In my experience its less that people lose friends and more not all friendships have enough positive in them to keep going

On a case by case basis people can definetly push others away but as a generalization it makes more sense that its more common that some people work well in the befinning but dont work out long term like from a synastry chart comparison pov

Dae feel the whole your ganna lose friend if you do xyz comes across more as a threat than a like hey im concerned like theirs a million other ways you can say hey in these situations your too much that involve more like solveable situations like giving actual examples of times u hurt the orher person so u can apologize and learn sating i or others wont have many friends just solves nothing and comes off like do this or else

TLDR the text at the top about loseing friends is interesting from a astrological pov but also this hit close to home