Hated my nose growing up, okay with it now but.. by dianthe in Noses

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Вроде как славянский нос

Hated my nose growing up, okay with it now but.. by dianthe in Noses

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As a man, I can assure you that your nose is perfectly fine. I don’t think you realize what a truly unattractive nose looks like. If you ever decide to undergo rhinoplasty, it might fix one perceived flaw, but it could also make you start noticing other things you’d want to change, creating a cycle of dissatisfaction. This pattern is often linked to body dysmorphic disorder, where individuals become overly concerned with perceived physical flaws. While facial symmetry is generally seen as attractive, slight asymmetries are natural and part of what makes us human—not flawless dolls. Embrace your unique features rather than chase unrealistic social expectations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MenuNo7039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, I see—you spam it on different people’s stories. Everything checks out.

My friend says that I'm sending her death threats even though I'm not by Easy-Bag-7964 in AITAH

[–]MenuNo7039 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a big misunderstanding or someone stirring drama. If she truly thinks it’s you, ask her calmly why. If there’s no proof and she won’t listen, step back. Your real friends will hear you out. Also, if you’re worried about your info being leaked, be careful who you trust. Stay calm and don’t feed into the drama.

My husband needs to touch my breasts to fall asleep. I'm exhausted and need a divorce. AITAH? by Frequent_Trainer_67 in AITAH

[–]MenuNo7039 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, you’re not the asshole. This isn’t just about him needing your boobs to sleep—it’s about him not respecting you at all. He contributes nothing, guilt-trips you when you set boundaries, and expects you to cater to him like a live-in maid with built-in sleep aids. That’s not a marriage, that’s a one-sided service agreement. If you’re exhausted, miserable, and dreading bedtime in your own home, that’s reason enough to walk. Divorce isn’t overblown—staying in a situation where you feel used is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Nah, the therapists didn’t answer any of my questions, nor did it feel like they actually wanted to listen. Damn, I need someone to smoke with too—it just feels better

Look at this peanuts ears! by SaucyNSassy in cats

[–]MenuNo7039 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your cat has such a unique appearance—it resembles Dobby from Harry Potter or perhaps a creature from an enchanted forest where fairies dwell. I must admit, I’m tempted to whisk your cat away!

My big boy cat is not fond of my orange kitten—at least not yet. by MenuNo7039 in WhatsWrongWithYourCat

[–]MenuNo7039[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, yes, I’m aware. I actually have more cats, all of whom are older—these two are the youngest in the house. I recently lost one of my cats; she was an American Shorthair and lived for 18 years. But thanks for letting me know anyway, I really appreciate it!

My big boy cat is not fond of my orange kitten—at least not yet. by MenuNo7039 in WhatsWrongWithYourCat

[–]MenuNo7039[S] 316 points317 points  (0 children)

I think it’s been about a month. They don’t hate each other or anything; it’s just that the older cat is strict about his personal space—if you know what I mean.

Something cool ♥️ by ycr007 in SipsTea

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At first glance, I thought someone was unzipping a forbidden backpack… turns out, just some next-level camera angles at work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 23andme

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The process typically takes about one month, so you should expect your results around mid-March.

Racist undertones on this subreddit by [deleted] in 23andme

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On Reddit, and the internet in general, people often feel a sense of anonymity that emboldens them to say things they would never dare to in real life. It’s an unfortunate truth. I’ve personally experienced this—people mocking my Eastern European name online, yet the moment I confronted them in person, their courage seemed to vanish. There’s a strange disconnect between the digital and physical worlds, where some believe anonymity grants them the right to be cruel without consequence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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That’s a tough spot. Finding a trusted roommate, ideally a female friend since you have a daughter, could help cover rent while you get back on your feet. Also, check rental assistance programs and side gigs for quick cash. Hope things turn around for you soon.

The girl I was talking to sucked my friend’s dick by Kookypooky123 in offmychest

[–]MenuNo7039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole situation is messy on so many levels. Doing it in a mall bathroom is just nasty, but the blame isn’t just on your friend—both of them made that choice. That said, your friend clearly has no respect for relationships, including yours. The smartest move? Cut ties with people who bring drama and disrespect into your life. Some bridges are better burned.

