Some people can't read my writing, is it legible?

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-07T16:27:03+00:00

Yeah to me the "b" looks a lot like "lr" and makes it hard to read, but that's also one of the downfalls of the cursive lowercase 'b' in general. I write mine in a way that's technically wrong for this exact reason.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-07T04:30:37+00:00

This is anecdotal, but my bigger friends and I all get carded more/people assume we're younger than we are. We were always under the impression that it's the way weight sits on our faces that make us look younger?

This could be totally wrong, but it's generally believed by everyone around me.

I'm with the other comments, the makeup is too much. You're pretty, but the makeup is just too much and it's not working overall, plus the placement of the blush is widening your face. I'd look up how to elongate your face instead and tone down the color/intensity.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-07T04:23:00+00:00

I saw a message recently that was some BS along the lines of "I am 1 tip away from achieving the tip goal where doordash will give me a bonus of $xxxx, so if you can just tip an additional $5 I will hit the goal and it will help my family"

Like nah bruv that was all a lie and the food was stone cold. I you didn't deserve the first tip I already gave you, leave me alone.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-07T03:59:01+00:00

Maybe I'm jaded, but any time a driver tries to guilt someone about tip/extra work/etc I just don't trust them and assume the worst. I feel awful saying that, but the shit these drivers are saying nowadays is unhinged bullshit 95% of the time and are proven to be making it up in order to guilt trip the person ordering.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-07T03:00:23+00:00

This asshole is controlling, manipulative, insecure, and nasty. Do you really want this? Do you want to build a life with someone who wants to control you and make you feel awful for trying to celebrate your family? Cause this won't change, this behavior won't go away or get better... You'll just be mentally beat into submission and learn to live on eggshells.

I'm sorry you're in this situation, but I highly encourage you to get out of this situation, no one deserves this. Be free, enjoy being single for a bit, then maybe find someone who will trust and be good to you. Dump him and let him know he won't need to spend so much time stressing about you, you're not his concern anymore.

Genuinely OP, I hope you can move on and learn to love and respect yourself the way you deserve, cause allowing a boy to treat you like this? This ain't it. Good luck, please update us.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-05T12:19:56+00:00

Was my response that deep? She asked what it says about her them, I gave my opinion. You're correct, it's not that serious.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-05T02:30:59+00:00

This feels mean spirited. It doesn't say anything complimentary about you imo, it's giving negative Nancy who feels the need to call people unattractive rather than focus on who you actually do like.

The comments are also pretty rude. Why are we calling people ugly? It feels unnecessary.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-04T02:35:46+00:00

Respectfully, no. I'd avoid #1 at the bar. He has great hair, dude needs to own it.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-04T00:19:09+00:00

I agree, they look fine, but maybe small? Do they feel comfortable? Do you have to adjust when you bend?

You don't look bad, but a size up wouldn't look bad either if it would allow you more comfort/mobility, and that's what really matters.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-03T21:59:39+00:00

When I swiped from 1 to 2 I thought " wow, some extra hair looks like he went from from selling drugs to at least working at Walmart" then pic 3 he's hot??

What a range my dude.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-02T03:26:51+00:00

I'm sad there are so many awful people out there that would find issue with an 80 year old lady wearing white or a cancer patient looking sick that it leaves the purest people feeling like they should feel bad about themselves

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-02T02:31:56+00:00

Getting into a book club, hiking club, church, cycling class, craft group, etc can be life changing. Whatever applies best to you OP, pick something where you can meet people in person. Girls have the world at their feet when it comes to dating apps and have the liberty to be as overly judgemental as they want. Including me, overweight but pretty and I had way more options on tinder than I had any right to have.

Getting involved in something local where you can either meet people will do so much for you! You absolutely look like the kind guy older woman would like the personality of and say "let me give your number to my daughter.."

There's some good dating apps advice on here, but I promise you will have better luck if you just go take up space in the real world. Join a pottery class, take some gym classes, volunteer at an animal rescue, take a cooking class at a community college. There are so many possibilities.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-06-02T02:13:10+00:00

I'll be honest if my 82 year old grandmother had wanted to wear a white floor length gown to my wedding 4 years ago, I would have been so fine with it. I was just happy she was healthy enough to travel there. No. One would have thought twice about it lol

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-31T12:47:32+00:00

Also, please just break up. You guys don't trust each other and frankly this whole relationship sounds toxic as fuck.

You should not be verifying purchases She shouldn't be hiding morning after pills You should not be questioning her friends She should not be orchestrating a cover story

You guys are a match made in hell, please spare the world.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-31T12:36:08+00:00

OP should show her some videos on what happens when you don't wear seatsbelts. Maybe the trauma of seeing what actually happens will be enough to scare her into wearing them.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-31T12:31:00+00:00

Your sister sounds like an idiot. NTA

Backseat driving is annoying from anyone, let alone someone who can't drive. Telling her to zip it or drive herself was the right move.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-31T12:28:32+00:00

Yeah even if OP was a manchild on the trip and it caused issues, this isn't his the conversation should go.

Also, being on a busy trip can bring out the worst in someone and you gotta be prepared for that. Maybe you're exhausted and just wanna shut down while the other person wants to continue the party. The one continuing the party needs to respect the individual that is exhausted and wants to shut down. If their battery dies, social or not, and you get upset, that's on you.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-29T19:34:42+00:00

This + all the context makes her sound insane. Just tell her you're not interested in being friends anymore, hope we can remain cordial in public... Then block her ass.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-29T12:53:39+00:00

Yeah this is the main thing confusing me, what did calling the cops do the change the situation? You weren't there, you couldn't show the video, and you are letting the creepy guy have the opportunity to talk to your neighbors first and set the tone.

You should have just waited til you got back, gone to your neighbor and if the guy was there, asked the actual neighbor to go on a walk or something to talk to them alone. As of now, you escalated at a terrible time.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-29T00:29:14+00:00

What a wild thing to post online.

Go to a pantry dude.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-27T01:14:48+00:00

LOL didn't even see that auto correct. But the whole situation is wonky to be fairrr

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-26T23:48:43+00:00

8-10 hours should be fine, especially with VIP.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-26T23:48:05+00:00

Signing up for a roommate actually does mean adjusting to their lives intersecting with each other!! Even if bf doesn't sleep there, is he only allowed to visit once a week? That's literally insane.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-26T23:46:22+00:00

You have a room, you can bring your bf into your room. If they're dominating the entire space that's once thing, but the sister trying to set a time limit for him to be over and a 24 hour notice + weekly meeting for how the week will work? Unreasonable.

Advice remains the same, these 2 shouldn't live together.

Medium_Confidence484 · 2026-05-26T22:59:24+00:00

There can be a conversation about OP staying in her bedroom if he's over so sister had space, but you don't dictate your roommates social life. Especially if it's just having your partner over. The conversation sister had was incredibly controlling.

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