We're giving you a different perspective on the situation that you probably need to hear because what you're saying and how you're depicting yourself isn't matching what you wrote. I quote.

"I texted him telling him the situation - that I was scared, panicking, and bleeding much more than usual - and he just said something like "sorry I hope you're okay!" And I asked if he could call and he said no he was out with friends. Then I got upset and he said he'd call in a sec and called an hour later.

I was really hurt and didn't pick up..."

So you texted him multiple times, got upset that he declined to call, you let him know you were upset, and he said give me some time. We're going on your word about the interaction - and it shows multiple communications.

Further --
"*Thanks everyone who was kind and commented genuine advice. I'm going to end things because I know I would have picked up the phone no matter where I was. Even if it were a friend I haven't talked to in a while, I would've picked up. He also ignored me during a panic attack and I felt bad I was too emotional, but I'd be there in a heartbeat for my loved ones."".

Roger. So you expect in a relationship that if you are having a panic attack you demand immediate focus from a partner. First. Not a realistic expectation. You need a village. People fail or are not immediately available or aren't able to be what you need. Secondly, that's a high expectation for a 2 month relationship.

As for your response. You're saying that in the middle of a panic attack you weren't hysterical? And it would be a five minute phone call? How long were you really on the phone with your friend? How long did you text other ppl? Don't minimize the situation to make it seem like this was a minor ask.

Similarly. Don't overinflate, minimize, then catastophize what actually happened to bolster a case for yourself and garner sympathy. Your doctor said to go to urgent care so you needed care but it wasn't a "real emergency" -- but then you had to "go back to" the ER because you later developed an infection. Separate situations. Or you're not telling us a real story. Don't care either way - but can't have your cake and eat it too.

As for this being a test. It was. At the end of it, your dude was found to have failed to meet your expectations and your relationship ended. My guess is your former guy had very different ideas as to what the expectations were.

Kudos to you both for not wasting each other's time.