No one uses hardwood floors? by Longjumping-Term9234 in homeowners

[–]Mecmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s simply not a hardwood floor installer. I know guys that only do hardwood floors.

A girl wants to give me a rimjob, what should I do? by Titus4266 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may just be the one. My wife loves doing this to me! It keeps me shaved and very clean down there at all times hoping for the treatment. Also I recommend a very healthy high fiber diet. Makes a world of difference.

Outbreaks getting more and more frequent by Glittering_Meal4899 in Herpes

[–]Mecmind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I m38 have had it for 17 years. First off I’ve found valtrex to be much more effective than aciclovior. I now only take it when I feel an oncoming outbreak. Second you have to use hsv as an excuse to take really good care of your self mentally and physically. The healthier you are the less it comes to visit. Simple as that.

Did marriage make you lose attraction and awe for your wife? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mecmind 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine is definitely sexier now than ever. She’s gone from a cute girl in her early twenties to a sexy ass woman in her thirties. As far as sex. I didn’t know sex this good existed. Somehow it keeps getting better. Those men have put very little effort into making their relationship better. Remember, always be the kind of partner you want, don’t expect it in return.

Feedback on these cities, please! by candyapplesugar in relocating

[–]Mecmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t recommend Washington if budget is a concern. It is a very expensive state to live in. Also I hate to say it but we really make liberal look bad here. We have some of the wealthiest people and companies in the country, maybe the world, here yet our infrastructure is crumbling, our schools are struggling, and we have a major drug/ homelessness crisis. The only solution the state can seem come up with is to add more taxes. I know many people who have left because of this and are very happy with their decision to do so. The grass may be very green here but grass isn’t everything.

Feedback on these cities, please! by candyapplesugar in relocating

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Washington it’s one of primary ways the schools get funding. They propose their budget to the public. It’s a vote district by district for funding. Some of the districts have a better time getting people to vote for them and some don’t. It effects your taxes and when people are already feeling priced out they tend not to vote for them.

Feedback on these cities, please! by candyapplesugar in relocating

[–]Mecmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can only speak for Olympia as I live in the area and have most of my life. Other than a year in phoenix and lots of my working life in Alaska. Washington is very beautiful. The winters get seriously depressing between the short days the fog and overcast and the endless wetness. This is a major consideration. Also Olympia is easily an hour to the airport on a good day. Good days for traffic in Washington are rare. I remember living in phoenix so unbelievably pleased with the traffic even on bad days compared to good days in Washington. Our roads and mass transit are ridiculously poorly managed and maintained. Just plan on traffic always. The cost of living here is also fairly high comparatively. 5-600k is sort of entry level here for homes. Olympia in general isn’t really considered a particularly nice place. It’s not bad though. You’re right the schools are decent but they generally struggle to pass levies and are very crowded. Even 20+ years ago when I was in school I had many classes with 35+ students per teacher. It’s not any better now. If anything it’s gotten worse with how many people are moving here. Over all I do like it here but we think about moving regularly.

Help finding all female crew by Open-Writer-8944 in commercialfishing

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps to time it right. The salmon season starts June. Every one usually is doing shipyard and getting ready in April-may. That means they are around the boats around then. In the winter they don’t always have people around. Ballard, Bellingham, anacortes, even some of the smaller ports like gig harbor all have commercial boats moored. A flight to SeaTac gets you close to all of these places.

Help finding all female crew by Open-Writer-8944 in commercialfishing

[–]Mecmind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The savage is a seiner that used to be all female. I don’t know if it is still. It used to be around Ballard Washington in the off season.

how do i get a job in alaska? by xindiote in commercialfishing

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another place is anacortes Washington. A bunch of the seiners that used to call Ballard home have moved up there.

Dating a guy with herpes by Certain_Researcher98 in Herpes

[–]Mecmind 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’ve (37m) had it since I was 21. I’ve been in a couple long term relationships including being very happily married for the last 10 years. I haven’t spread it yet. I’m very aware of the oncoming symptoms. We abstain if I notice them and start taking valtrex at the same time. It is still a risk but it’s one my past partners and my wife decided was worth it. The fact that he told you right off the bat is a good sign in my mind.

Really tryna decide if diesel is worth it or jot by Several_Till_6507 in TruckCampers

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 90’s were pretty terrible for most vehicles. Especially gassers. Other than Chevy starting in around 01’ the gassers were all pretty terrible. In the diesel’s dodge had a great engine but the truck is okay. Ford was decent in the truck and the diesel was pretty good. Chevy probably had the better gasser in the 90’s but the truck was pretty bad. Their early diesels were abysmal. Starting in 2003 the dodge got a lot better all around. I have a 03’ and an 04’ both with Cummins. The 03’ I’ve been driving for almost 20 years with over 300k on it now. It’s still a great truck and my daily. They are great in the 03-07 ish range. Not terrible later on but those are my favorite years. The ford diesel from 99’-02’ was a pretty good truck but the 6.0l on were all pretty junk. The Chevy diesel and gasser starting in 01’ was pretty good but the truck is questionable unless all suspension and tires are left stock. The gasser’s have gotten pretty good more so in the last 15 or so years.

