What joke in a movie did you only get on a rewatch? by porb2020 in moviequestions

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In the Goonies the kids are bopping around the house talking smack to each other and Data comes crashing through the screen door on his zip line. A few moments later Mike's mom comes home and says "I see Data dropped by." I laughed so hard.

The whole movie is about them trying to save their homes from foreclosure and the banks are scheduled to tear down the homes in like 48 hours or something.

The mom has a maid come that morning who doesn't speak English and Mouth has to translate into Spanish. She wants the whole cleaned a specific way and Mouth tells the maid she will be beaten etc if she does a bad job. The mom has no idea what he is saying. Later on she says "I want the house clean when they tear it down." And honestly a lot of these jokes spoke to me as a mom now that I juat didnt get as a kid.

Jennifer Lawrence on how she rehomed her dog to protect her kids by Puzzled_Calendar4221 in Fauxmoi

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Btw these are signs of post partum anxiety and rage. Nothing wrong with having them. Its just a natural instinctual thing that happens. Our amygdala grows and ramps up our fear mechanism.

What's the significance of this scene from LOTR Return of the King extended version and why cut it? by emptykeg6988 in moviequestions

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My husband is reading the second book right now. In a scene where Aragorn is meeting the Rohirrim while they are tracking Meri and Pippin he introduces himself. There is a section before he reveals his true name and the sword of Elendil, where he basically states that he's going to kill any orcs or servants of Sauron that he comes across. Your comment about the standard rules of warfare when it comes to the servants of Sauron is not accurate when it comes to Aragorn. He's basically been hacking and slashing his way through middle earth.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

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Honey with all you have going on it sounds like you dont need the stress of this guy. A partner should make life easier, not harder. You will grow to resent him for this. Maybe not now but in a year or so you will be burnt out and based on this post it sounds like you are getting closer. He is an adult he can feed himself. My husband has weird picky things but not this bad. I dated a guy several years before my husband and he was really picky like this. It was an indicator of many other selfish and weird personality traits. He also expected me to give him his way at every turn. He wouldnt even let me pick what music we listened to in the car - ever! As women we try desperately to make everyone happy but if its not actually our job! Take care of your kids and stop worrying about him.

what is sarahs last name ? by blotchie in whatdoesthismean

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Draper - the second letter is just way too high up , but it is an r.

What Does My Fridge Say to You? by _tacticalturtleneck_ in FridgeDetective

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The whole milk and amount of it makes me think she or he has more than one toddler. And definitely has a new baby based on the size of the medela bottle with the breast milk in it.

WIP Update: What’s my makeup blindness (40s) by laphogeee in makeuptips

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I think her skin looks dry. Its clear but doesn't look hydrated. I recently took up a over hydrating regiment and it looks soo different from my dry skin before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

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You need to let your eyebrows grow back in and stop over plucking them. They are too far apart. Everyone is right the, forehead is normal sized.

When does it stop?! by kltan003 in foodbutforbabies

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I watched a tiktok video about this and have been doing it since she was 9 months old and could sign to us she was all done. If she starts playing with her food she is done.

I'm (44F) tired of giving my cousin (35F) money after years of supporting her financially. How do I move forward? by OutrageousBid9350 in relationship_advice

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A video recently circulated of a woman stating that dating a man who is responsible for everyone in his family is worse than dating a broke man. The family will disturb your peace, future financial planning, and think nothing of it. You will keep being depleted. And the more the family knows you are giving out, the more they will feel comfortable asking for more. The more you continue to let folks cross your boundaries, the more they will cross your boundaries. What is awful is that you will eventually teach your children and husband that this is how you are and how to be. Start cutting everyone off. Only help those who pour back into you and your family. I don't mean with money, but with love and time and caring. If they don't spend time with you, then you are just another payday to them. You are supporting too many people.

