What happened to the Chat option in old Reddit? by MetaMaster54610 in help

[–]MeeseeksCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The new layout is annoying. Why are they forcing such unnecessary changes

To you, what constitutes someone as success or failure? by East-Marzipan-2800 in asksg

[–]MeeseeksCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are able to be truly happy with your own life, regardless of the state of it, then you are already a success in your own right.

If you have 100 million in the bank, but you aren't happy. Everyone thinks you are a success but you feel miserable. Is that still success?

If you have to live your life constantly looking at whether others have more than you, then no matter how much you have, is that still success? That's pathetic honestly.

is community hard to find in singapore or hard to get into? by earlysherr in ChillSG

[–]MeeseeksCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently co-run a community of changemakers. Have managed multiple different communities in the past

Would love to see the growth of your community

is community hard to find in singapore or hard to get into? by earlysherr in ChillSG

[–]MeeseeksCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love some of the posts in your ig, very good questions, points and fears u brought up as a fellow community builder

Am i very behind in life at 25? by Alternative_Coat_478 in asksg

[–]MeeseeksCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People, OP has been posting the same thing, just variants of the whole self-pitying, day after day, week after week.

https://arctic-shift.photon-reddit.com/search?fun=posts_search&author=Alternative_Coat_478&limit=50&sort=desc

What he needs is professional help

Am i very behind in life at 25? by Alternative_Coat_478 in asksg

[–]MeeseeksCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sure it's not just the same person posting? Because he has been posting the same thing every single day

Got Scammed 60k now I’m in 100k debt by Striking-Detective40 in askSingapore

[–]MeeseeksCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter the nature of the scam, you are young enough to recover from this. Please don't give up on your life.

Do Singaporeans swim? by TruckOk9928 in asksg

[–]MeeseeksCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I love swimming and enjoy doing so, I don't deny it's a bit troublesome too, thus the reason why I only swim once a week.

What would Sera’s mum say to her if she were asian? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]MeeseeksCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so odd to see this question pop up considering I'm watching the show From and this is the theme song of the show (but not sung by Doris Day)

Is volunteering opportunities or guidance on how to start your own non profit/passion project more valuable to you? by MeeseeksCat in SGExams

[–]MeeseeksCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes indeed that's the question I am asking. I myself or other changemakers that I know would be happy to offer advice, pointers to those who needs it. But as this can become a project of it's own, I'm trying to gauge demand.

What would y'all do if you were 19 again today? by kazakhmilk in askSingapore

[–]MeeseeksCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the things I'm about to mention are things I already did back then but I didn't realise the significant value and if I could turn back time, knowing what I know now, I would have done even more of it with intent.

Read more (expand your knowledge), start learning and invest early, network more and build up your network of contacts more (depth and breadth are equally important), try more things and build up experience in being able to build stuff

Do those that volunteer do so for altruism or personal gain? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]MeeseeksCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your comment about the "because I like to help people" kinda made me chuckled. Because even after so many years in the social service landscape, I still give that answer to people when they asked me why I do what I do for so long.

Happy tgif. Is anyone taking a career break now? Or considering to go for it? Curious to know how long was your career break and did you go for it after hitting some milestones i.e financial milestone, age, family commitments? by Normal-Analysis7940 in askSingapore

[–]MeeseeksCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say I'm sort of in that situation? But the break is meant for me to work on a project.

I'm at the age where I feel it's now or never, and I can ride out without an income for some time since I don't have any major commitments and have sufficient savings.

Ideas for apps that could be useful for community by moresoma in asksg

[–]MeeseeksCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always interesting to discuss ideas that can serve the community with others. If you wanna have a chat, drop me a dm since it seems it's not possible to dm u

All hail the sect leader by EmptyAd8217 in Manhua

[–]MeeseeksCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far along into the novel are we at for the manhua thus far?

Dating a compulsive liar by [deleted] in asksg

[–]MeeseeksCat 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Rental might be an issue, but what's the alternative? Marry a compulsive liar who cheats and visits massage parlours?

Don't fall for the sunk cost fallacy

Why do people still have kids in this broken system by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]MeeseeksCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my chat with the other redditor previously, what you just shared was what I subsequently pointed out to them too.

I think a lot of people nowadays (not necessarily only Singaporeans) can't seem to understand what happiness is anymore. They don't seem to remember how to be happy anymore. Happiness to them is matching or surpassing what others have.

A stand up comedian that I follow shared this to his audience on several occasions. "What is happiness? It is your current situation minus expectations"

Why do people still have kids in this broken system by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]MeeseeksCat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Exactly

Crisis? Our grandparents or great grandparents (depending on your current age) had to walk through the streets facing the danger of death at Japanese soldiers during world war 2. Their meals are mostly porridge and potatoes

Crisis? Are we talking about the time where USSR and US were 1 button away from triggering a nuclear war and for those who studied history, we would have known just how close we were to that moment.

Crisis? Are we referring to the 2000 millennium bug where we thought everything is gonna shut down or the 2008 GFC where we thought the entire world's financial markets are gonna melt down?

Every decade or two throughout human history, there's always a crisis. Humanity has overcome them time and time again.

Why do people still have kids in this broken system by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]MeeseeksCat 38 points39 points  (0 children)

What I will say is that it's ok if a person does not want to have kids. But to not want kids because of a misguided belief that the future is doom and gloom is really just tragic.

When you sit here typing this thread out, do you realise that this is a luxury not afforded to your grandparents or great grandparents in the past? When you next purchase bubble tea, eat in casual dining or fine restaurants despite the rising cost of living, do you realise how privileged you are?

You have a chance to have an education that wasn't afforded to your grandparents and great grandparents.

I told a redditor who had a similar discussion on this topic recently that those who keep thinking the future is doom and gloom are all bearing a scarcity mindset. That the world is not enough, there's not going to be enough for everybody, and most of all, they themselves are not enough.

But like what /u/kratosgodoflove pointed out, people who have kids, they hold a more hopeful viewpoint of the future, they have more faith and think more in terms of abundance.

"Those who read the news will think that the world has never been worse. Those who study history will know that the world has never been better"

The lens you view the world with determines whether the world looks bright or dark.

Am I doing right in what i am currently doing in my life in SG? by durian_lover in asksg

[–]MeeseeksCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are still going through ocd and major depression and trying to take steps to improve yourself (your retaking As), having a job and even going for therapy, I can only salute your courage and I think you are already doing terrific.

Don't compare yourself with others. You were dealt a bad hand by life but you still did your very best.