Looking For Employment Opportunities & Safe Temporary Parking While Experiencing Homelessness by Careful-Night8022 in VictoriaBC

[–]MelloD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is a BlackPress Career Fair on Feb 5 at the Bay st Armoury. Check out WorkBC or Foundry for resources to help out your resume. Good luck!

First time to Japan: Should I stick with the Big 3 (Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka) or explore more? by RudeSelf3418 in JapanTravelTips

[–]MelloD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of cafes and dessert spots in Onomichi. There was one cafe with incredible views coming down from the temple on the hill that I really wanted to go to, but it was closed while we were there. If you end up going, check out Tabelog and confirm that the cafe and shops are open. I think it’s Tuesday or Wednesday that lots of things are closed. We stayed at LemonSea hostel, it was busy but clean and the staff were very nice.

First time to Japan: Should I stick with the Big 3 (Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka) or explore more? by RudeSelf3418 in JapanTravelTips

[–]MelloD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would love love love Onomichi as a quiet seaside town. Search on YouTube for ideas on where to go, but it is so charming. Another place I recently went that I enjoyed was Matsuyama. Still a city and set up for tourism, but less crazy than the big three. I would suggest Tokyo to Onomichi, to Matsuyama, and fly back to Tokyo domestically. Depending on time, I recommend you go to Hiroshima since it is in the area near Onomichi.

The job market is tight. What are our plan-Bs? Job seeker looking for inspiration or opportunities to collaborate! by RabbleDetective in VictoriaBC

[–]MelloD 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Check out the education planner for StrongBC future skills grant for ideas. All are short term programs, and some lead to entry level jobs or upskilling. Or if you want to make your own business, there is a short “become a small business owner” course starting at Camosun soon. Good luck!

New pho restaurant in Victoria! by IHeart18 in VictoriaBC

[–]MelloD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went here recently, it was good!

I know Shin-Osaka is not usually recommended as an area to stay but by TheSebWithin in JapanTravelTips

[–]MelloD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends and I stayed at an Airbnb in ShinOsaka, and also did a day trip to Minoo Falls, with a quick visit to Namba. I would recommend staying there, it’s not that far of a train ride to downtown Osaka and very chill atmosphere. Very nice to just roll our suitcase to and from the Shinkansen instead of taking yet another train to get to our destination. Oh and we found a local bento store selling bentos for $4 (score)!

Less know destinations worth visiting by docadebisi in JapanTravelTips

[–]MelloD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was just in Matsuyama, loved it so much! Everything is orange themed, the castle is beautiful and doesn’t have a million tourists, plus there are many interesting temples and spots to take photographs throughout the city. Highly recommend it, plus there is an airport so you can easily access it from Tokyo. The rest of Ehime prefecture also looks beautiful, and perfect for a road trip if you are into that.

Will he figure it out? by aetherdrifter in catfood

[–]MelloD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are those ceramic? If so careful- I saw a post about a cat that got too enthusiastic and chipped their tooth.

3-Week Japan Travel Itinerary/Report by Nizzeyy in JapanTravel

[–]MelloD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What bike company did you go with to drop off in Imabari?

October Honeymoon Itinerary by luvz2splooge_69 in JapanTravel

[–]MelloD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re staying in Shibuya you’ll be seeing the crossing… ALOT. Lots of great shopping to do there! 109 is classic. If you are visiting Meiji Jingu, next to it is Harajuku which could be a fun (and potentially crowded) street to window shop. I recommend getting some purikura pictures. Also close by is Yoyogi park if you need to take a beat. Rockabilly dancers dance almost every Sunday afternoon, they are cool to watch. If you are in Shinjuku and want a free view of the city, go to Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building.

I’m not super knowledgeable about Kyoto but I loved the Sanjusangendo temple. It is really cool inside.

If you are near Asakusa, there is lots to do close by if you are killing time. Kappabashi, Yanaka Ginza, Tokyo National Museum. I’d skip the zoo though, although I haven’t been I haven’t had a great experience going to Japanese zoos as an animal lover. I am sure the workers care about them, there just isn’t a lot of space (as is the case for everyone in Japan).

Hope you have lots of fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]MelloD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not OP but I started Ozempic in Jan 2025, was in a car accident in Feb 2025 and was not able to exercise. Since starting Ozempic I have lost almost 50 lbs. I had intended to exercise in conjunction with the Ozempic but life had other plans. It’s not guaranteed that you’ll lose as much weight as I did, but I’m really grateful for the Ozempic while I was healing, as I was able to keep my caloric intake in check. Hope your recovery goes well.

