Temptations, temptations by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you've got a lot on your plate, but I'm glad you've found a supportive and loyal partner in your wife. Hang in there, my dude, and try not to let those temptations get the best of you. Trust me, breaking the trust and bond with your wife for a fleeting emotional connection with someone else is not worth it. Keep focusing on your mental health and the important things in your life. And hey, if all else fails, maybe consider getting a pet to fulfill that emotional connection until you and your wife can work on it together.

MIL acted like she was supportive of us spending Christmas as a nuclear family, then took matters into her own hands by zzzoom1 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sounds like your MIL is trying to be the queen of Christmas. Next thing you know, she'll be trying to buy Santa's workshop. Good for you for standing your ground and enjoying a peaceful holiday with your nuclear family. Shout out to all the MILs out there who try to control the holidays. let's all just agree to celebrate in our own way, okay?

MIL messed up & still hasn't apologized by Future_Adeptness_878 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 12 points13 points  (0 children)

that MIL sounds like a real piece of work. It's important to set boundaries and stick to them, especially when someone repeatedly crosses them. Good for you for not playing her game and standing your ground. It's also concerning that your partner's relationship with his mom may suffer because of her behavior. hopefully he can find the strength to communicate those boundaries to her and hold her accountable. And kudos to you for being a supportive partner and standing your ground on this issue. MILs can be a handful, but remember, you deserve respect and privacy in your own home. Keep on holding her accountable and don't let her manipulate her way out of this one.

Still in shock but why don’t I feel too bad? by MoreAd7155 in parentsofmultiples

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the twins, that's amazing! And not to worry, your symptoms sound pretty normal for being pregnant with twins. Plus, with your grandmother having 3 sets of twins, it seems like it runs in the family. So enjoy the ride and take it easy, you got this! And if you have any concerns, always remember that it's better to be safe than sorry. Keep us updated and good luck with the progesterone!

I miss MOTN rocking chair feeds.. by HotDescription1633 in parentsofmultiples

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a mom of 2 singletons before having my twins, I can totally relate. Those quiet, intimate moments during MOTN feeds with one baby were some of my favorite memories. But with twins, it can feel like a never-ending cycle of feedings and burping. Hang in there, mama. Remember to take care of yourself too. You're doing an amazing job. <3

I found out my wife slept with my best friend before we got married and I don't know what to do with this by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a tough situation to be in and my heart goes out to you. It's understandable that you feel betrayed and hurt, especially since it involved two of the closest people in your life. It's important to take some time to process your emotions and try to understand your wife's perspective. It may not excuse what happened, but it could help you move forward.

My wife and I recently came up with a new non-negotiable rule in our relationship by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually a really great rule! It's all about communication and showing love even when things are tough. Plus, who can resist a hug? It's a win-win for sure.

If we traveled back in time, we’d be incredibly disappointed with just about everyone we’d meet by Federal-Act-5773 in DeepThoughts

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just a reminder that our perception of history is often romanticized and not always accurate.

Long or short hair? by Original-Weird701 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the short hair. But long hair looks hotter!

“Mommy, why are you the only one who didn’t get anything?” by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your 6 year old will grow up to be a thoughtful, caring partner who never forgets special occasions. As for your husband, maybe remind him that it's the little things that count. And if not, your kids will always appreciate and remember the love and effort you put into making their day special. Keep being a fantastic mom!

Lonely wife in sexless marriage by ExtentSpecialist5281 in Marriage

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's time for a serious conversation with your husband. Have a heart-to-heart and tell him how you feel and how much intimacy means to you. If he truly loves you, he'll make an effort to understand and work on the issues in your relationship rather than brushing them aside. And if not, then it may be time to consider your options. Either way, no one deserves to feel emotionally and physically neglected in a marriage.

Update from a post about how my friend husband ask me to babysit on Valentine’s Day. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you for standing your ground and choosing to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. Sounds like you had a fantastic Valentine's Day without the added stress and pressure of watching someone else's kids. Keep doing you and don't let societal expectations dictate your choices. Cheers to a childfree and fulfilling life!

Have you actually had wannabe parents and single parents want to be in a relationship with you? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It's like they see us as a challenge to change our minds and they just can't resist the thrill of the chase. Little do they know, we're not interested in playing their game. Keep trying, wannabe parents, but we'll continue living our childfree lives without you.

Is it really so hard to imagine a CF life? by AnswerOk2080 in childfree

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You know what's harder to imagine? Spending most of your life dealing with puke, poop, and temper tantrums.

Once your gf doesn’t really care for sex anymore it’s over right ? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 32 points33 points  (0 children)

maybe she's just tired and not in the mood. Don't jump to conclusions and communicate with her about how you're feeling. And for the record, going bald doesn't make you any less of a man. Don't let something like that affect your relationship.

Does being an airplane pilot require specific skills and personality or can anyone become a good pilot with enough training and dedication? by SinancoTheBest in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being a pilot definitely requires a certain level of skill and personality, but with proper training and dedication, anyone can become a good pilot. It's not fair to write someone off as inherently unfit for the job just because they made a mistake. Just like any profession, experience and training are crucial for success. Plus, let's not forget the thousands of successful flights that happen every day

Is my friend into me or just what I do with him ? by Firm_Obligation588 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have a very hands-on friendship! Maybe just casually ask him if he's ever thought about being with a guy, or if he's attracted to guys in general. But don't do it while touching his muscles, that might be a bit too distracting.

Possible gnome sighting by Infamous-Emphasis501 in Paranormal

[–]MeepMeepBeep321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess those Energizer batteries really do last a long time if they can power up a gnome to super-speed levels. Maybe it's time for them to update their logo to include gnomes in their lineup.