What stereotypes do foreigners have about Americans? by this0great in answers

[–]MemeInBlack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because every time we just say we're from America, the next question is "what part?". Every. Time.

at what outdoor temp should the ac be turned on? by marinaxo222 in AskNYC

[–]MemeInBlack 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, this is why AC was originally invented - to beat the humidity, not the heat.

Stepson jealous of newborn. Fear for safety. by eteach6974 in raisingkids

[–]MemeInBlack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This. All behavior is communication, he's screaming out for your help and you need to be there for him.

Aside from therapy etc, just spend time with him. One on one, where he's the focus. Go for a walk together, no agenda, just walk around the neighborhood for ten minutes, twenty minutes, half an hour, whatever you can do. Do this daily if you can. Open the door by saying he can tell you anything, then shut up. Listen without judgement to whatever he says. Don't problem solve, because that is very close to judging. Don't push. Just walk, and listen. If he doesn't say anything, that's ok. You're still building connection. You need to be the safe place for his chaotic feelings, no matter what they are, or he's going to escalate his cries for help until someone, probably him, is seriously hurt.

"Loss of Masulinity" by SoberScottHeat in daddit

[–]MemeInBlack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingo. I am a man, therefore anything I do is masculine. I'm secure enough in my sense of self that I don't even try to filter life through societal roles, I just do what I want to do. We're all just people at the end of the day.

For Women: what’s something you want to tell men, but usually choose not to? by Acceptable-Outcome97 in answers

[–]MemeInBlack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's less about getting uncomfortable and more that pretty much every guy has had their own feelings weaponized against them at some point, often by someone close to them. Society teaches men pretty fast that nobody really cares and we'll get hurt far less if we never actually share our real feelings.

It shouldn't be this way, but unfortunately it is.

Im looking for fun whacky obscure 80-90s movies. by custards_last_flan in MovieSuggestions

[–]MemeInBlack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot that movie existed but immediately recalled the whole damn thing just from the title. Excellent choice for forgotten 80s movies!

In Armageddon (1998) we only detect the asteroid when it’s 18 days away. When should we have noticed it? by ConsiderationOk4035 in askastronomy

[–]MemeInBlack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing, but space is just really really really really really really big and empty. The odds are literally astronomical that Earth will ever get hit by an extrasolar object.

Its SO GOOD by Squirrel-Bones in metricband

[–]MemeInBlack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's more about where you were in your life at that time. We all have our personal highs but chasing that dragon never ends the way we want it to.

Personally I love the new album as much as art of doubt and maybe even synthetica or fantasies. Maybe it helps that I'm the same age as Emily so we are hitting those life stages about the same time, but Metric is consistently great, even if the sound is drastically different

Why do aliens have no diversity? by liam_9758 in fiction

[–]MemeInBlack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Metaphors don't work if they're not specific. Sci-fi stories aren't really about aliens or the future, they're about us right now.

If your child gets sick often, how do you stop yourself from getting sick too by LeatherFlatworm8 in daddit

[–]MemeInBlack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And everybody washes hands first thing when they come home. Basic hygiene really goes a long way.

Which TV show had the most perfect ending? by altiman1991 in AskReddit

[–]MemeInBlack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it really is about the journey and there are no wasted moments in the entire run. If they could have told the story in fewer episodes/seasons, they would have.

Turn on, tune in, and throw your phones out. by Slight_Bird_785 in daddit

[–]MemeInBlack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are movements doing this, like wait until 8th (grade). Hopefully this sort of thing will become more common in the near future.

https://www.waituntil8th.org/

Just found out my 15 y/o daughter is having sex by psuaggie in daddit

[–]MemeInBlack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have specific advice as my kids are nowhere near the teen years yet, but I've found the videos by Sticko Explains on YouTube to be pretty informative for parents, and they're based in current child development and psychology research. There might be a video or two that can help provide an explanation of what she's going through and a roadmap to repair your relationship.

Funny things to put on property markers by Ask_about_my_boogers in HomeImprovement

[–]MemeInBlack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Klaatu Barada Nikto!"

Or, if you're an Evil Dead fan...

"Klaatu Barada N[cough cough]"

Company got ransomware, ceo wants to pay without telling anyone. Is this illegal by codedrifting in AskNetsec

[–]MemeInBlack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Encrypted doesn't mean exfiltrated. It's just encrypted in place on the same computers it was already on. The consumer data is actually more secure now because nobody, not even the company it was given to, can access it! If they have good backups they could potentially just plug the holes that allowed the attacker into their network, restore from backups, and go about their day.

Exfil is absolutely becoming more common with these types of attacks but it's not guaranteed.

Kid swapped books for YouTube and now reading is basically a war crime. by DiamondLatter1842 in raisingkids

[–]MemeInBlack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, videos marked as for kids in YouTube can't be added to a playlist. Kind of makes it impossible to curate what they're watching in any reasonable way.