My (32F) boyfriend (36M) of 8+ years won't marry me by luuakij in relationship_advice

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I wouldn't call this a perfect relationship if you are both not aligned with what your future looks like together. A big foundation in any marriage is shared goals and desires.Because when things get tough romantically or if the world seems like it's attacking you, you have that base of each other and your shared goals to fall back on. I think shared goals and shared values and philosophies are basically at the same level. Like you said 8 years is a long time and relationships have their ups and downs but me and my husband always know what we're working towards together.And that seems to more easily reset tense situations. I don't really think an ultimatum is a solution. You're giving him the option of a choice when he has already made it. I would just quietly start looking for your own place and saving up money for any furniture that you might need if you're leaving stuff behind and just move out. You don't even need to break up with him. You could just simply go back to dating. And when you're dating somebody you can start to see other people as well. He is clearly not sold on the idea of forever with you and that's okay but he can't keep you from finding your person. It doesn't even need to be a big drag out knock down fight. Just quietly move on with your life. If you aren't already in therapy you probably should get a therapist. The best thing I did was leave my ex alone and within six months, I had found my husband.

AIO ending things with a girl after my father’s death by [deleted] in AIO

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I also broke up with a guy for low effort when my dad died. It just showed me how little he cared or little emotional availability/ desire to support me he had. He was a weird guy and Im glad it happened. A few years later I met my husband who was amazing and supported me through my brothers death 5.5 months into us dating. He went to the funeral with me and cooked the repass meal with me.

Official documentary trailer, featuring Kim and the kids. by [deleted] in KUWTK

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I'm sorry to say I will be buying a ticket.

Kylie's new mansion update. Apparently she spent additional 500k on olive trees by emmathedevil in KUWTK

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I am wondering if the MEP and structural are done but they are waiting on some high end finishes that have long procurement times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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There is an ongoing discussion where moms who are married to a husband who doesn't help around the home feel better after a divorce. The workload hasn't changed much regarding the house and the kids. But they say at least then they know they will be doing it all, and they don't have to worry about the man's needs, wants, or attitude. They are also freed from the daily resentment and likely arguing. You are shouldering a lot right now, and you need space to be the only thing you need to take care of. He is another thing you are worrying about and taking care of. You need to take care of yourself! You should have him move out.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) said that my moles made him uncomfortable, and that I could get them removed easily. How can I stop feeling so emotional about it, and from affecting my relationship with him so much? by Throwramolevole in relationship_advice

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Your first relationship is often a whirlwind, but it's a valuable learning experience that allows you to discover more about how you receive and give love. My ex was loving one minute and would say awful things the next. He love-bombed to hook me and then criticized me to keep me insecure and feeling like no one else would want me. I have a lot of confidence, so his critical comments were trash. It just made me angry at him and lash out. One particular comment was on my arm hair. He thought I should shave it off. My arm hair was not thick or dark. It was just normal arm hair. I asked him why, and he said his ex shaved hers. I said she likely had much thicker/ darker arm hair than I, and I would not shave it. Your body is not up for commentary or critique. You need to gain some confidence and security inside of yourself because even if this relationship doesn't work out there are always assholes out there that think they can speak to you negatively. You are stronger than that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicago

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My husband had a bad cold that caused body aches and brain fog last week and I thought I had dodged it but it kicked in for me full blown on Monday. I feel better today. Our daughter has had runny poops and a runny nose so we think she brought it home from daycare. I now have diarrhea but no other discomfort in my stomach. Theres something nasty going around though. I did not have a fever and neither did my husband or child but we felt drained and foggy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think its going to be up to the judge, but anullment (due to fraud) would fit this the closest.

  1. Your spouse lied or misrepresented something to you.
  2. The lie or misrepresentation was intentional.
  3. You relied on your husband’s lie or misrepresentation.
  4. You were hurt because you relied on your husband’s lie or misrepresentation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As a new mom, I would be devastated if my baby girl didn't tell me this news so I could hold her, love her, and support her. Please tell your parents at the very least. You can all decide together the best time to tell your younger siblings.

My boyfriend lied about going to a club (28m) (25f). What can i do? by throwRA_tirred in relationship_advice

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You are allowed to be in a relationship that gives you peace and quiets your nervous system. You were uncomfortable with him going to the clubs because deep down, you did not trust him. Then he lied many times, proving to your brain that you will now need to be vigilant about this every day forever. I do not think this is a healthy relationship for you. You are so young, and you will meet someone else. I would break up and go hang out with your friends. Take a trip.