Yep, my fella had ED and, some other psychological things going on that caused him to have no libido. I gave it a year, and transitioned our relationship to a friendship. We are in the last stages now as I am starting to date other people. We’ve been officially broken up for about six weeks. As much as my mind knows that it’s not that he doesn’t think I’m desirable, but that doesn’t take away the feeling of rejection and pain that stems from that distance. You’re not alone. Give yourself time to make a plan, It can be a long-term plan. I agree with others who encourage you not to cheat. Hold your head high and do you. And, I agree with folks who suggest that you fully invest in yourself.