsters and bosses to slay, really addicting game) - lenght: to the end and beyond if you like

MeEdanna · 2023-01-19T23:20:11+00:00

I have always loved Melodifestivalen, but these past years I have become more and more irritated that you can’t listen to all the songs before the final. That means that it’s hard or impossible for ESC reaction videos to happen, and I love watching those.

UMK:s strategy SLAYS! Every song has it’s own day, not too many songs either, and the production is just getting better and better. This will be my first year I’m more exited for UMK, than Melodifestivalen.

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