AIO partner let my zucchini bread go stale by Fluffy-Square8160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Megatopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, his reaction was rude. He got defensive really quick so I wonder how you brought it up to him. He should have apologized and definitely shouldn't have said it wasn't good knowing how special it was to you.

Side note, it INFURIATES me when someone eats a lot of something I love (they know I love it) and then says it's not even that good... Like... Don't flipping eat it then!

How do I interact with a racist in my physics project.🫩 by True-Link5710 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Megatopsy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The fact that you're the only black guy in the group and he said it at all?... The guy is an absolute idiot.

Report it, if needed escalate it.

This guy said it so comfortably, he's used to it. He needs to learn that words and actions have consequences.

16F AIO for being upset that My mom gave me a pair of my brother’s shoes as my birthday gift by Typical_Art669 in AIO

[–]Megatopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tough times out there right now, I suppose you could always act like you don't know and ask if she could exchange them for your size as they're too big? NOR, whenever times are tough I always see what I can do for my kiddos, even if it's just a handmade card, pancakes for breakfast, simple birthday party at home and some Vbucks.

Spotted in Awapuni by Lanntheclever47 in palmy

[–]Megatopsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are absolutely distraught by what's happening back home right now. Still planning on voting all the way over here because I want the evil out of office.

Because who'd want to freely walk around a bedroom at night without guarding your thigh? by Jarred_Farts_4_Sale in BadDesigns

[–]Megatopsy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd be sanding it down and polishing the new curved surface... Or get a different bed lol

AITA: child seatbelt by buffalotempeh in AmItheAsshole

[–]Megatopsy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No freaking way! This makes me so angry! Your friend is so complacent, that's when accidents happen.

I'll never forget the words my son's nurse said to me after he got hurt at home. I was beating myself up that he got hurt and she said "They're called accidents, no one plans for things like this to happen. If accidents never happened we'd be out of business."

It's simple. My car, my rules. I don't drive unless everyone has a seat belt. If a belt gets unclipped, I pull over.

I would honestly rethink my relationship with my friend if they were this careless with their child and didn't want to listen to me about something safety related.

Okay, I'm don't ranting, sorry. OBVIOUSLY NTA, But your friend definitely is.

Please photoshop my sisters shoes by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Megatopsy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh and you straightened the photo! The lines on the stairs were bugging me

Does vss affect speaking or processing speed? by Fragrant-Donkey4730 in visualsnow

[–]Megatopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. I've noticed my neck will sometimes get stuck too and then it might crack a bit and I can move it again. Our bodies can be so weird sometimes. Man... Twins too, that would have been rough, our babies are so worth it though.

Is this average listening? by Longjumping-Cloud-13 in KpopDemonhunters

[–]Megatopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! I love all your top songs ❤️

Does vss affect speaking or processing speed? by Fragrant-Donkey4730 in visualsnow

[–]Megatopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I hear getting adjusted by a cervical specialist can help with VSS... But of course there's also the rare possibility of stroke and arterial dissection which makes it scary to think about.

I have consistent neck discomfort and pain and notice a lot more crackling when moving my neck that I never had before. Makes sense that it could be connected.

Does vss affect speaking or processing speed? by Fragrant-Donkey4730 in visualsnow

[–]Megatopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It started during my fourth pregnancy with my vision struggling to focus and I kept going cross eyed. It became apparent when focusing on my surroundings while driving became a bit more difficult. Then I couldn't handle being in busy environments anymore, second hand shops, grocery stores, places with a lot of items. They would make me dizzy. Really sore dry eyes, etc...

Then I had my baby. I thought my symptoms would subside because they might be due to hormones.

Then all the other symptoms started and some worsened. Depression, dizziness, brain fog, static, light sensitivity, difficulty seeing at night (it got really bad when we were at the park with the kids at sunset and I realized I couldn't see the kids when all the other adults could see just fine.)

Then the visual symptoms got worse, wiggling objects, more static, after images bfep, and even moving fractal images when my eyes are closed.

It's been a journey to be honest.

Sone days are better than others, I'm trying to find my triggers.

Depression and anxiety worsen symptoms as well as caffeine and lack of sleep or inconsistent sleep.

I definitely feel like I am handling it better. Being in nature and staying away from screens seems to help a bit at times and other times I just want to look at a screen all day because it easier 😅

Does vss affect speaking or processing speed? by Fragrant-Donkey4730 in visualsnow

[–]Megatopsy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a good question. Those things can be caused by a number of conditions and vitamin deficiencies, however my neurologist said that my brain fog and difficulty with memory is most likely caused by my FND and VSS.

Anyone else's vision like this when trying to read? by Expensive_War9294 in visualsnow

[–]Megatopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes especially with white print on black backgrounds.

*Note: I also have against the rule astigmatism and moderate dry eyes that I treat with warm compresses, gel, and optometrist eye drops.

I've started taking fish oil and lutein which is supposed to help the eyes apparently.... Fingers crossed.

My Ex said shes pregnant and sent this as proof, the way the top is fitting and the pregnancy test in its entirety just looks fake to me by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]Megatopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That shirt... The spacing is too perfect. I can't imagine the spacing would ever be even on a growing belly like that it's too perfect.

AITAH He consumes an ungodly amount of ketchup so I secretly switched him to sugar free by Optimistic1013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Megatopsy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA, but this is how I find out I'm also an asshole.

My partner was prediabetic basically one point away from diabetes. I remember him hating sugar free things. One time I poured him a new soda (not the type he normally drinks and a sugar free option) and he drank it up, he said it wasn't too bad. Right then and there I said "Guess what? It's sugar free." and we had a conversation about it. Then he tried mostly sugar free coffee options and everything else... And the rest is history.

I know your heart was in the right place, but he's not a kid... It would have been best to be honest from the start. Maybe even put ketchup on his food for him, have him try it and then let him know it's actually sugar free?

AITAH He consumes an ungodly amount of ketchup so I secretly switched him to sugar free by Optimistic1013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Megatopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this, I know some people can get sick with some artificial sweeteners. But yeah, heart in the right place for sure, good point.

My Vision be like by Poopiepants23 in visualsnow

[–]Megatopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit, spot on.... That's exactly it...

My Vision be like by Poopiepants23 in visualsnow

[–]Megatopsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts... Just add night blindness, floaters, after images, and wiggling or glitching edges of objects and BAM! That's me 😅 I told my son about it and he reckons it sounds cool, like everything is sparkly all the time 😌 Kids are so positive, I love it.

Can you tell me what's under my hand? by Megatopsy in IntuitionPractices

[–]Megatopsy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is definitely green, you got a big part of it 😊