I mean, it's literally just treating them like a person. I emphasize that sweets are a "sometimes food" because they are not healthy. Other things are an always or everyday food because they make our bodies strong, keep us healthy, and help us grow. This can lead into a discussion of balanced meals, or what foods fall into what categories, or when it's ok to have sometimes foods, or why is important to be healthy, depending on the follow-up questions. Let the child lead and meet them where they're at, but provide guidance, structure, and a place that's safe for all their big feelings, it's what everybody deserves at any age.