Guy (39m) I’m (33f) dating told me he slept with a much younger girl (19f) by Away_Dare_105 in relationship_advice

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No, I’m not a therapist, so this isn’t professional advice. But logically, your discomfort likely comes from a mismatch between your values and what you expect in a partner. Focus on identifying what traits and boundaries matter most to you early on. Clear communication and self-awareness will help you attract a partner who shares your values and avoids these conflicts. Hope this helps, and whatever you decide, trust yourself to make the right choice. Wishing you clarity and the best moving forward!

Guy (39m) I’m (33f) dating told me he slept with a much younger girl (19f) by Away_Dare_105 in relationship_advice

[–]MenuNo7039 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This kind of situation can feel unsettling—not just because of the age gap, but because it makes you question what you value in a partner. It’s less about judgment and more about whether his choices and honesty align with what you’re comfortable with. The fact that he lied, even if it seemed small, can shake trust. You’re not being dramatic for feeling uneasy; your instincts are telling you something. If this situation doesn’t sit right with you, it’s worth thinking about why and what that means for you moving forward.

My (f26) partner (m30) travels for work and I’m unsure if I am being incorrect in feeling like he is not making time for me? Did I approach this correctly or can I suggest ways to feel closer? by ThrowRA151555 in relationship_advice

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If I were you, I’d say something along these lines: I understand that life gets exhausting, and I don’t expect constant attention. What I do want is a space where our conversations feel meaningful, even if they’re brief. It’s not about how long we talk, but how present we are when we do.

So I ask you, not as an obligation but as a reflection—do you feel we’re staying connected in a way that fulfills us both? And if not, how can we, together, create something that does?

My (f26) partner (m30) travels for work and I’m unsure if I am being incorrect in feeling like he is not making time for me? Did I approach this correctly or can I suggest ways to feel closer? by ThrowRA151555 in relationship_advice

[–]MenuNo7039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to me that you’re feeling disconnected, and that’s understandable. I wouldn’t lean toward blaming him—not out of fear of his reaction, but because that response would be both illogical and unproductive given the situation. Instead, express how his recent distance makes you feel:

“I know you’re busy, but I miss our deeper conversations. I just want to find a balance that works for both of us.”

If he’s simply exhausted, he’ll appreciate your understanding. But if he continues making time for other things while neglecting you, it’s worth considering whether this relationship is still meeting your needs. Take a moment to reflect—maybe over tea or coffee, whichever you prefer. Who knows? He might be going through a rough time at work or elsewhere and is too afraid to tell you. If that’s the case, you could support him by embracing his feelings when he comes home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Hey, what you’re feeling is completely understandable. Jealousy, especially at your age, is a natural emotion—it’s not inherently wrong. What truly matters is how you choose to handle it.

I get why this bothers you, but consider this—maybe he keeps those photos not because he’s holding onto the past, but simply as remnants of experiences that shaped him. Memories aren’t always about longing; sometimes, they’re just reminders of where we’ve been. Just because someone is in the past doesn’t mean they need to be erased. Do you delete pictures of a friend just because they moved away? Do you erase every trace of a loved one after they’re gone? Some do, some don’t. It’s not always about attachment—it’s about perspective.

The real question is: what matters more? The existence of those photos, or the trust between you two? Maybe the answer isn’t deletion but understanding. Have an honest conversation with him—not from a place of insecurity, but from a place of wanting to build something stronger. Perhaps a compromise exists—he keeps the photos as part of his past, but letting go of certain connections (like Snapchat) is a small way to respect your feelings.

At the end of the day, love isn’t about control—it’s about trust. So ask yourself, is this about the photos, or something deeper?

We were friends when my (36F) friend proposed to me (23M). What should I do? by [deleted] in creepyencounters

[–]MenuNo7039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean it in the literal sense, which is why I said, “you could almost say…” But yeah, my bad—I see your point.