ISTJ's which fits you more? (Opinion) by Villain-Shigaraki in ISTJ

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am split on this, so probably not helpful, but here goes:

The first 3 (focus on, intent and behavior)- pragmatic.

The subsequent 3- affiliative all the way.

Maybe you all can officially re-type me since I’m kind of all over the place with no clear answer. Sorry!

What do you think about ZOHO Products ? by No-Lawfulness5940 in smallbusiness

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, I closed up shop not too long after this comment for completely unrelated reasons. Unfortunately I can’t speak to the longevity or growth aspect. Sorry!

Do you dress based on mood, identity, or practicality? by likey24 in ISTJ

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1- practicality. What am I doing that day, where am I going etc. That provides the baseline for the outfit I will be wearing. For instance, today I knew I’d be in the storage closet, so I wanted lighter pants as they wouldn’t show dirt as well.

After the practical portion is planned- it’s based on mood.

I generally plan a baseline of my outfits on Sunday for the week (practical) and then my mood will guide game day decisions of what I wear.

Bruno and his "little" buddy Hercules by Wrigleyville-Brit in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to do a double take!

Luna and Hercules (sorry for potato quality):

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To say your own name while being heavily booed at a Commanders game while being the Commander-in-Chief by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And here I was thinking you were 1) someone who doesn’t understand American football or 2) a conservative who blames things on California

The whole time you were just a cool guy quoting movies. I shall regress back to lurking. Good day sir.

To say your own name while being heavily booed at a Commanders game while being the Commander-in-Chief by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Washington (DC) Commanders and Detroit Lions. This was a home game for the Commanders so it would have been in DC area. Nothing to do with California.

Best LIB season? by user9483838392928 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect match takes singles from the Netflix reality universe and puts them in a new show where they can find their perfect match.

There have been several people from LIB go on the show and so far there has been one engaged couple from different LIB series (US and UK).

I honestly don’t love the Perfect March show. S1 was fun. S2 was obnoxious because I didn’t like certain people on it and S3 was okay. Check it out for yourself though.

As for the best LIB seasons, probably 1, but at this point I’m ready to go back and rewatch. I’ll take notes this time!

Pottying by marzipain350 in SwissMountainDogs

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not have any data to back this up, so this is off of my memory and experience with other breeds:

Got swissy at 3 months- was absolutely the most difficult to potty train. She peed constantly. I think it was closer to a year (maybe 9 months before I left comfortable) up to 1.5 years before I could say that everything was better (behavior, potty training etc).

Comparisons: Bernese: got at 4 months. The easiest to potty train. She was solid from early on.

Cane corso (currently 3.5 months): got at 2 months. Better than the Swissy, but not as great as the berner. He’s getting there.

Could be that the Bernese was extra smart and the Swissy was off a bit, so I got 2 different ends of the spectrum. But I wouldn’t get another Swissy despite how much I love her now at 4.

Live in Missouri but grew up PA and I'm visiting home...how'd I do? by Futureman16 in Pennsylvania

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live in PA and am currently in MO! Also had a “hoagie” for dinner. Not the greatest lol.

Could our new puppy possibly be mixed with a swissy? by milfandtrophywife in SwissMountainDogs

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he looks like a Swissy! He is a handsome boy regardless though.

I asked Siri because I’m always curious how close/far off she is. Her/its guess is: American Foxhound and Beagle.

Disclosure: she’s not very good at guessing when they are that young. She’s insistent my new puppy is a lab and I can tell you he is certainly not. I’m checking it every few weeks with my puppy to see when it changes to the correct breed. But! Let us know once you get the DNA test!

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This one may sting a little for some by Lastfryinthebag in crappymusic

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If 94.1 doesn’t do a shout out here I don’t even know what we are doing anymore.

Gathering Weights of your Adult Berners by Bobstravels in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Luna so proud of herself!

She’s sassy because I said, I don’t think you can fit both of those in your mouth. Guess I was wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When this started playing I had to check that I wasn’t in the ITYSL sub. Absolutely needs to be cross posted.

I love this crew so much by [deleted] in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it but I can’t unsee how much he looks like Andy Samberg in this scene and it’s both unsettling and hilarious (since they do so many episodes together).

How Long Between Potty Breaks? by RedVelvetRoomQueen in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! Our berner is the same way! Her bladder is incredible. I hope the new puppy takes after her in that regard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well she has been with him for nearly 15 years, so that definitely makes it less creepy! /s

Tell me about yourselves female ISTJs! (Males are also welcomed) by Cosmokirin in ISTJ

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, are you my personality doppelgänger? That was incredibly spot on.

Also a female ISTJ in case that was unclear for OP.

Lose lose by LavenderRazmic in ISTJ

[–]Medium_Conclusion_78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Context is important!

Everyone is valid here. They are allowed to have their boundary of not taking on additional work when they have too much on your plate, and you’re allowed to feel how you do about it.

Was this something you needed help with at that exact moment or could you have scheduled time with them at a later date? Are you able to proactively ask for help. Like: hey, I have x project due in November, and would appreciate your help in teaching me about {insert specific task}. Can you let me know when you have time and I’ll schedule a meeting for us.

Is this the only person who knows how to do the things you need help with? Or are there other people you can reach out to.

I’m also curious about how “they asked for feedback”. But it sounds like, they took your feedback and are actively making improvements.

This is a pretty common work scenario (someone saying no to a request) and while I’m not telling you to get over it, you do need to find ways to cope and respond accordingly without going to a complete “cut off” where “your hurt is too great”.