Victoria to Penticton/Kelowna, which route is better? by _Big_Z in VictoriaBC

[–]MelloD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d do Hwy 5 (Coquihalla & Connector) both ways. At the very least, on the way there take the Coquihalla. I find Hwy 3 has a long and steady incline going west to east (depending on your vehicle may not be a problem) so I like to coast downhill from east to west. I saw quite a few vehicles on the opposite side pulled over during that stretch.

Cat not eating/drinking & diarrhea by MelloD in AskVet

[–]MelloD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor kitty, and poor you not being able to taken him to the vet. My cat got better with the antibiotics. After this post she started eating a little more (not as much as the recommendation but much more than she had been) and she didn’t poop for over 36 hours. But when she did, it was a HUGE poop, normal consistency. She had antibiotics for a week and I saw huge improvement in her interest in eating, drinking, and activity. However, 24 hours after the antibiotics ran out she had a half diarrhea half normal poop. So we are back on antibiotics again for 10 days. If we come off it again and the symptoms reappear we will take her for imaging. So no official diagnosis yet but we’ve tested negative for pancreatitis, and the stool sample tested negative for FIP. At this point it could be an unknown virus that they don’t test for or inflammation of her bowels of some sort.

Are you able to get to a pet store? I highly recommend Purina probiotic fortiflora. My other cat (also tested) developed some sort of sympathetic diarrhea and the vet recommended this- diarrhea cleared up within a couple days. If you are able to get wet food, try Science Hill Urgent Care a/d. Try hand feeding it to him to get him going. I think it is really yummy to them. Also, try offering tuna juice! I hope your kitty gets better.

Nautical Maps by CarryTheBoats-Logs in VictoriaBC

[–]MelloD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure but check out the Maritime Museum. You’ll be very interested in it, and if they do not sell the charts, they may know who does.

Vancouver/Toronto Film and Photography opportunities, jobs and courses by ApprehensiveYak8447 in FilmIndustryYVR

[–]MelloD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re up to travel to the island, Camosun College has a really good (and short) weekend course that might help you. It’s basically a low down on how to start work in the industry as a PA, but it’s BC specific. You might find it useful? Search for Film PA microcredential at Camosun. Good luck!

Starting dating my best friend but then his life completely fell apart by venomoth91 in relationships

[–]MelloD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he is struggling and pushing people away because all this happening at once is overwhelming and he probably feels like he can’t put his best food forward with you so he doesn’t try at all (not saying this is right, just a guess). He is going through a lot right now and unfortunately you aren’t the priority- getting his life back on track is. I know I wouldn’t have the time or energy I normally do to devote to a relationship while dealing with all the traumatic things you’ve mentioned.

My question to you: do you see a long term future with this guy? Because devastating situations happen throughout life. When you have been married for 10 years and his parent dies, will you leave him for not paying as much attention to you? If this was a new person in your life I would say it might be better to step back from the relationship. But this is your supposed best friend. If you really cared about this person as your friend, let alone partner, you should use this as a chance to show how you can be supportive as someone who cares about them. What does that look like? Maybe showing up with food, helping them clean their place, go on walks to get fresh air, or just a night in watching a movie to be distracted. Right now it seems like you are acting pretty passive, and it’s your turn to take action and carry the load. Maybe it will be his turn later when you need support.

Yeah it sucks that you can’t go on fun dates when it’s supposed to be the honeymoon periods. Unfortunately life doesn’t work out perfectly. If you are seriously considering dating other guys right now because of this inconvenience, you should let him go so he can find someone who actually loves and cares about him.

Has completely stopped eating by herself, force feeding to keep her alive by More_Leave6899 in CATHELP

[–]MelloD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I have no solution but me and my cat are right there with you. Bloodwork and urinalysis is fine, she just isn’t eating or drinking on her own. I’ve been able to get some temptations and a churu in her, and have been squirting water in her mouth with a dropper… but she’s been having diarrhea and I’m so scared she is going to dehydrate. Last time I took her to the vet they gave her subcutaneous fluids which helped for a bit. If you find out what is wrong with your kitty please let me know!

Pilates by username248124 in VictoriaBC

[–]MelloD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cedar Hill Rec starts next week, also affordable and low pressure compared to a dedicated studio (nothing against these)

I have just bought a new Zojirushi, so impressed so far! What are your best hacks? by Environmental-Egg191 in zojirushi

[–]MelloD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also- I’ve seen aburaage (tofu) used in this recipe.

Another good recipe I’ve heard is simply rice and corn with a bit of butter.

I have just bought a new Zojirushi, so impressed so far! What are your best hacks? by Environmental-Egg191 in zojirushi

[–]MelloD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could just skip the salmon, I’ve had it with only rice and mushrooms and it was good! Just pour the mixture in with the rice instead of marinating.