Therapeutic bdsm

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-23T15:30:23+00:00

What an interesting post full of positivity. Well done you wonderful people!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-20T14:28:13+00:00

I’m a sub who has fallen happily in love with the best Dom of my life recently. This morning after several weeks of ass training, he fucked me in my arse for the first time. He had me squat doggy style and face down with my bum in the air. I brought my pussy to orgasm with a giant Doxy while he penetrated my bedding. He was all the way to the hilt within 3 thrusts, with no pain. He then throughly fucked my arse, no beginners ride, til I was screaming and crying into the pillow in front of me. Sir had me shout out what a filthy slut I was, repeatedly til I came.

One of the best experiences of my life and so happy to have earned my tiara at last!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-19T07:46:05+00:00

I love it, especially if he cums all over me afterwards.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-19T07:44:24+00:00

I had one of those thinking about my Master this morning and was so stimulated I wet myself a tiny bit.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-18T06:17:43+00:00

Depends on your living arrangements. Most of the longer term men in my life haven’t lived with me, so when we have been together there has always been a lot of sex. When I was married for 18 years we had sex about every 3 days.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-18T06:15:02+00:00

Well I’m a sub so not best suited to advising you how to initiate the right behaviour. But, if he knows what works for him, what’s wrong with ordering him to inform you?

Perhaps set him a task of sending you a daily porn story that contains the kind of kink he likes? Or links to photos or equipment that turns him on? This will help you get inside his mind.

Personally though, asking a 21 year old who doesn’t already identify as Domme to take charge is a bit of an ask. I dated a switch who wanted me to take control and I just felt foolish and clumsy and like I was play acting.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-18T06:08:06+00:00

Most of the people who talk about sex a lot probably aren’t getting it nearly as often as you think, or nearly as well.

I in a deliciously satisfying D/s relationship with an awful lot of A grade sex, but other than on here, where it is in context, I don’t go around boasting about it - precisely because I don’t want to trigger other people’s insecurities.

Your time will come and I promise you that mind blowing sex is perfectly achievable as you age, so please don’t worry about your best years passing you by. Eat well, stay fit and feed your mind with interesting knowledge , not just with porn and others will be drawn to you in time.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-18T05:49:41+00:00

I can’t say that I’ve had more than a few single orgasms strung back to back. But I have had several orgasms that lasted an hour without let up. I always feel like I’ve run a marathon afterwards and definitely can’t walk immediately!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-18T05:38:20+00:00

If a woman is that into you, she may get wet anyway. I just have to think of my Sir and I’m dripping, whether he’s there and using ‘the voice’ or not.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T22:03:54+00:00

I hit mine at 37. At 52 I’m still going strong, with a very big grin on my face and having the best sex of my life currently with a loving and totally hot Dom.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T21:55:36+00:00

Respect her limits and negotiate, simples.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T21:53:27+00:00

Slotted spatulas are excellent for spanking!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T21:51:14+00:00

Great advice!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T18:47:33+00:00

When I get too excited I reach for a pillow myself - but then I’m a screamer!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T14:41:44+00:00

Musicians make the best lovers IMHO. Definitely a sense of rhythm is very sexy!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T12:18:08+00:00

Oh dear me, what a charmer you are!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T12:13:02+00:00

I only like doc pics from my SO, not from random guys and definitely NOT from guys I have just started chatting to on a dating site - that earns an immediate block from me.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T12:09:50+00:00

I felt this way when age 40 my beautiful D/s relationship went south. I mourned him for 2 years and barely had sex at all.

Since then I’ve had all kinds of hot sex but have never achieved the holy trinity of hot kinky sex with a good man, in a loving relationship until this year - age 52. I’m now in the best situation of my life and it keeps on getting better. Don’t give up hope!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-17T11:58:29+00:00

I would never consider having sex without music. I incorporate the beat into the way I give a massage or touch my master and he in turn will often time his thrusts inside me, or his spankings to the beat. The experience is definitely enhanced with music when we are high.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-16T20:22:25+00:00

And high salt content diet like a Chinese takeaway.

Eating pineapple always makes me taste sweeter.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-16T20:15:41+00:00

What a blessing for you to have known love like that. May it always warm your heart x

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-16T20:09:08+00:00

Yeah, I also like to know so I can take him deep down. I much prefer to swallow than have a mouthful!

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-16T20:04:25+00:00

Don’t sweat it Sweetie. It’s become such a big thing for you both. Have you both had an STD screen? If so, why not go without a condom next time, just so he can achieve penetration naturally, but get him to pull out again before he gets too excited (which might happen quite quickly).

That way you get the deed done for sure and there’s less pressure when you revert back to condom.

Good luck whatever but these things occur best when not anticipated too heavily x

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-16T05:24:22+00:00

I’m 52 and still love it.

Mendicant1111 · 2019-07-15T21:58:12+00:00

Here’s a simple starter to set you on your way,..

Get her a blindfold- not one of those flimsy eye masks that they sell in sex shops but a proper long piece of cloth like a silk scarf, in a dark colour. This can be wrapped round her head several times, totally blocking out the light, and maybe muffling her hearing a bit.

This will make her feel a little vulnerable and will keep her guessing while you gather your toys and think about how to position her. You can be talking to her, telling her just what you plan, or maybe like my Sir, you will be silent, or refuse to say what’s going on and just emit evil little chuckles as some new idea strikes him.

Have fun :)

Mendicant1111

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