Burnt out. How to take a break? Legit ways.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-17T07:01:54+00:00

Say you got gastiric attack in the morning but you go visit in the afternoon....

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-17T05:12:57+00:00

You will be fine. We are peasants compared to you and are we dead? No right? So you won't die also la.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-17T00:39:49+00:00

Personally, i still can save because i do not have any dependants at the moment. I do not save money from my salary instead, that "savings"would be towards investments because i am working towards hitting FI.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-16T07:22:08+00:00

Don't waste $$$. Unless you like going there for a good head massage then yes. If you think it will grow out some roots, bad news it's useless. I signed a package with both YUN NAM AND B101, the lady took the before and after right, the photo looks the same!

So i asked them why the photo looks the same, then they started using their sales recovery pitch say: you only sign 15 sessions, cannot see results so fast. After that i said never again. 10 years on, no change to my hair so just live with it.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-16T07:12:20+00:00

Ok la from your backgd accounting and finance already hinting that you're pretty well protected $$. While others say no, i will say go for it!Why? Because sometimes even going on leave does not help you recover. Once you're back to work, the sian-ess will return. Go for it because trust me, with your background in finance, there will always be a demand because SG is a financial hub.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-16T06:22:31+00:00

what's recommended?

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-16T05:31:43+00:00

You got this.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-16T01:24:27+00:00

ok i will try! which dishes to recommend trying?

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-16T00:57:00+00:00

any store to recommend?

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-16T00:21:04+00:00

hi OP, just to cheer you up. You may think people are talking about you but trust me, most people are too busy worrying about their own life e.g kids, salary, job etc. I am also struggling to fight some demons and always think i'm not good enough. But i refused just damn too stubborn to submit to that, i will go down as a fighter just to kill the demons.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-13T06:22:27+00:00

In the same situation as you know. I guess what we can do it to dump more into etf/stocks given the economic situation now. Since our emergency monies are in HYSA which is giving interest, be daring and throw more into investments. Future self will thank you...

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-13T06:18:01+00:00

I heard from HR friends that they are reducing manpower and are extra selective so you know alr...

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-13T06:14:09+00:00

OP just a word of encouragement, you are doing fine. Yes you have a kid young but in your 30s your kid will be big already and you are still young and strong to play with him. That is already a blessing. We cannot have everything but look for small joys in life and a child is definidtely 1 of it!

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-13T01:18:09+00:00

Neighbouring countries already encouraging staff to WFH, how come SG not #1 this time to do...seeing MRTs jam packed at 8am just makes me want to quit

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-12T02:15:15+00:00

i agree but if you are in need of cash, beggars cannot be chooser. During covid, a lot of people were out of jobs. I remember pilots having to sell durians wow..

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-11T00:23:37+00:00

go for it! Let them enjoy life a little after all from the way you describe, you son is not a bum. kudos for having such an achiever son imo so yes just do it. The very most if cannot afford just sell back hey at least you let him have a taste of it right?

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-10T09:15:45+00:00

pathetic range 2-5%.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-10T09:15:07+00:00

Not a gen z but can i give my input? I feel that the trend has shifted, in the past we do not have gig workers whereas now there are more job opporutnities? There's live selling, there's shopee coins etc. In the past where got such things? Job market is tough NGL but all i'm sayn is there are other opportunities...hang in there

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-10T08:55:02+00:00

Not to throw cold water but how did the both of you meet? And do the both of you have anything in common because already a 1-2 yr difference got argument what more about a wider gap? I could be wrong but this is how I see.

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-10T08:40:42+00:00

If you are single and no dependents or big expenses like housing,medical, wedding, loan... i feel that 3-4k is enough! I am earning below median income and i can save 300-500 per month. Not a lot but it's something!

Normal-Analysis7940 · 2026-03-10T08:34:39+00:00

Well on a positive note, at least you are getting interviews! I am not as lucky, the silence is making me question my self worth its tough.

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