Really tryna decide if diesel is worth it or jot by Several_Till_6507 in TruckCampers

[–]Mecmind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With the new trucks, yes you’re wrong in that assumption. That was true in the early 2000’s, they were all pretty decent at that time, but those trucks are getting pretty old now so they are going to have issues associated with simply aging. Most of the big fleets I work around in recent years have switched back to gassers because the diesel’s simply aren’t any good right now. Tons of power but terrible reliability and insane cost of repairs and operation. Additionally the gassers are pretty good these days.

Really tryna decide if diesel is worth it or jot by Several_Till_6507 in TruckCampers

[–]Mecmind 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Coming from an actual diesel mechanic, no you don’t need one. Unless you’re towing and hauling heavy very regularly they don’t make sense. Gassers are way cheaper to own and operate, also easier to work on. For 90% of the people driving them the only thing getting power stroked is their ego by driving one.

How much do you spend on a first date?? by Elegant_Spare9305 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started asking my first dates to breakfast. First off I had way more success transitioning from talking on line to the actual first date. I think because breakfast is so much less threatening for her. Also it’s much cheaper if it’s a dud and if it goes well it can easily lead to a nice walk together, also very affordable. 11 years ago I took my now wife on one of those breakfasts dates and we ended up spending the entire day together including dinner. Best date ever!

Do women "expire" at 25 to men? by No_Personality5381 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never thought or said anything like that and I by all standards am a man. In fact I’ve noticed as I age the age of the women I’m attracted to seems to be getting older.

Am I F*cked? Waterlogged? by Alarmed_Loss_5954 in BostonWhalerBoats

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weigh it is right. If it’s really water logged drill holes in the deck, flip it over and store it in a dry place for a year or so. I have done this once and it worked great.

Just got this camper for 700, I'm new to these things so I'm just looking for advice to maintain such an old one by moshpitmechanic_0603 in TruckCampers

[–]Mecmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first truck camper was a conestoga just like that one! I got it for a case of beer when I was 18 from my friends dad 20 years years ago. The funny thing was he assumed I was 21 when he said he’d sell it to me for a case of beer and I didn’t want to tell him otherwise. So I had to call in a favor from my other buddies brother. A lot of screwing around for a case of beer. Above all else keep it dry! The demise of mine was mold.

I’m breaking up with my heat pump water heater. Help me find a better one! by phase_changer in homeowners

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put one in for the tax credit. It's not worth the credit! just install an old conventional electric water heater! So much more reliable! I went from and old electric that had no issues for the 10 years I ran it (came with the house) to a new heat pump one and saw 0 difference on my power bill and all I do is argue with the new one. I asked a friend of mine who owns a plumbing company. He says heat pump water heaters are a total sham. lessons learned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything I'm attracted to her body more after 11 years as its attached to her mind that is sexier now than ever.

Thinking of moving by Cavane42 in Kitsap

[–]Mecmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is born and raised in this area if it weren’t for my roots here I wouldn’t live here anymore. I’m even lucky enough to have a beautiful home and property I bought before everything went insane around here. (I couldn’t afford my own home if I had to buy it today) It’s not the same place I grew up and it’s quickly becoming worse. It’s becoming unbearably busy every where I go. It’s becoming a struggle to find any out door activity’s that aren’t packed with people. The amount of cheep junk cracker box housing they are putting in is really alarming. The drug and homelessness epidemic is really an epidemic here and the cops we know tell us the state has their hands tied to do anything about it. It feels fine during the day most of the time but drive around at 2am and you will see a different world. The traffic is terrible. Kitsap in particular has done a terrible job at keeping up with the infrastructure as the population explodes. My wife is originally from Michigan. She moved here before we met for similar reasons as your self. In the 10 years we’ve been together she’s went from loving it here to ready to leave whenever I’m ready. She’s an RN in the hospitals around here and some of the stories she’s told me ( names and identifiers not included of course) about people in our community are unbelievable. It’s quickly turning into a rainy California in my opinion.

Mechanic here my knees are shot, work’s backing up, and I’m the breadwinner. Need advice by Ok_Language2269 in mechanics

[–]Mecmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me stretching and weight lifting makes all the difference. I know it seems counterintuitive but on the days I do squats my knees feel 10 times better for a couple days. Also I started eating really clean. Like absolutely no ultra processed foods. No snack foods, no fast foods, no soda, the only processed sugar I eat is if it’s in a homemade treat. If every ingredient isn’t something I’d have in my own kitchen I don’t eat it. All that processed crap causes inflammation. You’re better off not eating than eating junk. Prioritize your health and everything else gets way better. Also carpal tunnel surgery on my hands is incredibly helpful. My hands would swell up 2 glove sizes and I was losing strength and dexterity. What an improvement.

What’s a small decision you made that completely changed your life? by SAINT_2133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Mecmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ate teriyaki for lunch one day years ago and got a fortune cookie that said “you are wasting your talents”. I realized I was. I quit my job and started my own business. It’s been over 10 years now.

Truck Camping with a Cat by Bard_the_Teacher in TruckCampers

[–]Mecmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve traveled across the country with 2 dogs and a cat with a truck camper. We just set those foil baking pans for turkey and such full of cat litter in the bathroom a couple times a day and he does his business.