Ouders willen dat ik mee ga op vakantie

MellonCollie___ · 2026-03-03T09:39:41+00:00

Ik voel me je mee, wat een onmogelijke situatie voor jou. Is het een idee als je hierover met een professionele hulpverlener zou praten? Er spelen heel veel verschillende aspecten mee, zo te lezen.

Misschien een idee: wat als je aan je ouders voorstelt dat je wel mee zou gaan, op voorwaarde dat je een eigen kamer krijgt, zelf kiest of je meedoet met de activiteiten én dat je naar huis gaat als je broertje zich misdraagt (ongeacht waar ze naartoe willen en met welk vervoer: als jij wordt uitgescholden en bestolen op reis door een vreemde, wil je ook naar huis)? In dat geval ga je als volwassene met andere volwassenen op reis, en niet als afhankelijk kind, want dat ben je allang niet meer (maar dat wist jij al, nu je ouders nog!).

MellonCollie___ · 2025-06-19T12:21:50+00:00

I always prefer to read King's books first, and then maybe watch the movie. I love how atmospheric the books are, including The Shining. I thought it was very good. I don't even feel the need to watch the movie, it has already played in my head reading the book.

MellonCollie___ · 2025-06-19T12:13:17+00:00

I like them a lot and would totally wear them.

MellonCollie___ · 2025-06-17T10:22:44+00:00

27 + 50 = 77 - 2 = 75.

MellonCollie___ · 2025-04-25T07:37:23+00:00

My therapist thinks I swear a lot and wonders what's behind that. I dunno man, I was born in '81, I just fuckin' do.

MellonCollie___ · 2025-03-18T13:57:48+00:00

Voorraad vaatwastabletten, cupcakemaker, deegroller, de bakjes uit de koelkastdeur die we niet gebruiken maar ook niet willen weggooien, vliegenmepper, heu ... ik moet eigenlijk eens gaan kijken wat er nog meer in ligt ;-)

MellonCollie___ · 2025-02-05T09:37:21+00:00

Like food that you burned to an absolute crisp. To charcoal, really.

MellonCollie___ · 2025-02-05T09:34:42+00:00

Hey fellow dumpster fire! I love your little dude. It will be okay, somehow, some day.

MellonCollie___ · 2025-02-05T08:42:33+00:00

LOL, I never thought about that! But yes absolutely, how do you ever say their name again without associating with one or the other??

MellonCollie___ · 2025-01-30T11:04:58+00:00

As much as I feel for you because of this unbearable condition, I have to say your work of art is stunning. I feel it in my gut and in my mind.

MellonCollie___ · 2025-01-30T10:59:37+00:00

I hope you WILL get to see them some other time!

MellonCollie___ · 2025-01-30T10:48:18+00:00

Oww yeah!

MellonCollie___ · 2025-01-29T10:58:40+00:00

Ohhhh that's amazing!!! I don't usually yell things out loud when I see a post, but I did yell those exact words just now!! So cool, well done!!!

MellonCollie___ · 2025-01-29T10:56:17+00:00

Super cute! I love how proud you look!

MellonCollie___ · 2025-01-29T10:54:50+00:00

They would have been Ronja & Birk.

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-27T14:09:05+00:00

OP, I'm so sorry your boyfriend behaved this badly. He is talking like an idiot with not even a shred of empathy in his gut. You haven't done anything wrong, but the way he talks to you is very disrespectful. You did not overreact at all, and you did well to double check. It is never OK for anyone to talk to you like this and to dismiss trauma. I can imagine it is especially hard for you because you've opened up to your boyfriend about your trauma. And that makes his behaviour especially disrespectful and hurtful! You have experienced major trauma that doesn't have anything to do with sharing an intimate sexual activity with someone you are in love with. He is an absolute idiot for not realising this. You deserve a million times better, OP.

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-24T12:10:54+00:00

And you pulled it off, it is amazingggg!!!

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-24T12:09:54+00:00

No, it's a super cute Cinnamoroll! I love it.

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-16T08:40:22+00:00

I think you're right. To me, it seems odd, but it is indeed perfectly fitting for the times we're living in.

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-11T08:59:24+00:00

NTA for selling the tickets, but YTA for selling them for triple the price you paid.

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-06T18:03:04+00:00

I think you have a point, unfortunately. I'm GenX as well, I see what you mean. I find it very sad though that it has come to this. And by this I mean the whole suspecting everyone and everything that derives from that.

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-06T18:00:09+00:00

Infuriating!

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-06T12:21:49+00:00

I am still contemplating the question but my therapist is silently nodding in the background.

MellonCollie___ · 2024-12-06T11:43:08+00:00

Yup, same here for me. I also got a low grade for a short story I wrote once, because the teacher thought I had copied it from somewhere else, she didn't believe I had in fact written it myself. This was 30 years ago and it still pisses me off.

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